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Advice on group sex  

rm_SexyBelle12 44F
57 posts
4/13/2010 3:55 pm
Advice on group sex


In the last few years I have only had a few opportunities for this kind of thing but when I was much younger it was something I regularly enjoyed.

Group sex is exciting but also very intimidating when you start out. My advice is to ease into it without getting in over your<b> head. </font></b>For me it was important to try sex with another couple until I got comfortable with sleeping with several people at the same time. After a while it got my confidence up and I was ready to do it with an additional person.

One thing woman have to get used to when starting a sex life around group sex is being with another woman. I've always been completely straight and am not turned on by woman at all but if you are in a group and another woman is involved eventually you will probably be in a situation where one of you does something with the other one. Give it a try and don't be grossed out or uncomfortable. Most women who are into it are actually very experienced and it can be a fun experience.

Once you feel ready the best group sex a woman can have is with a small number of guys who you trust and are comfortable with. There is something very exciting about being the focus of attention from several attractive men. Make sure you know and trust the guys - all of them. In my experience guys often suggest you sleep with several of their friends and often you have no idea who they are or what they are into. Make sure you are completely familiar with them before you agree to meet. And don't try to meet them for dinner or drinks right before because that just doesn't work.

If you are in a group sex situation and are still a beginer you don't have to take them all on at the same time. Get comfortable by sleeping with one at a time while the others watch. If you're still not sure about this, try sleeping with them one at a time with the other guys waiting their turn in the next room.

Guys, remember that for most women we might be open to group sex but struggle with the idea that doing it might be a big mistake we will regret for the rest of our lives. If we seem nervous or reluctant just have some patience.

Here are a few observations I have about previous experience that guys should keep in mind:

- when you shoot off try to keep it out of our hair. It's very hard to get out and depending on the number of men involved can be hard to explain if we end up going out in public afterwards.

- make sure their are plenty of condoms. If you only bring a dozen or so eventually they run out and some of the guys will still want to continue. Sometimes in the middle of group sex its hard for the woman to draw the line and say she won't sleep with a guy unprotected.

- if you are recording the sex make sure everyone involved agrees about what can be captured on digital video. Guys often want to catch all the action on their cell phones but many women are never happy to have our face on camera when having sex.

- when the woman gets tired it may not be time to break up the party. Usually when the woman asks for a rest some guys start heading out and all she wants is an hour to rest and catch her breath.

- discuss how much time everyone has and keep an eye on your watch or alarm on your cell. Many times people get so into what is going on they forget how late it is and miss work, other appointments or getting back to family and are unable to explain where they are.

- have group sex in a place where there is a shower and let the woman wash off alone. I've had friends get stuck in situations where they couldn't shower later and it was very inconvient to go home or find a place to bathe. I usually wanted to shower at home after sex but some woman want to shower on site. This is a real shower and not sex in the shower so give the woman her time.

- afterwards make sure to clean up after yourselves. Group sex can be very messy and leaving the last person or the homeowner to clean up themselves can very unfair.

- have kleenex and towels available. This helps keep the situation was getting too messy and requireing extensive clean up.

- arrange to have one person act as host of the event. Its easier to follow some of these tips and have fun when someone takes it upon themselves to see that things are getting down and there is some order to the whole event.

These are all the things i can think of but if anyone has anything to add just let me know.

Alice

rm_luv2fuku2010 51M/52F
15 posts
5/25/2010 2:24 pm

very helpful... thanks Alice.


Hot4ubaby272 45F  
670 posts
4/16/2010 3:44 pm

All good advice


Extramist 66M
14079 posts
4/13/2010 9:26 pm

I am not into the group sex thing myself, but I can see that you have given it a great deal of thought. It seems to me that all of your suggestions are excellent.

AKA The Clit Whisperer.


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