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A lost art  

Cheekyminx39 45F  
24 posts
3/13/2021 2:00 am
A lost art


There seems be a distinct change in how people converse nowadays.
Some men like talk as if we're bit players a porn set.
I love black pussy
Do you like cock
Wanna fuck your holes
Wanna drink your cum
Do you like your arse penetrated
And that's basically just after they say hi and before they say anything else.
Or its a dick pic and that's it. Sending a dick pic has become the new HELLO
I can't speak for all women, but most of us pick a partner based attraction not because of his dick pic, that may surprise a lot of men!
Yes it's a sex/hook site, but that doesn't mean that you lose respect or forget your manners when talking people, especially if you want be taken seriously as a suitable playmate.
I don't think it's a big ask!!

justme51 71M

3/13/2021 3:01 am

Very well said. Yes many men are rude and forget to talk to a woman.


ltrskr 74M  
5151 posts
3/13/2021 4:37 am

Men r blessed, they have enough blood to supply their brain and penis,
but not both at the same time!


agelesssexylegs 79F
1145 posts
3/13/2021 4:45 am

Oh yes i agree there are many other handsome bits us ladies can feast our hungry eyes over,most think and talk through their members anyway on here,due to lockdown may be they need to rethink their chat up lines and be a bit more old fashioned and woo us with more than those suggestions you have put above,want to be seduced and feel my worth not treated like a piece of meat


SingleInGR 54M
361 posts
3/13/2021 5:05 am

I have to agree 100% with your statement.

I do not get that kind of mail from women but I can imagine you would and do as I have heard that from other ladies on the site reading their blogs.

I have also watched some cams and the men are just rude, demanding and way off base in how they talk and interact with women.

After watching some mens comments I was beginning to think they were or looking for children and had serious issues.

I agree that this site is for adults but some sure do not act like it and it makes me feel sad for the ladies that must be bombarded with tons of disrespectful ims and email and I am sure it makes it harder to weed through it all to find the decent men on the site.

I am thinking of the line from the movie The Kingsmen now that says MANNERS MAKETH MAN

Thanks for your posting and I am sorry you get that kinda crap from some men.


Cheekyminx39 45F  
7 posts
3/13/2021 8:37 am

Thank you so much for all your comments, it clearly shows that it's more than a personal bug bear.


Timleo3 46M
57 posts
8/21/2021 2:10 pm

Dating and meeting is a lost art . human interaction has become screens and clicks and thumbs up or down. What happen to the jitters we feel when we see a woman and say wow. Or the overwhelming desire to follow her down the street and ask her out on a date before you even know her name. I am recently single and I am having a hard time adjusting to romance in 2021. Its like bad phone sex. Lol


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