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Control and Power
Control and Power I am not a control junkie by any means in my everyday life. Relationships with family, friends, coworkers even past relationships there was never an element of control or power in my part. Ironiy since breaking up and becoming single Ive become very "DOM" like with the men Ive been meeting and dating. I dont know if its due to my anger from a breakup, or the stage of my life or what.. All I know is, I become a character or a different person as of late when I date or meet a man.. Control and power not just sexually but in everything. Ive been telling it how it is, and how it should be and if he doesnt listen hes g. From start to end, from the moment I meet the guy to the moment I leave his bed the next morning it seems I have been ing a role. And I LOVE IT!! So I suppose thats why Im here. Its a fetish. Im no leather and whip DOM Matrix, but I do feel an edge. Like and evolving. And Im really enjoying it. More importantly Im enjoying the self reflection after. I even dug a heel into a mans rear the other night and had him me by my last name the whole night. Who am I? lol. I dont know, but I like it. |
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Do you have to know who you are all the time, or just act in the moment and see what happens? Go with the new you Brooke! Paul
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1/18/2018 12:51 pm |
you can dom me anytime
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Very sexy. Ola eu sou MassiveGuy ,e gostaria de conhecer melhor as mulheres que por aqui andam.
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I appreciate yr honesty; you are a soul in seeking mode and sounds smart for yr age. Women like you makes the sex more demanding and exciting for us men; young or old. Continue with yr open ways; hope to see you some time; lol
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Who are You ? All men would like to know .. I think so
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3/13/2018 2:25 am |
cel madame please Sr. Ksathra
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4/12/2018 10:39 pm |
Allyson, it seems to me you're reacting, enjoying your freedom since your breakup. Many years ago, after my wife passed away in an auto accident I started dating again many months later. To my surprise, most of the women I dated had just ended a relationship either through death, divorce or breakup, etc. What really shocked me, and admittedly to my VERY pleasant surprise, was their willingness to jump into bed with me on the first date! They were all VERY aggressive (to my delight, btw). Like you, the ladies were now free to explore, expand their horizons and take on the world. Many had lost weight, working out doing all those things that had smothered them for so long. Especially sexually! They wanted to explore their sexuality, try group sex, anal sex, crazy stuff even go to sex clubs! They were exploding with desire and curiosity in doing all those forbidden things they heard and read about. Needless to say I was ready to comply and help fulfill their many fantasies! LOL Welcome to the club, Allyson. Ray
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Hello Allyson, maybe with this break you became aware that you had a domineering character. On one side, it should not displease to some, on the contrary Must say that with such a pretty face, I would be willing to let me do all your desires and all your fantasies ...: p
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Every curve you have is wonderful ... from you lips to your locks
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1 post 9/8/2018 8:28 pm |
Such a sexy chick
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9/30/2018 4:12 am |
Experimenting with control, enjoying the feeling of control, it is all fine if there is consent. And consent evidently means control is always shared. Control without consent however, well that often is an expression of fear. It is not always easy to draw the line between one and the other. But it is a line to always be aware of that it exists. You can lose yourself by lacking control, but also when control becomes a compulsion … which really is the loss of all control.
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You could dominate me anytime babe, I'd be at your beck and call?.
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11/12/2018 7:28 am |
Power is just an illusion! You wouldn’t be like that if the people you meet wouldn’t enjoy playing submissive or seeing what they can get from you by playing your game! Who has the power really? Can a Dom even exist without a Sub? What happen when a Sub denies his/her Dom the power? I am just playing the advocate’s Devil here ... it was nice talking to you the other night you got me laughing and somehow felt very intimate like I have always known you! That’s your real power... connecting with people!
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11/12/2018 8:01 am |
Devil’s advocate .. lost in translation.. sorry!
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1/6/2019 3:26 pm |
the lines blur a bit dont they.... lol but its ok its fun opening new doors and seeing where it takes you x
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4/1/2019 6:58 am |
people on here don’t know the real you ... isn’t that part of the fun and why this site exists?
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8/7/2019 9:08 am |
Hot picture! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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3/14/2020 3:50 am |
Awesome! You are so sexy...Love your pics/profile xx
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welcome
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Gorgeous young lady......mmm xx
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4/27/2020 8:15 pm |
You are so awesome Allyson! Loved it xx
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attractiv
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very nice face
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I like very much what you wrote I wish you courage and a lot of pleasure. I kiss you tenderly sweet sensual beauty.
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7/7/2020 5:45 am |
I like your attitude. You'll go far in your chosen path. Feed your passion
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I still love you whatever you do or say. ...\8
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1 post 10/27/2020 10:57 pm |
Sounds like a fun evening...
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Well Stated... Just be yourself...
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12/9/2020 3:57 am |
I believe the reason for being controlling has to do with anger and frustration from within as in past traumas ,bad experiences etc , I also believe once your in alignment with yourself you will become less controlling because when you’re in harmony and understand who you are as a person then there is no need to control things they just flow .
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1/17/2021 8:35 pm |
I suppose that if you had been controlled before your breakup, this may be your alter ego coming out as a protection against having that done to you again. But Allyson, girl, learn to switch it up sometimes or you'll get burned out on being in control all the time. But you have to learn as you go, as we all do. Still think you're gorgeous, Baby Doll !!
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I'd agree with some of the comments, sounds like you had a boyfriend whom wasn't very nice, too domineering and you're looking for a little payback, channeling that sexual energy into something. I like what you're doing. I like a girl that gives the works but isn't too domineering. I like a mix of hard and soft sex, foreplay. I like your photo with curlies and big glasses. Very hot.
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2/6/2021 12:54 am |
its great you are finding out this new side to yourself and are getting a chance to live it
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2/12/2021 2:21 pm |
Do you come armed with a strap-on?
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Wuerde dich so gerne kennenlernen!! Finde dich einfach interessant! Liebe Gruesse
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Just keep em all guessin girl
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Depende de cuanto quieras ser dominante pero de ser dominante a querer meter un tacón de zapato en mi trasero no creo no me gustaría claro hay quien le gusta eso y mas .............
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Me encanta tu foto muy linda
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5/1/2021 6:05 pm |
Dominate me ...if you dare! lol
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1 post 7/29/2021 2:46 am |
Grear mind
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Allyson, you know I like who/what you are, and I am still waiting for your written reply? You can always dominate me when you want. Hugs and kisses
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je t'adore
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9/22/2021 8:49 am |
sexy has fuck. Love this
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