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I know someone right now who is living like your uncle James. He told her he would divorce her unless they had children, so they had only the one. For some unknown reason after they married all sex just stopped. Even in counseling she refused to talk about it, but there has to be some underlying problem. I am thinking abuse in her past. But he says he made a commitment, and he is sticking to it. He loves his child and it has become his everything. He has become a workaholic to compensate somehow, but it never really does. He is a wonderful man with so much love to give. I cannot fathom living that way, in a sexless, unloving marriage. He sleeps on the couch, I am told. Can you imagine doing that for years on end? I wondered what kind of impact this has had on the child. He says he and his wife are like friendly roommates who co parent. He says the child is fine and sees that the way they function as a family has had no adverse effect on the child. But I wonder if that is true. To be brought up without viewing two loving parents. They love the child separately, independent of their own situation. But what are they teaching? They are certainly not good role models for a loving relationship. The child will be going off to college next fall. I wonder then if he will get out of the marriage? I hope so, he deserves some bit of true intimacy in life. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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