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Sex and the lockdown  

DorsetLes 34F
17 posts
4/3/2020 2:43 am
Sex and the lockdown

The problem with dating right now is that fundamentally it's a social activity and socilaising is verboten.

Undoubtedly it's a bit of a bummer for the sexually active and especially those in non-committed or polyamorous relationships which depend on intimacy with more than one person.

Certainally aspects of our lives need to be to be put on hold - despite our desires we have to remain good citizens but that doesn't mean no sex at all, although how much, with whom, where and when depend on your risk profile.

Personally I have though decided to use the time to rein back on sex and rediscover intimacy - fortunately I have one very special lady where there is chemistry in abundance and we now have time to explore and rediscover each other as we have done over the last two years since we first hooked up. Conversation flows and simple things like playing with hair and gentle touch see us drift with no rush into the familar relationship, as always her loving domme nature feeds and nurtures my submissiveness. Much of this is unspoken and implicitly understood by both of us. She knows that anything and everything she requests will not be refused, her desire to experiment to push the boundaries adds to the whole experience. As we do I feel her stress levels drop and energy levels rise and mine correspondingly rise too, I know the effect on her is equal to that she has on me.

So the lockdown need not to be a full stop but a time to reconnect, use this time preciously and waste it wisely.

lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
4/3/2020 3:10 am

 Great post McSet, good points well made.

For couples who are active sexually, or better still, not so active, this is great advice.

I guess a lot of people who are not so lucky will need to find another outlet. Fine for guys generally, we seem to enjoy the more visual aspects of porn (for example). Girls, not so much.

I think this is a great opportunity for meeting online, then following it up with a real life meeting when things settle down.

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1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
4/3/2020 5:08 am

 Good advice and time to reconnect with partner. Sadly lots are looking for instant hook up, this is not a good time for that. I am looking for a little more.. keep safe everyone


SxyLatinJazz_4u 50M
157 posts
4/4/2020 5:52 am

 Really like this advice... this is really a great opportunity get to know someone more intimately and bond more closely.


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