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My Profile (For Standard Members)  

rm_SensualSapio 76M
8 posts
8/29/2016 12:26 pm
My Profile (For Standard Members)


THE LONG AND THE SHORT OF IT

THE SHORT VERSION

A long profile sometimes confuses rather than clarifies.

So here is the short version ...

Experienced educated guy, with hands that touch guided by a sensitive mind.
Not looking for 1 night connections.Does want to connect and to develop an ongoing relationship with someone who is looking for a way to meet regularly and explore all that is possible physically, both sensually and sexually.

Hoping for something that can grow into more over time (see the Long Version below).

THE LONG VERSION

What I Like

I like sharing great conversation, doing things together that intrigue us both, extending sensuality into sexuality, and exploring ways in which we can intensify the experience of relating for us both: - sometimes that involves spending time talking or doing things together that are not sexual, sometimes it does.

Words, images, art, the Internet and fulfilling work are all large parts of my life.

The Way that I Prefer to Relate to the Women (and Men) in My Life

I have moved beyond traditional ideas about monogamy being the only possibility, without being loose or casual about relating. It took 2 "forever" marriages to show me that life is more complicated than that.

An initial 2 person friendship can grow into something more complete and complicated. I have come to know that human beings need companionship, and that companionship can extend to more than 1 person.

My Values Around Honesty

Once I start to relate to someone, I am completely open about the rest of my life. I am not out to "collect" conquests. I am open to more complex ways of relating than traditional 2 person arrangements.

I know that some of the ladies on this site will view this with suspicion, as just another excuse for a man to screw around. I don't screw around. Sex as part of an ongoing friendship makes sense to me. Sex for the sake of sex with any partner feels much to random.

I am looking for meaningful connection, and like sex enough to appreciate women who just want to share on this level, while I explore the possibility that there may be multiple longer lasting. committed relationships in the last decades of my life.

Going Strong

The fact is that I wake regularly with strong erections. The women of all ages that I see at my fitness club turn me on. The women I work with intrigue me with their professionalism, their strong intellects and their bodies.

I want sensual / sexual connections ...
(from soft sensuality to strong, energetic and even to non physically marking kinky) ...
to be part of my life until the day I take my last breath.

"Sex at Dawn" - the book by Christopher Ryan - makes a lot of things that I that been aware of most of my life much clearer for me. It also helps me understand the range of desires that I see in the women who are here on this site.

What I Am Looking For In Connections

I am looking to form lasting friendships with a number of folks who are interested in exploring the last decades in our lives together.

But the only way to get there is to first meet folks one on one. So I am open to a wide variety of ways of connecting, from well formed, FWB relationships to more committed forms of being together.

But I think that I must be honest and say that unless something unexpected happens, I am no longer a traditional 2 person elusive long term relationship minded person. But I remain open to the possibility of meeting a woman whose presence and being being just enthralls me.

I might very well be a person who is prepared to be in a more complex 3 or 4 or 5 or .... person exclusive relationship. I am looking for stability in my relationships. The full range of emotional intimacy between people takes work and a willingness to be vulnerable. In my experience that works best in a long term relationship. It also changes the nature of physical intimacy.

By contrast, I have learned that physical intimacy, which also takes skill and experience and a willingness to let go personally and to give to the other courageously, can happen in a friendship which is less than sharing a full committed life connection.

The form of marriage relationship in Robert Heinlein's "The Moon is A Harsh Mistress" appealed to me as a lover of science fiction. They do so again now as a person who has tried traditional exclusive relationships in his life and found them fragile when subjected to the stress of long lives and professional careers.

My Interests and Activities - Can We Share Some of Them?

I read extensively. I write, both fiction and non fiction. I appreciate well crafted words, hoping my own pass that test with my readers. I am passionate about the potential and the future of e-learning and the Web.

I look after myself physically and am much more active than the majority of folks who I meet who are my age.

Books, large dogs, horses, a sound ecological future, movies, theater, art, photography, nature, computer technology and tantric sex are all things that intrigue me.

Me and Touch and Open Minded Sexual Expression

I adore touch and all that it can lead to, both soft sensual touch, and when agreed to, the harder ways in which more forceful, more energetic touch can express emotions and connection. Betty Vernon's book "The Boudoir Bible" pretty well describes what I have believe about the physical side of relating.

The Pictures I Have Up Here

As a photographer who spends most of his time behind the other side of the camera, I don't have a lot of photo's of myself.

Last but not least

More and more in the last years, I have drifted towards writing<b> erotica.
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You can find them here by clicking on the My Blog button up above.

About Personality Types

For those of who who are curious about this, I am an Expressive INTJ. I have worked extensively with the Myers-Briggs personality profile of years, especially an extended version of it called the MBTI Step II. Based on that experience, I can tell you that is possible to learn behaviors which are opposite to your MBTI type. It has been a fun part of my life to become increase my interpersonal skills, and use them to be more effective both at work and in the ways that I relate to people. It is really fun to get into conversations with people about their MBTI preferences express themselves in their sexual interactions. I look forward to exploring this with any who is interested, and with women that I am attracted to and that are attracted to me, in behavior, both day to day and sexual.

I Was Told I Needed to Add This ...

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My Ideal Connection .... ....

You are:
... Self aware
... Graceful in your sense of self
... Confident
... committed to looking after your health
... Open to exploring what can be in your life

... as interested in the talk and the sharing of interests that is part of relating as physical side of things

... intrigued by exploring the depths of what is possible in pleasure giving and taking, ranging from soft sensual exchange to harder, more energetic, forms of interacting

Thanks for visiting
Hope that my words
Left you with a stirring
or a thought
or two

Leave a comment please
even it is only a word or two ...


1deeptouch 71F  
114 posts
9/15/2016 6:55 am

Thank you for such depth of awareness, both your own and of others.


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