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Check in I don't generally post here unless I've got something to say. There are other times, like this when I simply post because damn, it's been a while. My wife's Money woes still concern me. It's been 6 months since we both got serious about it and we're still communicating better than ever. We meet regularly to discuss money and she's paying off her student and car loans. She defaulted on 3 credit cards, and she is being sued by one of them. She'll have to face them eventually. I just want to buy enough time to save up enough money that I feel secure. I don't feel that now. It's not a disaster. We're not going to lose our house or go hungry. It will just be 2 or more years before we can do any work on our house, replace old appliances, go on a nice trip, etc. I suppose that's why I haven't done much. Dating takes money. Sitting on the couch at home is boring, but cost effective. I have to remind myself how much worse things could be. For that matter, it's good to count your blessings no matter what your circumstances. I wish I could live more in the moment; enjoy life and not worry so much about the future. I haven't seen Andrea in maybe three months. I've seen much less of Maggie too. I don't think I've dated anyone new since my last couple blog posts. There's not much to tell in that arena. Erin teaches yoga full time now. I take her class every Saturday if I'm not at drill. It relaxes me. I've been thinking a lot more about my family. My dad recently went through some health problems. My parents are aging and they're 6 hours away. I wish more often that I could spend more time with them. Tricia and I are doing so good. We've been married for 17 years, but it's taken that long to learn how to talk to each other effectively. It's still a work in progress, but we've both demonstrated we can change our attitudes for the better. That's about all. I'll try to check in more often. I really do enjoy sharing my thoughts with you. |
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Glad you checked in. I am here less and less also. Just check in for the blogs now and again. It's as if we are checking in with old friends. Glad things with Tricia are good, except for the finances, but that isn't the end of the world. As long as you have each other, that is really all that matters. Hang in there. Keep in touch... Hugs! I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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