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Is it easier to kiss a face or suck a cock?
Posted:Mar 22, 2022 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2022 1:07 pm
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When I go through messages and profiles, if there is a face pic, the first thing I ask myself is: “is this a face I would kiss?” However, when I see a dick pic, I don’t ask myself, “is this a cock I would suck?”
I’m not sure why it’s easier for me to suck a cock than to kiss someone. They are both very intimate acts. I think also, I don’t have to look at a face when I suck a cock, though looking at the person does make it even more intimate.
of my friends pegged it when she said “I can suck a cock belonging to someone i don’t find attractive easier than I can kiss someone I’m not attracted to”

Are you able to:
Suck the cock of someone who you are not attracted to.
Kiss someone you are not attracted to.
Neither of the above. I need to be attracted to someone before kissing or sucking a cock.
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More thoughts on dating on Adult Friend Finders
Posted:Mar 4, 2022 1:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2022 9:06 am
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I require a meet and greet with everyone I meet on BBWMatchMate. Profiles are great and I have found that the majority of people are honest and post their own recent pictures. Even still I need to meet in a public place to get a sense of who someone is and what their motives are. There are some very strange people and possible predators out there. Sometimes it takes more than one meeting before I feel comfortable enough to go somewhere where we can be alone.
I am looking for another FWB but I have to be safe and I have to be comfortable. When I am out with someone for the first time, many times the guy wants to kiss me, and that's acceptable. There is definitely an art to kissing, especially the first kiss. I personally like a kiss that starts out soft and doesn't invade my face. It does not turn me on when a man immediately thrusts his tongue down my throat. It actually turns me off and makes me feel violated.
I am not a particularly touchy feely person but I don't mind having a stray hair tucked behind my ear or a soft touch on my arm or back. I do not like to be groped, grabbing my ass, or being so presumptuous as to touch my breasts in public. I mean, we just met. All of these things have happened to me and more. That is technically, legally assault. If you keep things light and let things happen organically I will be far more receptive and more likely to want to make a second date.
Thanks for letting me rant!
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Some Thoughts about Dating on BBWMatchMate
Posted:Mar 2, 2022 6:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2022 4:42 am
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So dating can be fun and exciting. Especially when you meet someone from this site. You check out their profile, exchange a few texts and arrange to meet. It's not exactly a blind date. We've probably exchanged several pictures and hopefully we recognize each other when we do meet. We already know a little bit about each other and developed enough chemistry to want to meet. The date probably goes well and hopefully results in a second date, which for me usually means sex. I don't like awkward sex. You know, when neither of us knows how to look sexy getting out of our clothes or shyly stealing looks to see if I'm looking at you. The fumbling kisses and badly timed moves. It's almost as if we are getting in each others way. I've learned some things to avoid those awkward moments trying to get to the fun sexy part. Not all of it because a little awkward is adorable. I won't share those things here just yet. You'll have to make it to the second date with me to find out.
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I really do want to talk to you
Posted:Feb 23, 2022 12:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2022 12:56 am
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I am not ignoring you, I really would like to answer your message. I can read the messages that you send to my mailbox and my IMs but I can not answer them. As I said in my last post, I only pay for one site a month. If you contact me right after the month that I paid for this site ends it will be 3 months before I can answer your message.
If you send me a message, try to include some kind of contact information or add the standard members can contact me option to your account.
Sometimes they will not let you include contact information in the first email but they do not tell you they deleted your contact info so I recommend you send 2 messages with your info.
Otherwise you may have to wait for 3 months before you hear from me.
If I can not talk to you, we can not meet. How will I ever get to know you?
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Faces
Posted:Feb 21, 2022 11:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2022 2:49 pm
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I see a lot of men's profiles, I mean a lot. So many of them state very strongly that they are straight. They are not looking for men. I suppose the gay men are hitting on them far more than they would like.
I can see why though. I don't pay for a subscription here. I can't afford to have a paid subscription on every site I use. So I pay for a subscription to one site this month and the next month a different site. What that means is I can only see your profile photo. If your profile file photo is a picture of your dick I'm probably not going to give it a second glance. If it's a picture of your body, it might warrant a second glance but to really catch my attention, post a picture that includes your face. Put a black bar over your eyes if you don't want to be recognized but give me an idea of what I'll be kissing while we fuck. I can suck just about any cock, but I can't kiss just any face.

Oh, and why do gay men keep contacting you? Because they don't read profiles or statuses. They see a cock they like they message you. If you don't have a dick pic for your main profile picture you will have less gay guys trying to turn you and more women giving your profile some attention. You can't build your profile the way you like it, that will only attract men. You have to create something women will like. Most women prefer to see the whole man. I'm not saying dick pics are a turn off. I know they turn me on and I hope you include a few. You are so much more than a cock. Your main profile picture may be only picture I get to see. You might want it to be one that makes me want to contact you..
I may very well be wrong, but it's a theory worth investigating.
Just saying.
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