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This isn't a club or bus stop!!
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This isn't a club or bus stop!! So yes, Sunday is my pedicure day and it gives me time to reflect and write. I should start an official dating blog called Sunday Pedicures with SmileBiSexy. Hey, how's it going? How is your day going? You're hot and I'd like to get to know you better. One line messages. You guys love to send them. I suppose they wouldn't be so problematic if the guys who sent them didn't have mostly blank profiles that consist of little more than a vague general sentence or two about how they're "a laid back, chill, adventurous guy looking for some sexy fun." Of course the blank profile almost always has zero face pic and a bunch of dick pics. (we especially love the dick pics of you sitting on your toilet, yea cus that's sexy...no it's not, please stop posting them) You know, I make it a point on my profile to give as many hints, secret handshakes and prompts to help men get out of their own way and find success if they're interested in meeting me. Send me a polite, respectful message introducing yourself, make the effort, use some creativity and tell me something interesting or unique about yourself. Would you care to guess how many men actually read my profile and follow those simple prompts? Yes, you're right; probably the same number of men who actually read my<b> blogs. </font></b>How hard is is it to send a nice message introducing yourself and giving the person you're interested in a reason to be interested in you? Apparently, impossible for the rank and file men on BBWMatchMate. What I get from 9 out of messages is - "Hey saw your profile, you're hot. Would love to know more" SMH insert eye roll. C'mon, if you can't put the effort into reading my profile first (which contains all the answers you'll need to meet me) then you've already swung and missed, strike one. I don't ask for much at all. Don't need a man who is hung like a , not a size queen nor am I a super model - so general average guy looks, average middle age guy shape is fine. But christ on a cracker, if you're interested in meeting someone and hooking up - isn't it YOUR job to get their attention, introduce yourself and offer something that makes them want to meet YOU? Is that not how it works any longer? Even IF you were absolutely one of the most handsome sexiest men ever...you'd still need to introduce yourself properly. Otherwise, how else is someone going to be interested in meeting you? Yet, guys still treat messages as if they're standing next to you at the bus stop or in a club. Listen, if we randomly met at a bus stop and you turned to me, smiled and said, "Hi, how's your day/night going." Then yes, by all means, striking up a conversation in such a manner is perfectly acceptable and I may even be interested. Even if you approached me in a club and told me, "You have beautiful eyes and I just love your smile" then that might spark a conversation or favorable response. But we're not at a bus stop, this isn't even a virtual night club; so y'all need to step up your game cus public ice breakers don't transfer well online. I've asked plenty of guys why they keep using these dull ice breakers and the overwhelming generic hive mentality excuse universally used by ALL whom I've asked is typically wrapped up in "why spend all that time on a message introducing yourself when it's only going to get ignored?" Oh Yea, that's a winning attitude. Defeatism is not a cute look fellas. Still, the worst responses I get are from the cowardly dull fools who somehow believe if they send out their 'How was your day?/you're gorgeous' compliment style message - it's them being kind and generous and of course deserves a favorable response because apparently I must be a mean person to not be interested in their dull pick up line. No therapy in the world is going to change those entitled delusional types who whine because their self proclaimed privilege has been washed away by the decades. In closing, I'll offer this; less than minimal effort does not entitle anyone to maximum results. So, if you're only willing to send some dull one line message which fails to introduce yourself and build some interest; then don't whine about how no one responds and everyone on BBWMatchMate is a fake or a flake. The problem is your lack of effort results in the other person's lack of interest. That is how it works. Always has, always will. At least its not as bad as the fools who simply click the flirt button and magically believe the other person will make the first move and message them! Sheesh, talk about lazy ass f*ckers. hahaha. Ok time for manicure, no more typey... |
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