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My hope is fading....  

Bemyotherman2 45F
27 posts
12/23/2021 4:35 am
My hope is fading....


I do get a lot of messages. Every on here does. The ones that get me are the guys that clearly didn't read a damn thing I wrote! Lol I literally laugh at those because they clearly didn't read it and have no idea what I'm for but claim they do know. Then when I ask "so this interests you" and I explain what I , I get a few different<b> responses.

</font></b>1. The no reply response. They run away fast with their tail between their legs.

2. The I half read about you response. These guys only half read about you and
think they know what you're for but are way off.

3. The I know what you even if you don't think it's what you response.
They argue with you about what your profile says and what you descriptions
mean.

4. The guys that say it's not all about the sex response. These guys swear it's
absolutely not all about the sext but every reply references sex in some way or
another

I'm just talking bout what I get from guys responding to what I personally are for. There are plenty of girls who these<b> responses </font></b>and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just not what I'm for and it can drive me a nuts. Lol

NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
12/24/2021 6:58 am

You have to have patience and sift through a lot of junk before you find a good friend here.


Piper3654K 53M
141 posts
1/7/2022 8:16 am

After several years of wading through the BS here, I'm still surprised that guys don't do better. They have to simply because of the ratio of men to "real" women here. Your profile and blogs seem perfectly reasonable to me and don't seem like an unrealistic ask. I would think guys would be lining up and putting on their best selves to have a chance to be your side guy. Dating is fun. One of my best friends here is your age, married very young and had kids right away... and honestly never had a chance to go out and date and experience life.

As for always talking about sex... guys do that. When you meet them on a sexually charged site, some of that is to be expected. If you pull the conversation back to real world stuff and they continue to drag it back to sex all the time, simply move on. There are lots of others here who would love to talk about something deeper than your favorite sexual position.


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