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Well, hello there ... wink wink
Posted:Mar 12, 2017 7:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 10:12 pm
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It's been a long while since I've found myself in this part of BBWMatchMate.

Much much too long. I have no sexy stories to tell you, I've been living quite the celibate life.

I need to find some fun, some adventure to stir this old routine up!

Let me hear your thoughts. How would you help me out of my rut?
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A"Club" ... In Red Deer???
Posted:Mar 23, 2016 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2016 8:29 pm
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I've been out of the scene so long that I had no idea until a friend mentioned he was going this weekend.

What can I expect at said club?
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Hey! I'm back!
Posted:Mar 23, 2016 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2016 6:02 pm
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Hello! How have you been? I've been ... well, living, just living. Day in and day out. Tried dating a couple of time. Didn't go well. It's been far too long since I've had some fun. So, any takers on helping me find my fun side again???

Let's hear what you would like to do if we were to spend some time together ...

Go!
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Saturday night's alright ...
Posted:Jul 24, 2015 9:37 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2016 3:21 pm
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Have a play date for Saturday. Friends of mine from out of town are getting a hotel room and have invited me over for drinks ... plus they have included a good friend of their who they think will add to the party.

I'm so excited! I'm going shopping tomorrow, hopefully I'll find a little something, something for tomorrow night.

Stay tuned ... I'll let you know how the evening goes
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Red red red red redneck!
Posted:Jun 2, 2015 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 8:09 am
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Cut offs and bikini top

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Worth the wait ...
Posted:May 27, 2015 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2016 8:38 pm
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He offers me his arm as he explains this is where he works. Opens the door and we quickly travel up the stairwell to the dark office. He turns to lock the door behind us and puts his arm around me and guides me to his office.

He smiles and he releases me and turns to shut his blinds. not that anyone would ever show up, but you never know I smiles and say the sight of the closed blinds would draw more attention, so he leaves the door open.

We reach for each other, feeling this has been in the making for a while now, He appreciates that I wore my boots, as asked. I appreciate the way it makes him feel

I've always had the office fantasy ... the desk, the chair, the hot steamy full out sex ... mmmmmm mmmmmmm .... Can wait til we find our next adventure ... however that may cummmmm.... mmmmmmmmm mmmmmm
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Here's another
Posted:May 25, 2015 7:17 pm
Last Updated:Jul 24, 2016 8:49 pm
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6 Comments
Had a little fun last night ;)
Posted:May 24, 2015 7:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2016 8:18 pm
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My FWB and I had some fun last night and played around with some pics. We only used my phone. What do you think?



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FWB
Posted:May 23, 2015 7:58 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2015 7:34 pm
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I have been very lucky to find a true friend with benefits, which for me means, someone who ... can talk and hang out and sometimes it ends in sex, sometimes it ends with me too drunk and the room spinning, sometimes he's had a long week and a cuddle is all that is needed.

When I call him, he says, what time do you need me there ... not, oh, let me look at my schedule and see when I can make it. Not, dam, just drove thru there yesterday, not back again until months from now.

We are going to have a fun fun evening ... I am bringing different outfits and hopefully he won't mind taking some pictures... we're getting the Jacuzzi suite

Have a wonderful evening everyone! I know I'm about to!!!
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What do you think?
Posted:May 13, 2015 11:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2017 6:55 pm
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I can't abide rudeness! I know I have a very high set of standards that I follow & I'm always disappointed when I trust someone to have the same level and they let me down.

If you had made plans for someone and the night comes and I sit around waiting for that text that never comes, I'm going to be angry. If something has come up how hard s it to text saying just that ?? It's just common courtesy!

Instead I get a text in the morning saying... Good morning happy hump day!
No mention of our plans. I text back that I guess he had forgotten... Oh no there wass just a big emergency came up and worked all night on it!

I sent him a text telling him I was no longer interested in pursuing this any further and good luck in your search. Too hasty? Should I have given him another chance?

Would love to hear your thoughts. PS I'm a very busy gal and had to rearrange my schedule to accommodate this meeting.
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Cock Tease
Posted:Jan 31, 2015 8:23 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2015 4:42 pm
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"a girl that leads a guy to believe that she's going to have sex with him, then doesnt. or pleases him to the point of almost orgasm and doesnt let him have it"


I was called a cock tease in chat last night. Not that I really care what a grumpy old man thinks of me. Pretty sure he was just pissed I wouldn't private chat with him, but it got me thinking.

If flirting and being friendly come off as a cock tease, how is one to act in chat. Only speak to the ones you are going to meet? That would be a pretty boring room.

I never discuss my BBWMatchMate meeting in the chatroom. Whether my "friend" is in the room or not. I feel like it's bragging and I'll wait to do that in blog form So, honestly this grumpy old man had no idea if I had ever slept with anyone who was in chat last night.

Not once did I "lead" anyone on last night. I was asked if I was attending the M & G. I asked when and where. And did not commit to anything as it is too far away for me to know what I'm up to!

So, are all of us considered "cock tease" by being on this site? Are we not allowed to flirt and talk dirty in chat because it could make ppl think we were going to have sex? This is a sex site, yes. But that does not mean I have to sleep with whoever shows interest, it is still my choice.

Thoughts?
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Armchair Memories
Posted:Jan 9, 2015 9:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2015 3:13 pm
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The email reads " I'm home. Are you going to text me Raven?"

In no time at all I'm freshly showered, scrubbed and shaved and ready for a fun evening.

I drive to his place. Excitement shoots through my body. He meets me at the door & welcomes me. He takes my coat & seats me on the chair. He mixes us drinks & we sit, sip and talk. After a while he invites me to the couch with him.

We start kissing, his hand in my hair, his other gliding along my leg. Up under my skirt. His fingers and thumb rub against my black lacy panties.

He shifts and lifts me to move on top of him. My breast are exposed and his lips find my hard nipple. My legs are straddling him and I can feel his hard throbbing cock rubbing against my wet panties. He lets me have my way with him, then gently helps me to the armchair.

I sit with legs spread wide. I feel his gaze on me and heard him whisper about how he can't wait to taste me. His hands travel up my thighs & thumbs hook my panties & tug. I lift my hips & he slips them off. I feel his warm breath along my thigh. I tingle and raise my hips are I feel the first flick of his tongue.

We spent about an hour in that armchair. Was a very sexy satisfying night. There were a few first that night, that surprised me & thrilled him.

The armchair memories are fond ones
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Porn
Posted:Jan 6, 2015 6:33 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2016 9:36 pm
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1. Do you watch porn?
2. Do you watch alone or with someone else?

3. What kind do you like?
4. How often do you watch?
5. Do you always masturbate while watching?

1. I watch porn.
2. I watch alone, get really shy when I watch with someone else.

3. i like watching anything that has lots of cunnilingus or toys.
4. I watch 3 or 4 times a week.
5. I ALWAYS masturbate while watching.

I think it could be a great "date" night, with the right person. To get a room and watch porn through the evening. Maybe order food in, watch a regular movie, back to porn. Jacuzzi, massage. Back to porn. What a lovely way to exhaust ones self

There was a hotel in Winnipeg. I was always promised I'd get there one day. Still hasn't happened. One day. The Mariaggi. What a place! Take a look at their website. Does E-town or Calgary have anything like that? I know Red Deer doesn't.
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