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Unexpected attention  

hedforyou 72M  
139 posts
7/29/2021 6:24 am

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7/31/2021 7:15 am

Unexpected attention


After being on this site for ?? say 15 years - I dont remember and aint going up now - all of the sudden I have drawn the attention of people ordinarily wouldnt give me the time of day.

I am gay ( fag or queer in their language) . I think the attention is attributable the post about the couple asking me what I was doing on this site? Or it might be the post about straight guys in need of a hole and because they picked a manhole instead of a cunthole they turned queer.
?????????????????

Get a life. Start having SEX instead of fantasizing about it. Do it with whoever or whatever floats your boat and stop condemning people who arent afraid of SEX.

I also recommend looking into how to understand sarcasm.

Twit

plzthese40ds 49M/46F

7/30/2021 2:31 am

It isn't unexpected attention that you are getting lately. It is actually expected attention. Let me explain. The reason that your blogs are on fire lately is because your name is enlisted on the blacklist exposure sites such as wamia, watchdog and faceblast to name a few by numerous members for what others claim to be rude and unacceptable behavior. I am not going to get into the finger pointing part of that all but it includes all kinds of evidence collected for whatever their violations are like pics of emails and pics of being blocked and screen captured convos and blog convos and so on. Once generated on the forums you are essentially toast because people can never justify their innocence when proof shows otherwise and it is recirculated to the thousands of watchers belonging to the groups and forwarded to other sites and to locals in or around your your area on sites like this and targeted to people who fit your sexuality and search criteria and so forth. A lot of it used to be manually done by a few dozen busy moderators years ago but now a lot of that is now submitted for review and then automated AI does a lot of the rest of the circulation process. We are not in the old days anymore where people can just do whatever without criticism or no accountability for bad behavior things. Like I said I'm not pointing fingers or taking sides on this one because I really don't want to get involved in the drama. What happens is that when you either get rude or block people then the forum strikes against you are doubled, tripled, quadrupled, and so on. That means when one person is treated bad or blocked it will generate two strikes against you. That's bad because you get mirrored twice. So for every time you do that to a new member OR if someone submits proof that a new member was treated bad or blocked then that too will mirror two more strikes. That keeps going on forever like that because it is designed to squash that member and his or her odds through exposing proof and behavior things to people of the public who are either on sites like this or who check into databases like that for background checks when considering people they start talking to on sites like this and it is super effective. I am also a very long time member here and I will say that you are getting the attention because of what I explained and it has nothing to do with anything you are talking about from your second paragraph on. It has everything to do with the bad behavior and interaction things that are being claimed against you by hundreds of people and circulated all over the place. A friendly word of wisdom is to interact better and not block because I think it should not be thought of as unexpected attention if you are provoking the retaliation from claims against you. After all this is a blog and the full purpose of blogs are to interact. Maybe that helps to better debunk your mystery more. Hope that helped some.


plzthese40ds 49M/46F

7/30/2021 2:50 am

One other thing I forgot to note is that your blog count went down from 133 to 125 posts in a day. I don't know why that is and I assume you have deleted 8 of them. I say this because these AI programs also keep statistics of all kinds of things like that on display. It isn't to say there is anything right or wrong in that but that kind of monitoring is done because there is a lot of deletes and coverups that happen when instances like yours go on and start going viral. Just a heads up.


hedforyou 72M  
45 posts
7/30/2021 10:28 am

It is what it is. I am sure once people are spending less time indoors in front of a computer and doing other things, the know it all's will no longer be bothered with or by seniors like me
Now that I have a different view of what might be happening I actually welcome the attention. Unfortunately its mostly female.
The rest of the commentary is written in invisible ink.


plzthese40ds 49M/46F

7/31/2021 1:24 am

Yes it is what it is. This system of organized exposure has been going on a long time now and long before the covid thing. The earliest I remember hearing of these things was probably about a decade ago or maybe longer but back then it was more of an underground kind of thing by a handful of people and lots was done manually. Today it has become more mainstream and automated and monitored. I will have to say that it's a good thing because it keeps everybody in check knowing that we are all being held accountable for our own actions and behavior and it is a good database for background checks before getting involved with people with a bad report too. I really think the beauty to the whole system is that it bases it's striked members exclusively by proof and evidence like screen captures and not just by heresay rumors through text complaints. Plus it goes through moderators before things are published and circulated around. A great system and it is really super effective. The shame in the whole matter is that systems like this have to exist in the first place because if society actually acted respectful and people were kind to each other like in the old days then it wouldn't be necessary to have exposure systems like that in place. Like you said it is what it is. We can't control society. We can only control our own actions and decisions and behavior we all choose to make. The only other thing for people to do otherwise is to stick up for theirself and enforce and demand to be treated right like a human being and I think that's what the systems are all about. It's about demanding change through personal accountability and done so by testimony and proof. Nothing is of greater importance for success on sites like these than someone's own clean reputation.

Anyway I was glad to give you better insight and I'm glad you welcome attention more. I'm sure some males are stopping by. It's just that females by nature are usually more inclined to interact and reply to blogs.
Have a good one.


hedforyou 72M  
45 posts
7/31/2021 7:15 am

You are correct about who is more likely to react and not.

I work down the road from the super spies. I do understand the need for AI to scan and am not concerned in the least unless the powers that be diced once again to label men like myself - senior or no - as security risks. But why? If the world sort of already knows who's going to try to hustle me? Kind of stupid.
As for violence ? I might be unkind but nothing about my blogs says violent or misogyny.
If sexual disinterest in the female is viewed as misogyny then Webster needs to rewrite.

In any event, power to the snoops and the spies and the feint of heart and the pusillanimous, the do gooders the sweeties and maybe some of the "sourers"
Webster really will want to do a rewrite after that.


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