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poly vs swinging
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Posted:Dec 26, 2021 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2021 4:44 am
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jPolyamory is based on the assumption that partners may form multiple romantic attachments. This is the major difference between polyamory and most other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Polyamory (âÂÂmany lovesâÂÂ) by definition includes the option to engage in multiple romantic and relationships, where âÂÂromanticâ and âÂÂâ are defined by the participants. In other open relationship structures, including swinging, there is generally an agreement that it is okay to have multiple connections, but not to fall in love. Swinging is generally considered to be purely âÂÂalthough of course sometimes swinging partners develop strong romantic feelings, and sometimes this leads to the development of a polyamorous relationship.
Swinging tends to attract a more conservative people. On the whole, the swinging demographic tends to be more conservative, more heterosexual, and more gender-normative than the polyam demographic. Polyamory, on the other hand, has a huge overlap with the LGBTQ and kinky communities.
Swinging is a couple pursuit. Swingers are generally couples who meet up with other couples, often at events. Sometimes connections form that result in couples deciding to meet up outside of formalized swinging events. Swingers might engage in swinging once or twice a year, or every week, but it is generally an activity a couple engages in together.
There are infinite ways to practice consensual non-monogamy. Everyone who is interested in exploring consensual non-monogamies has to find their own path and their own style. Swinging works very well for some people, polyamory is perfect for other, and still others prefer other forms of consensual non-monogamy.
ThatâÂÂs part of why I believe itâÂÂs so important to be aware that there is a vast menu of options available. No two relationships are the same, and finding the right relationship style for you and your partner(s) requires creativity, insight, flexibility, and negotiation.
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