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2/2/2021 3:55 am

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BLOW JOBS

YOUR COMMUNICATIONS WITH ...

Not a GOLD MEMBER here yet, so I cannot respond flirts, Msg..., or on Message Center. HENCE, as some like complete_service69 sometime found an a, an o, an l, periodcom

A separate email from here, is most discreet and efficient, as you or don t have worry about bad timing of messaging (always wrong...), or worry about erasing communications on your phone, alarms...or membership issues. If don t receive an email from you as above, I conclude you are just a viewer, dreamer or simply not interested


I like open & honest communications, I do not have anything hide and I am very comfortable with myself. I hope you too, else life is passing you in ways you have yet to figure out.

Despite the fact we all have the most sophisticated communications tools, even with a site like this one, there is a lot of and miss, as most people seem to agree. Why is that you figure...Why people screw up what should be important and clear communications towards planning the most satisfying and fun moments we have each weeks, while also managing not to be late, or it being an issue for a dental appointment, or to instantly attend to yet another useless phone alarm-inquiry, or social pretend media love-myself crap, really does baffles me !

We all chose to either spend and waste time according to our priorities I reckon. I just joined during the pandemic, so I don t truly know members here. I figure now is time for networking with serious guys, in view of getting very real in-person post-pandemic. Time to have and complete a list of serious guys, not beginners, or bi-curious may be candidates about to waste my much needed QUALITY TIME. I will not want to waste any time on-line, as I have a lot of catching up on all that good sucking and , I missed since the March 2020 start of the pandemic ! Ya, I am very horny to say the least, but not enough to have disregarded health and safety like most sane people.

LETS EMAIL, PLAN and GET ORGANIZED NOW during this IDLE pandemic period, SO WE WILL WASTE no TIME when in Post PANDEMIC to GET VERY REAL with our UPCOMING FUN ENCOUNTERS, I suspect will be INTENSE and BUSY to CATCH UP on MUCH NEEDED HORNY SEXUAL ACTIVITIES.

Exploring our own sexuality if a lifetime process, I thin Some who more openly explore early, discover more and enjoy more quickly take advantage of opportunities with the right and open partners. Having a more experienced partner speed up our personal discoveries significantly, if that partner is patient enough. Some guys, are so hesitant or afraid for whatever reason, they likely will remain permanently just curious, and miss on intense sexual opportunities with men, i.e. an important portion of all human partners !

I enjoyed multiple women + being with a nympho chick for about 8 months, as she did too. Thankfully, a gay man was very turned on me decades ago, when I was just straight, and he skillfully and patiently became my partner and coach for 3 . What I did not know or experienced before, indeed I did not miss. However, since then, everything changed for . I wish I knew what I know now, at a much earlier age.

My health is #1, I eat no red meat, nearly vegan, I have no health issues and do not take any pills at all. I have stamina for days (no blue pills for sure), so be advise, prepare, train, plan and keep up, else I need know before for more guys, or as a Sports has always been part of my lifestyle, e.g. playing hockey, bike or play tennis for 2 +3 hours every , or every other .

Bottom line, partners usually cannot keep up with , they usually some point ask for a break, or need rest. I still enjoy sex with women, but absolutely love and prefer intense sex with men. It can be just me servicing fully, and yes, I am very happy with that, or it can be full throttle with guy who is fully versatile and with a lot of stamina. Ideally, better fewer, but with quality healthy, safe and regular partner(s) is what I focus on.

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BLOW JOB BASICS

PASSIONATE ABOUT THE ART OF GIVING INTENSE BLOW JOBS (BJ)


First a BJ, is the wrong term, it is not a job me, it is my ultimate pleasure aside from getting fucked. Since most of us both give and receive, we definitely know what sets a good one apart, hence we do remember. We often know from personal experience what you shouldn’t do when blowing a guy as well. Just remember, sucking your cock is for me a PRIVILEGE I want repeat as often as possible first for , and ultimately for you appreciate + remember a long time ! Here is some key aspects I go when I suck a cock, or, more like I make love it.

1. The road happiness.

Yes, penises are extremely exciting and you may well not be able wait get your hands on it, but the build-up us just as important. A good BJ begins even before the zip is open... I then unzip slowly, so not create tension but also avoid an emergency dash the hospital – and sensuously. Once opened, or unbuttoned, gently I slide his trousers down over his hips and down to his thighs, like there’s an unexploded bomb within – which there kind of is if you think about it. Tenderly, I like to run my hand along the waistband of his underwear, touch his penis through the fabric very gently, almost imperceptibly. And when he can take no more, when he’s begging, and promising to hand over his PIN and the keys to his car, it’s time to get going for me.

OK, so I start slowly, kiss, touch and lick almost every part of him that isn’t the penis. Why? Well, it’s great to watch him squirm, for one, but mainly because it’s . Build up to maybe a little tongue contact on the head or round the sides, back to the top of his thighs and then, when he is least expecting it, I go full plunge. I make sure I use my tongue as much as possible as I move my mouth up and down and around – sucking it like it’s a lollipop isn’t hugely pleasurable – and don’t feel any pressure to have all of him in my mouth all times. Being able to see some of his penis while I suck it will actually be a turn-on: "My how big you are! I can’t even take all of you in!" If he starts forcing my head down harder, it might just be a sign he’s getting over excited rather than a criticism. If my throat is filing a complaint, I may put some light restriction and hold his hands down, or have to pause to breath...

Sucking the balls is essential, but using my tongue to trace that little line between the scrotum and anus (aka the perineum) will really make my men lose their mind. Oral sex isn't just about the penis, but the whole area around it too. It's like a bomb, and the penis is ground zero, but there's a whole shockwave that goes out from there. Kissing men his inner thigh, and the part of this groin between his thigh and scrotum, and the scrotum itself…

2. Tossing the salad.
Forget the stigma that rimming is just something for gay men. Anyone with a penis feels pleasure. At the minimum, you don't have to stick a finger in, and it's definitely enough to just touch the outside. It obviously needs to be clean, but then use a lot of saliva and do a circular motion around the anus, as well as running my tongue up and down the anus-to-scrotum hotline is well appreciated…

3. You talk and I'll listen.
Men's pleasure is tied to what they see and hear as well, so let out a few moans like me and it is great feedback we both are tasting something truly delicious and hence need repeating…

I keep an eye on my partner, up to see how he’s going. He’ll like that. It’s a chance to check whether he’s enjoying himself or bored of his mind. I listen, too. Some men get self-conscious making too much noise so you should encourage him to break that. Either I talk and ask if he likes it or say I want to hear him and make it clear I mean moans of pleasure, or commands it. If all else fails, I make silence impossible and may tweak a nipple harder.

4. The "G-spot."
Being both adventurous, and we're down for exploring each other's anus, the G-spot (which is actually the prostate) is about one finger-length from the entrance. At the minimum, to stimulate it, just need to use light pressure and massage with a finger as if pointing up towards the penis. Doing this while sucking your cock too, will cause a surprise ejaculation, because you won’t be able to control yourself!

5. Going slow or faster:
If you are not circumcised, probably going to be a little (or a LOT) sensitive around the tip of your coc So pulling back your foreskin and going town will not be the best idea. It's best to take it slow and avoid turning the pleasure into torture, I do know despite being cut myself. Your good feedback (verbal or rub my head) is key to guide , will act as a guiding light to show your ideal rhythm/speed, + for edging you towards more increased + prolonged intensity and bigger loads for my thirty mouth.

While it is really nice to have a mouth focus on the whole penis, it is unrealistic to expect someone to sustain that for the duration of an entire blow job. Hence, best results are using hand and mouth in partnership, with your hand focusing on the shaft and mouth on the head of the penis. I get involved with the balls too, I alternate between sucking or licking them and the penis itself – a ratio of around 80:20 is best.

Hand and mouth should ‘kiss’ in the middle of the penis shaft. Many make the mistake that when their hand goes up the shaft of the penis towards the penis head, that their mouth should also move upwards off the penis. However, most men reported that it feels better if the mouth and hand work in opposite motions, so that they continually meet in the middle of the shaft.

Speeding up before the climax: Speed will effect how much the man will blow. A harder or faster blow job can result in a more intense orgasm.

6. Cleanliness, please.
Here given and gotten, and the one fundamental thing to remember is HYGIENE! People, it's nasty to suck a dick that hasn't been washed, or just after a guy has used the bathroom. Some people might like it, but most find it disgusting.

My tongue is one of my best weapon! Using it with the right little touches and motions in just the right places, the whole experience is much better than just an endless up and down with my mouth. That goes for you the receiver and for me the passionate giver of blow jobs.

I do a lot of licking, make wet and do so without inhibitions. I lick the sides using my tongue and lips like I am French kissing, and don't forget your scrotum. I lick it slowly, and don't rush past it. I Deep-throat if you and I both agree on it, but always do everything without rushing and while respecting our own limits.

7. No special products.
Don't bother with applying oils, moisturizers, or perfumes. They'll just leave you with the taste of bleach in my mouth.

8. Mouth closed.
Typically men go nuts when I purse my lips really tightly and make it feel like my partner is penetrating a really tight anus.

As I love giving oral, and I think it's absolutely essential to be thirsty for it when I am giving head. I love go all the way down to the base of the shaft, I use a circular motion on the head of the penis, and attention to the balls too.

While giving a blow job, mid way through I hum since the vibrations from this will send tingly vibrations down his shaft. It was reported to really intensify the feeling. I focus on the head of the penis as the vibrations are most intense right at the opening of my mouth.

9. Your MASSIVE LOAD OF CUM is truly my REWARD

Most guys will let us know when they’re getting close to cumming, but my instincts are good, so I developed a sixth sense for this on your own. When you know he’s about to blow, I gently fondle his balls. The extra stimulation in just the right spot will make his orgasm that much stronger, much to our mutual enjoyment.

I also want to decide where I like him to finish if we haven’t already worked it out some other way. I am direct and tell him where to cum. (Asking what he wants requires way too much conversation at this point.) If I want to swallow, I reduce the distance he’ll squirt pushing his cock further back in my throat. This helps prevent possible gagging, but also, I usually enjoy a good facial.

I then finish stroking him or sucking my partner gently to make sure I get every last drop. Most guys really appreciate this. Plus, it’s a hot, sexy way to close an already great oral session on a note, I thin

I hate wasting even a single drop of cum, it is very precious . I love getting a facial aimed my mouth, lick my lips, then I up and swallow. Most guys appreciate that, I love it so much, it turns on, sort of my own satisfaction. Sometimes, during this act, I get so excited, I can make me too, without any stimulation of my cock being initiated. Damn, just thinking about it, makes want to give some head right now.

And that’s how I suck a dick, folks !

As a VERSATILE-POWER-BOTTOM, sometimes I wonder if I have a limit before I had enough physically, but never reached it to quench my overriding desires. No single guy can ever keep up filling my mouth and ass, without having a break a some point to recover.

I have wondered just how many men I could handle maximum (so they get some rest to not dry up), as it would be fun and I would love the challenge to really see how many it would take in ideal, safe circumstances of courses (ya, different from reality).

Some will say that TOP type men are in control and dominant, and Bottom type men are submissive and assumed to not be in control..., I will argue that as a POWER VERSATILE BOTTOM, it is very debatable, but I have yet to be proven logically and practically of such an illusive myth...

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SOME are BOTTOM, but I prefer to be a POWER BOTTOM to drive TOPS and myself crazy...

BEING A POWER BOTTOM - Every Damn positions and tricks (Cowboy/Reverse, doggy style…)

Ideally, as a Power Bottom, I like my partner is on back, so I enjoy to slowly move up and down a nice hard cock, then I SQUEEZE, or clench and release my anus when he not moving. This squeezing of the anus is one of the most underrated and underused tricks that drives guys absolutely crazy. Guys like tight holes. Squeezing makes it tight. I stretch daily and train every other with toys to be ready to perform as a top bottom, few can honestly claim to be. It is annoying to have to change a position I enjoy, because of getting sore, so I avoid that completely with stretching.

I love to explore every damn position there is, some are much cooler than just the typical porn ones. In doggy style, I angle yourself upward (or downward) so my partner can deeper, and back it up. I love being spanked and can get quite vocal (moan, grunt, and shout) times. When I bottom, I believe that I’m the best goddamn partner this guy's ever had and in doing so, it drives top guys to enjoy and get into it even more! Practice makes perfect, it is a worthy goal guys cannot just imagine, it needs to be fully experienced and practiced.

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WHAT ARE YOU INTO, OR NOT AT ALL INTO, or WANT to TRY:

Every guy is different, and nobody can read minds, so tell me ahead of time what applies, and what does not to you, so we are clear ahead of time what minimum to expect or not, so we are on the same page... Assuming is not advisable, nor desirable. Regardless what you are into, or level, my goal to please you, save both us time and be comfortably and realistic with each other.

That means:
- Status (Single, Attached, Married)
-Your level and of sexual experience with MEN (beginner, intermediate, advanced) and total longest committed period to men __________years
- Your Goal (NSA wide diversity of men, NSA regular few men, one NSA Man, or define)
- Frequency of sexual encounters desired per week (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
- Your Availability ( which weekday and hour period desired and convenient)
- Location (Can you host, , or both)
- Your cock (cut, uncut, length, circumference in cm, or inches)
- Your Position with a partner (JO , Oral Receive , Oral Giver , Bottom, Top, Versatile, Versatile-Top, Versatile-Bottom)
- Kinks you like doing, or want to try, or for to do with you (define)
- You like and want to get a massage, or give one, or both.
- What scenario you feel most comfortable with for session of fun, including to set mood, foreplay and play sequence, positions that most turn you on

Your Health:
- Your HIV status (on PrEP, positive, Negative, Untested)
- You consume drug (Yes, No, ...)
- You ever had any STD or STI (Yes, No, never tested)
- You performed or received unprotected anal penetration + no HIV test in last 6 months (yes, no)
- Allergies or not
- Type of lubricant you prefer
- Type of sexual toys you use, if any

What you are Into:

- You are sexual (Mild, Medium or Wild)
- Vanilla, discrete, shy, exhibitionist, like adventure & explore new
- Wish to have Sex (Men , Women-men, TS)
- Wish pics, or make video of me sucking you, or me (Yes, No), subject to edit.
- Wish pics, or make video of you sucking me, or getting fucked (Yes, No) subject to edit.

1 on 1
Bondage
Video
Dad /
Dating
Exhibition
Feet / Socks
Fisting
Friends
Fuck Buddy

Sex
Jerking Off
Jockstraps
Kissing
Leather
LTR
Married Men
Massage
Nipple
No PNP
No Strings

Porn
Rimming
Role Playing
Rough
Safer
S&M
Straight/Bi
Sucking
Toys
Underwear
Voyeurism
Watersports

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Why are men so afraid of their own G-spot? or worst, may go through life without enjoying it...
Justin Myers, The Guyliner, 3 February 2021

Gents, it’s time get over yourself and embrace your G-spot. The Guyliner explains what do if you’re interested in getting know your prostate

We need talk about your bum. I’m sorry be so blunt, but it’s time ditch your hang-ups, forget your fears and get know your G-spot.

For many men, finding a woman’s G-spot is up there with opening a unicorn riding for achievable goals (my sympathies, ladies), but with your own fun zone, you’ve got no excuse: it’s easy find! Your walnut-shaped G-spot, or prostate gland, or P-spot, if you prefer, is inches or so inside the rectum; it needs no map or GPS – you require hands and an ability get over yourself.

Ask yourself what’s stopping you. Maybe it’s because the rectum reminds us of scary probing in the GP’s surgery, or the paralyzing fear you’ll be called gay for admitting you even have one, but there’s a mystery around anal sex that needs to be cleared up. So you’re uncomfortable. Why? Don’t think it feels right putting something up there? Very much into your Highway Code and keen to observe one-way traffic? Things change – who’d have thought Tottenham Court Road would be -way traffic again in our lifetime, but there it is, lanes going back and forth with wild abandon?

Maybe you’re worried it will be painful? Unlikely, unless you’re planning on inserting coals, cacti or swords in any variant other than por Any physical discomfort is likely be temporary once you find your groove (literally), so it’s the emotional discomfort you must combat.

“It’s gay, isn’t it?” asks happily married Mar “Doing it up the bum is what gay men do and a lot of straight men don’t want people think they’re gay.” But if there’s no other men in the room and an object is being “introduced” a woman, isn’t it almost as heterosexual as sex can get? “If I’m honest, I think a lot of men know they would enjoy it,” admits Mar

‘I think if more men knew how explosive your orgasm could be if you stimulate your prostate at the same time, they’d all be doing it’

What’s wrong with “looking gay” anyway? Does it really matter what other people think of your sexual peccadilloes? If you say you’re not gay, cool, I believe you, you’re not gay. You are exactly what you say you are and your willingness explore certain sex acts doesn’t have any bearing on your sexual orientation – it just so happens that anal sex and other ass is especially common among gay men (although some gay men don’t like it either). Take it from me – no not like that, well, not until you a drink anyway – sexuality is a state of mind. I’m gay because it consumes my entire being like a huge glittery inferno; the sex stuff is just a bonus.

Obviously, you don’t need try something know it’s not for you – I’m pretty certain I can live without tasting tripe and onions, just for the record – but if there’s the potential for pleasure there, and it’s not going anyone, don’t you least owe it yourself give it a go?

Bisexual guy Toby doesn’t see the problem. “It’s a very intimate experience, with a man or a woman. There is a lot of trust involved, as it can be taboo to talk about outside a relationship, but as long as you respect each other, it’s fine.” Plus, there’s one benefit Toby is very keen to share: “I think if more men knew how explosive your orgasm could be if you stimulate your prostate at the same time, they’d all be doing it.”

It doesn’t that anal sex is often the butt of the joke (sorry) or used to demean men in some way. Remember when cartoons depicted Trump eating Putin’s ass, for example? The message was that being on the receiving end of a butt-hammering made you not a powerful, sexual being, but a wuss or a stooge. In short, somebody’s bitch. Anal sex performed on a woman, however, has no such homosexual connotations. Thanks to pornography, it’s almost an expectation. Well, it’s payback time, gentlemen. All your nonsensical insecurities – and so many of the world’s man-made ills, I feel – could be cured very quickly with a good pegging. Lube up, dude.

All your nonsensical insecurities – and so many of the world’s man-made ills, I feel – could be cured very quickly with a good pegging

Strap-ons have been around for centuries and pegging – a man being penetrated a woman – doesn’t make you gay. So much of hetero sex 1 obsesses over a man penetrating a woman that it ignores the exciting change of dynamic switching things up can bring. Being buggered senseless in pursuit of a better orgasm shouldn’t be seen as selfish or perverted; the woman pegging you rightly has to get something of it too. What are you really worried about? Looking like less of a man? Submitting or being brutalized? Pah, get over yourself. You’re not giving anything up, you’re not showing a weakness. It’s overly simplistic to say someone being penetrated is always submissive and the person doing the penetrating is in – bottoms can dominate too – but it’s likely a woman pegging you will enjoy the shift in the scenario, reaching perhaps uncharted levels of intimacy and pleasure. Does it scare you to think you can’t control the thrusts for a change, that you’ll never know the force, the frequency until it’s happening, inside you, at their whim? Or does it excite you?

To make it happen, you need to start a dialogue around your… um, as yet untapped opening. Maybe start playing it slightly innocent and saying you were reading a piece online – perhaps this one! – about the prostate and wondered what stimulating it would be like. Curiosity is often an accelerant. Another way in, so to speak, could be to talk about your fantasies. Make sure your partner is included in it in some way. Imagine, perhaps, seeing their right that moment or wanting to feel them close as your prostate-enabled orgasm makes your head fly off. If they’re not keen to step up or reluctant to get busy with their fingers – not the end of the world if they’ve got huge talons, I guess – then sex toys or massagers. Using these together can be fun, especially if there’s a toy for them too, so you can expand each other’s horizons the same time.

If anal penetration is definitely off limits for you or your partner, it doesn’t mean you’ve reached a cul-de-sac; you can still access your prostate pleasure centre through your perineum (the fleshy part between your balls and butt) although you’ll need a keen hand and some deep pressure, so a toy or massager would be an extra here. If you don’t have a partner, go wild, do what you like! It’ll take trial and error to get the position that feels right, whether squatting, leaning right over, propping yourself up sideways on pillows or having a good go at it in the shower.

Just remember to be gentle with yourself, that it’s a marathon not a sprint and that taking responsibility for your own pleasure, whether trying toys yourself or asking someone to peg you, is an act of control in its own right – you’re being open about what you want. If anything, it makes you more of a man: no world you won’t explore, no pleasure you won’t seek out. Put your masculine BS far behind you… after all, that’s where most of the fun is, right there.

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Sure I like chatting, but I would rather you prioritize action oriented energy or wording, make it happen for you and me. Worst case, while I suck your cock, I can listen to you, but my mouth will somewhat too busy to reply...

HERE FOR REAL and in OTTAWA AREA, is fully submissive-Power Bottom, available for FULL servicing of your choice to all TOP or Versatile MEN. I have no time for BS, or pretend on-line jerking off. You are in and serious for some DISCRETE, NEEDED NSA ACTION on your COCK, I can or host.

As described, no chance of failure to communicate on my side, so how about you...

. I could start you with just a a hand job, and-or a GOOD BLOWJOB (fellatio), take it from there, no pressure or expectations. SEE how you like , may be more, may be even regular would be ideal, not a must. If you are happy, I am happy.

...the pleasure is yours and mine for sure, NO STATIC AT !

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TWO PASSIONS COMBINED:

My idea of fun would be say watch a Hockey or Football game (e.g. Super Bowl), share drinks and good food in the comfort of your or my place, about sports, you-... with plenty of time prelude ahead.

...and then may be some chemistry kicks in, and my hand on your leg, ... then teasing you, I then notice your cock getting hard... So visually, despite your light sport pants, it is obvious that your cock is wanting my full servicing, starting with my mouth about get very busy giving you a BLOWJOB nice and slow, edging you...liking your balls, nipples, then back your cock in theses cycles of rotating pleasure, until you cannot take anymore, you pinch my skin as your signal you need explode your load...and I receive from you a nice facial aimed at my mouth lick ...which I love doing.


...we repeat that a few times...and during half-time, may be my ass is ready for you slide in your cock, and pump my ass big time until like me you get an intense orgasm, as it should in a tight ass for your cock stimulating well my G-Spot











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