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I have to agree to your definition of being sexy and would also add that being sexy can throw up a lot of challenges in life probably best only shared in a relationship with one that's lid fits your own pot. xoxo
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Sexy to me is being smart, attractive, personality, passionate, and lust for life.
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"Sexy is a person who understands that sexy is an attitude that comes from within. All else is just window dressing.." Well Joy I would definitely like to get my hands on your "window dressing"
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12/8/2021 11:03 am |
Sometimes we put ideas in an either/or way of seeing things when actually, if we're being truthful, it really is both/and. At present I have a 28yrs old, very attractive young lady that I've been chatting with for several months now. I would put her in the sexy category while at the same time having to put an asterisk on it. She has all the physical attributes of being desirable. She is definitely sexually oriented. But I feel that her maturity level is sadly lacking. There is also the psychological question as to why a young lady that age would greatly desire a sexual relationship with a man my age. What IS sexy is having a relationship with someone with whom you don't have walk on egg shells. I hate having to guard what I put into words/text that I am actually thinking. I think it was a Dumbledor quote that stated: Youth cannot now how age thinks and feels but old men are guilty if they forget what it was to be young. In my case, very apropos. As alluring as this 28 yr old is, my interest in her is waining before we even get around to meeting. Yes, love that she has that flat, taut tummy. Yes I love that her breasts have no sage to them and she doesn't have to wear a bra. I like the youthful enthusiasm and adventurism. But honestly, give me a WOMAN. A woman who has life's experiences, hopefully some hard ones to mellow her out (hardships humble). The both/and for me is that she is HWP if not actually athletic/fit, mature, respectful, down-to-earth, can hold a conversation about things other than herself, is attractive in the face, doesn't have to be asked to slip her arm within my while we walk. And this is a big one... knows how to kiss. Doesn't mind me being silly at times and doesn't take personal offense at my witticisms. Someone who is actually interested in me and is will to let me know the real her. Sexy does not have to involve actual intercourse though it can add a dimension, a deeper level to intimacy. Acceptance, appreciation, non-judgmental all the while able disagree without feeling intimidated for doing so. Sexy is a lot of things when you come right down to it.
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What sexy means to me has always been the same; sexy is whatever turns me on but what turns me on has changed over the years. Bodies are less and personalities are more sexy now than before. 
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And you my dear are a fine example of sexy !!!
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I agree with all your definitions as initial physical attraction is often obviously sexual, 'tho if the personality is absent it is just not as sexy as you so clearly say & the real intimacy is unlikely to follow; I have xpereinced the sexual attractions of a few past lovers 'tho the "relationships" did nt last long without that "sexiness" to stimulate my mind too; good post, thanks for sharing/ asking, & big warm horny hugs to you from London UK
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12/8/2021 2:13 pm |
I'd have to totally agree that sexy changes as we age. When young, I had no interest in a woman in her 40s or 50s; they were mothers of my friends, and reserved for when you couldn't get someone your own age! (hence, the birth of the expression "Motherfuckers") LMAO Today, though, I see older women very differently. Also, what I consider sexy is more about an attitude than just looks alone! It really is a blend of physical attraction, intelligence, and sultry attitudes!
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Sexy... sexy... mmm ... me parece que conozco alguien así ... ja, ja. Yo creo que sexy es una cuestión de actitud, como somos y como nos mostramos en la vida. Los hay naturalmente sexys y otros que tenemos que esforzarnos... ja, ja. Pero todo viene desde que nos vamos moldeando con las vivencias desde pequeños hasta lo que somos. Pero la actitud es primordial. Besos... sexy amiga
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I agree. One thing I find sexy is confidence. Another is being able to have and keep a great attitude. The same with a great conversation. And also, it helps when you look as great as you do. Thanks for the "Joy" in life.
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great post ... sexiness is defined by each generation ..... thank god we moved past the Victorian age...
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When you combine the great inner sexiness with the great outer sexiness, it can be a potent combination. I guess my sexiness is my humor and being daring. By the way, it was sunny outside today where I am and I got totally naked in the forest. Stay tuned! 😉 Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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 ... this is sexy for me!!!!  [image]
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Sexy is confidence, intelligence, kindness, a light from within
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12/9/2021 5:52 am |
I wasn't born yesterday, my dear. From the very outset she maintained that she would always pay for her own. Money is not the issue. Her emotional state is. I am beginning to think she is bi-polar. She has erupted over me having a simple difference of opinion. Then maybe a week later she will write to me as if nothing happened and if I refer to it at all, I get a simple, We're good. I once dated a young woman who acted in very much the same manner so I am both wary and gentle. I think she likes older men because they are concerned about her and somewhat protective. I kind of pity her to tell you the truth.
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Sexy has definitely changes for me as I get older. I watch moms and grandmoms now in stores as opposed to the college girls. Sexy is sending notes during the day, or cooking a surprise dinner because its someones favorite. Of course, stockings and no panties under the table never hurts !
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Sexy is what I want it to be. What is sexy to one person may not be sexy to anther .
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pure chemistry....to be tested and savoured
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Sexy to me is far more than looks. Do I appreciate the socially accepted norms of beauty? Absolutely. But looks matter little if the interior is lacking. The two things that get my juices flowing for real are humor and intelligence. I'm not threatened by a woman who is smarter than me. If anything that just feels right. If you can make me laugh or impress me with an imagination and ability to express it fully, then I am putty in your hands. Hard putty of course. My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Ms. author51, "1.Now what is yours? 2.What does t h e term SEXY mean t o you? 3.Has it changed over the years ?" 1. To me sexy is the whole package, not just her looks, the way she carries herself, or the way she dresses. 2. Sexy is a state of mind and being. Some women just ooze sexy. It could be the way she smiles or the glint in her eye. It is hard to describe, but most know it when the see it. 3. Yes it has. Before it was just her attractiveness that was sexy, but now it is the whole of herself. What I find sexy has changed as I have aged, but to a certain extent so has what I find attractive. Maturity has broadened my outlook.
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I'm sexy?? Oh my! My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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