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So Is IM Any Better?  

GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1924 posts
7/17/2020 11:46 am
So Is IM Any Better?

So I received an email in my personal email account touting the "new & improved" IM. So the question is.......

Is it REALLY? Usually the improvements are anything but.....lol

It's a serious question though! I very rarely go on the IM....crude and rude can sometimes be the order of the day/night. I'll occasionally go on the cams to chat....but again very rarely...since the same people are crude or rude on there too. But nice people too....I've had some nice conversations.

So anyway......do you use the IM? Does it seem better than previous versions? Are these alleged improvements only for gold members....or the general population....lol

I may try it out for myself....but figured I'd find out the scoop first....lol

Have fun......



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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/17/2020 11:47 am

Sometimes I wonder......lol

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benard69 63M/63F  
5180 posts
7/17/2020 12:37 pm

Well let's just say it's not the Cadillac plan....


Velvetreality827 53F  
12 posts
7/17/2020 12:52 pm

The new IM sux!!! With every upgrade, BBWMatchMate makes it worse.


CedarsPrince 40M
1192 posts
7/17/2020 12:56 pm

I checked it out and it was an eyesore. Maybe with time, I will get used to it. But not many use IM like before. Sometimes you get a message while on the site and don't notice it later.


grizz54545454 72M
123 posts
7/17/2020 1:13 pm

no no no f$$k no


SactoNative 54F  
368 posts
7/17/2020 1:14 pm

It's AWFUL! The members who are shown on IM are from another continent. Before the people listed were from the same city as the chatter.


JerseyFresh2020 45M  
1 post
7/17/2020 1:17 pm

I've always seemed to have issues with the IM client but I do realize women seem to get bombarded with messages so it's easy to get lost in the shuffle plus Standard members not being able to do much without paying doesn't help either.


ProfCocknCuntt 41M
508 posts
7/17/2020 1:19 pm

HORRIBLE!!!Just looks pretty .No substance at all. Typical BBWMatchMate though!


3play06 61M/114F  
37 posts
7/17/2020 1:23 pm

I am gold & it sucks, just keeps getting worse


Story435 72M
3191 posts
7/17/2020 1:44 pm

Hello!
Don't used them much because I'm not a paid member anymore. But they never work very good.
Butch


Hburgguy20 38M
2 posts
7/17/2020 1:45 pm

Ims are the only real way i can reach out to anyone on here as a standard member- other than getting on cam and hoping they come to me! I don't see any major difference besides the aesthetics of the IM windows, but am hoping that more people get on and use it! Not they just need to stop charging 15 points for standard members to send an IM!


CharlesD6996 50M  
263 posts
7/17/2020 1:56 pm

Well, the pictures are annoying. The fact that the IMs stay in the window is probably the best feature. I don't use it, so I don't know about it's performance.

All the best,

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CarriedBack 58M  
117 posts
7/17/2020 2:26 pm

I am not sure whether this "new IM" system is totally launched yet--or whether they have retracted it to work out some bugs.

The design for laptops seems crisper and cleaner, and they responsiveness seems swifter. However, the iPhone interface seems to be a mess. Sometimes I open it up and the photos are HUGE, and it's not clear where to click to exit or to send a message. For now, I'll just set back and see what happens. Besides, I don't use it that ofter--mostly just to reply to members who used it to initiate a conversation with me.

To be continued....


PassionaKisses69 50M
96 posts
7/17/2020 2:28 pm

Haven't tried it. Want to give it go and see how it is?


Allhard4u50 58M
956 posts
7/17/2020 3:38 pm

Basically it SUCKS BIG


Vader0967 52M
424 posts
7/17/2020 3:42 pm

the only thig better is the profile pictures are bigger the rest sucks


scoupe42 57M  
8817 posts
7/17/2020 4:17 pm

Nope!


Justme57754 53M
144 posts
7/17/2020 5:44 pm

I'm just going to guess that it will freeze up and not work just like the old versions. I will just let people contact me through my mailbox in my blog. That seems safe and not having to spend 15 points just to send an IM that might not get answered seems out of sorts. Don't charge until the other person responds is my way of thinking.

Life in the Black Hills of South Dakota.


lighthousecollec 57F  
539 posts
7/17/2020 6:04 pm

I hate it. Works with my phone but not too well on the laptop

I have set up a private mailbox on my Blog for your convenience.


author51 57F  
96518 posts
7/17/2020 11:58 pm

Nice to see you again my friend.As for the IM,I do not use it and what I do not like about it is it has us on there whether we want to be or not.I set my signal to busy and do not answer them..I prefer messages over IM..xoxo

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


seems6666 49F
3912 posts
7/18/2020 5:31 am

    Quoting lighthousecollec:
    I hate it. Works with my phone but not too well on the laptop
I found that too... on my phone it filters my preferences which primarily is distance, but on my lap top.. it shows me men from all over the world


merlot5555 64M  
878 posts
7/18/2020 3:01 pm

...every now and then it works... most of the time, it's a dead line.....


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 3:44 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Well let's just say it's not the Cadillac plan....
LOL....I don't think anything on here is the Cadillac plan...including the gold membership!

Thanks for visiting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 3:46 pm

    Quoting Velvetreality827:
    The new IM sux!!! With every upgrade, BBWMatchMate makes it worse.
So in other words....the improvements didn't improve it....lol I tend to agree with you...nothing gets better!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting CedarsPrince:
    I checked it out and it was an eyesore. Maybe with time, I will get used to it. But not many use IM like before. Sometimes you get a message while on the site and don't notice it later.
I honestly don't use it often at all, so I don't have anything to compare. Unfortunately I don't think time improves anything on here.....with the exception of all the lovely ladies on BBWMatchMate.....lol

Thanks for stopping by!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 3:54 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmmm.....sounds about right, it seems BBWMatchMate's improvements are really not that at all!

I too am getting tired of paying for a site that is half assed! I only get one page of searches now...when I use to have unlimited. I don't know if THAT is a site wide issue, or just one I have.

Thanks for visiting and commenting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 3:57 pm

LOL......it's not surprising the "improvement" gets a response such as yours. I think Various Inc. (owner of BBWMatchMate) is out of touch with their members or the IT dept. is full of half trained morons.

Thanks for stopping by!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 4:01 pm

    Quoting SactoNative:
    It's AWFUL! The members who are shown on IM are from another continent. Before the people listed were from the same city as the chatter.
Wow....that's not helpful at all!

I mean sure it might be nice to occasionally chat with someone from a far away place....but the chances of meetings are pretty dim....lol

Are there any settings to narrow your "search" or boxes to check for area...continent...planet....LOL

Thanks so much for commenting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/20/2020 4:06 pm

    Quoting JerseyFresh2020:
    I've always seemed to have issues with the IM client but I do realize women seem to get bombarded with messages so it's easy to get lost in the shuffle plus Standard members not being able to do much without paying doesn't help either.
That seems to be a common comment....issues with the IM! It's getting aggravating paying for sub par content here!

As a woman I can speak to what you said about it getting overwhelming for a lady to keep up with chats! I don't go on often....it gets nuts.

Some are nice and some just want you to flash them....or talk "dirty".....lol

Thanks for visiting!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/24/2020 8:56 pm

    Quoting ProfCocknCuntt:
    HORRIBLE!!!Just looks pretty .No substance at all. Typical BBWMatchMate though!
Hmmmm....then I guess it's true that not all things pretty are good! It does seem that BBWMatchMate has it's technically challenges constantly.

Thanks for stopping in...

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/28/2020 1:04 pm

    Quoting 3play06:
    I am gold & it sucks, just keeps getting worse
I'm gold as well, but haven't tried the IM. I guess I'll have to take a stab at it and see how bad it seems to be from the reviews so far....lol

Gold doesn't mean the same as it use to.....Various Inc. doesn't seem to care or listen to member feedback!

Thanks for visiting!!

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/28/2020 1:07 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello!
    Don't used them much because I'm not a paid member anymore. But they never work very good.
    Butch
Hi Butch....

Not much on BBWMatchMate does work right unfortunately. I should reconsider my gold membership. I don't even get more than one page of search results....it's ridiculous!

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/28/2020 1:12 pm

    Quoting Hburgguy20:
    Ims are the only real way i can reach out to anyone on here as a standard member- other than getting on cam and hoping they come to me! I don't see any major difference besides the aesthetics of the IM windows, but am hoping that more people get on and use it! Not they just need to stop charging 15 points for standard members to send an IM!
Yeah I know that standard members can only do certain things on here. I did see the old IM and it was nothing special. Sounds like it hasn't changed much...just a little "prettier". It does suck that you have to use points....they'll get you one way or another!

Thanks for your comments

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GreenEyedLady_60 60F  
1910 posts
7/28/2020 1:17 pm

    Quoting CarriedBack:
    I am not sure whether this "new IM" system is totally launched yet--or whether they have retracted it to work out some bugs.

    The design for laptops seems crisper and cleaner, and they responsiveness seems swifter. However, the iPhone interface seems to be a mess. Sometimes I open it up and the photos are HUGE, and it's not clear where to click to exit or to send a message. For now, I'll just set back and see what happens. Besides, I don't use it that ofter--mostly just to reply to members who used it to initiate a conversation with me.

    To be continued....
Thank you for the information... It does sound like a mess with the phones. I had used both at a time or two and didn't like the phone IM. I have a Galaxy....

I'm not too positive time heals all problems on here...but as you said..."I guess we'll all see"....lol

Thanks for stopping in!

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covidsux99 44M
7 posts
7/29/2020 8:11 pm

not a big fan


ldcomfort70 69M
18 posts
7/30/2020 2:29 pm

    Quoting SactoNative:
    It's AWFUL! The members who are shown on IM are from another continent. Before the people listed were from the same city as the chatter.
I'm tired of the maskdebate, lol, I love my hands, but maybe if they had twenty fingers?


WolfRunsWild 50M
44 posts
7/30/2020 8:36 pm

...Nothing BBWMatchMate does is better.As this site gets bought and sold it just keeps getting worse. IT has been sold several times in ten years and this time its operating in Isreal,Honkg Kong and Malaysia.....The only thing it does extremely well is cash your credit card.... It worked best when Hustler owned it and its CRM team operated out of Cambell California. I asked for my money back but to no avail.
oh well IM sucks so bad now I dont even ttry to use it.


WolfRunsWild 50M
44 posts
7/30/2020 8:39 pm

Hmmmm nice comment! I agree


WolfRunsWild 50M
44 posts
7/30/2020 8:40 pm

Wow, that is nice! Thanks for sharing this very useful information! I did not even know you could set up a private mailbox on your blog.


cpl_fun2 34M/34F
17 posts
8/3/2020 1:29 pm

IM and chatroom are both pretty bad


fashionablegma 77F
7725 posts
8/7/2020 10:25 pm

I guess they having problems with it,seems back to the old version,what i did find,was that it did inform you who was online,as many ghost you after the initial opening message to get you to reply,saves you points as it did not allow me to reply if they went off line


71PJT 49M  
1 post
8/8/2020 12:25 am

You mean it use to work---better?????


Hypegiant88 32M
5 posts
8/11/2020 6:45 pm

not any better, still shite


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