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Did you try blowing on it?  

DiscreetAk31 31F
18 posts
4/9/2022 4:12 am
Did you try blowing on it?


Single. That is me now. I am... happy, relieved and crushed all at the same time. I could have handled it in a more delicate manner; I did not intend for it to be so abrupt and sudden. What is done is done though. That is a hard pill to swallow - we are done. And now, all of a sudden this anonymous lifestyle is unappealing. i am so confused how it just turned off like that. I do not want to meet some stranger, I do not want to be with anyone.
How fucked up am I? I do not want him back, I do not want anyone I have spoken with near the end of the relationship - but I do not want to be alone.
Something else that is bothering me - I do not feel bad. Earlier I said I was crushed - what I mean is: I am crushed because now I am forced to deal with the changes inevitably coming my way. Crushed by the idea that I have to start over now...share my secrets with a new person and hope that they accept and understand (jackpot for relating) to my thoughts, ideas and accomplishments. But I am not crushed by the loss of this relationship and what we had built together. Maybe I am still in shock or not fully accepted this is over.. He definitely has not accepted that.
I m not sure what it will take to snap out of this melancholy hell I have put myself into but I hope it is over soon.

mountainguy7194u 48M  
5 posts
4/9/2022 8:35 am

Time is the best medicine at this point. It's never easy moving on from someone you've been with for awhile. From what I've read in past posts, this was inevitable. It will take some time to get over. You will find someone to accept you for who you are. You are not fucked up, you're a human being with feeling and emotions going through a breakup. You will be okay.

Hang out with some solid friends who love you for you. Go for some hikes, get outside and get some air. You will be okay.

Keep your chin up over there. You did was best for the both of you. Just takes some time to move on.

Wish you the best. Thanks as always for the share. Lots of us have felt the exact same way.


powercaps716 66M
83117 posts
4/10/2022 10:45 am

it takes time to rebuild your life and to start over again, get yourself into a new routine, don't be afraid of the change. go out , do things your emotions are natural, time will heal all your going though.


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