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tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
1/27/2022 12:54 pm

I understand your dilemma. I think it's a difficult problem to resolve. Since you are both interested in staying in a good marriage, I think you need a new strategy.
First, stop pursuing an open marriage. Even if your husband agrees, he will be doing so under pressure.
You have 2 choices. Deal with being frustrated sexually within your marriage. Continue satisfying yourself. Consider this a difficult phase of your marriage. Maybe it will get better in the future.
Or, find a local man that will meet with you when you both have the time. It doesn't need to be all the time. Your marriage still comes first. This man must be safe and actually understand your needs and desires.
I hope that helps you.
Ted


tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
2/1/2022 6:04 am

I met a woman last year that was in a similar circumstance that you're currently in. I met her while walking on the beach in Lewes. I had noticed her before and we starting talking one day. She is attractive and younger than me.
Her husband works a lot and her children go to school.
One day she told me that her husband comes home, has 3 or 4 drinks, and falls asleep. She was almost crying when she told me this. It was cold out that day and there was no one else on the beach that were near us. I took her in my arms and just held her.
We hook up sometimes when she just can't take the lack of sex any more. I'm safe and I have not told anyone. I know she has fantasies about being with a woman and me together, but she is very afraid of anyone finding out that she's been with someone other than her husband. I think fear of being caught keeps many women from taking the chance. I understand your situation. Good luck.
Ted


tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
2/7/2022 7:41 am

You're so horny that you're losing sleep over it.
I'm thinking that you would be a lot of fun to play with. Your enthusiasm is more important than a few pounds.
Ted


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