BBWMatchMate can be harsh for first timers – A Man’s perspective
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Posted:Apr 13, 2016 12:28 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2019 6:03 am
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IT FEELS LIKE A FRESHER IN A COLLEGE, BEING RAGGED FOR BEING NEW, MOST OF IT HAS BEEN GRATIFYING, SOME DISAPPOINTING!
We complete 30 days on BBWMatchMate on the 17th April and to this date we haven’t mated with anyone! Yeah we are virgins in that sense. But we never started this with a ticking clock in our hand, though this is also not an endless scouting project for us. Before coming here, we have had a long chat amongst ourselves on what we want and what we can offer to each other and to others. So, we are not a confused couple and we shall not go back on our words of meeting, connecting and mating, necessarily in the same order
Coming back to the headline, as newbies we have encountered numerous setbacks, from getting over 100 dick pictures in a day from Single males, despite clearly saying we’re not interested in Single Males, to talking to couples who suddenly decide that only the male of the species shall go ahead as the female is too shy and Sanskaari. Then a few smart couples can’t make it to meet at a scheduled time and place, despite confirming in the past, for reasons only known to them. But they surely want to keep chatting! Some of them claim in ‘only real meet’ and when you interact, they want to do Cam sex to determine if we can last more than 60 mins! People ask for face pics, while they won’t share theirs, saying they are more experienced hence they have greater say in the matter.
Couples claim they don’t do dirty talks and then the male wants to have intimate pictures of my wife while his lady is averse to the idea. When you refuse, they abuse.
We interacted with over 60 couples in the past 25 days, mostly two liners on IM and single line mails that we received as response from them. Those were enough for us to move away from most of them. No, we are not snobs, we like to communicate well and we expect the same from our counterparts and that has seldom happened, thus far
But we have also interacted with some very nice couples, clean, healthy and smart. Due to our travel schedule, we couldn’t meet with them and then came Chat Fatigue. Yeah! We started the cross talks with them over BBM and eventually, as they say, familiarity breeds contempt, we decided to drop our meets as chat fatigue set in.
To admit, we are also little slow; not retards (No offence) but we are learning the ropes here at our own pace. We carefully read every profile, every item you have published and look at the pics. We make a move only after we are sure in our minds.
Some couples say they love to communicate and connect before jumping into the sack and the only thing they talk is Tool size, whether wife will give oral and their wife won’t give oral. They can stop anytime during the act if they don’t feel like. A No is a No for them. But they will stretch their boundaries with my lady since they believe in perseverance!!
Some couples join in as couples and then if you talk nice to them, you’re beating around the bush, if you talk sex to them, it is perverted. The wife invariably drops out of the chat but the husband is a relentless pursuer Now, their status is couple swap and suddenly they have this insatiable desire to do MMF
Now the hunks and Mods: We are not models, we don’t seek one, though dream to covet one for sure but we know we are a little out of shape, so that’s a motivation for us to improve. But most “Good Looking couples” are a snob. They don’t talk nice and are demeaning. They also have a coterie of their own, which is fine, so we wish them good luck
Some are confused couples, the men become forward, they want their wives to join in and start asking for intimacy from my wife. Hey buddy, what about some equality? You see we are only for couples, the 4 of us must agree to same levels of interaction, we must get equal opportunity. While they ask for space for their wives, they want dirty intimacy from other’s wife.
Some wives are dominating as well. They will say “I know what I want, I shall demand pleasure but I don’t guarantee the same to you, we are conservative when it comes to certain things, you see” Well, good you for you guys but don’t be fickle minded, just be aware of what you want and what you can give and something unknown bust be left unsaid anyway, to add to the mystery
Anyway, we are lined up to meet a few nice, classy couples. These are people very approachable and don’t judge others. Shall share our experience soon after our first encounter. Please don’t expect pictures of those those are not the documents we’d like to record and certainly not share.
PS: The female is likely to have her version published soon, hope you will enjoy reading this and others coming your way
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Why are we here? In case you want to read beyond our profile
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Posted:Apr 11, 2016 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2019 4:11 am
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Not sure if this is an effective post for the first blog, specially when a lot of what's below is also on our profile page. Yet, we are disappointed to get the quality and certainly the quantity of response here! We have written a detailed profile, clearly outlining what we are, what we need and what we can provide. We have posted a few pics as well, shows you how we appear and our stats.
We are both foreign educated, have seen this lifestyle from close quarters in both US and the UK-EU. It is good to see people here are taking up this lifestyle; it sure is to bring down the road rage. The rules of engagement are different in EU and US, there's less verbal and pictorial violence there, atleast it was when we were there, about 15 years back!
So, after dating for 4 years, we have been married for 8 years, never felt the need to look beyond the marital bliss. We have been blessed with a and are quite happy in what we have. When we hit 35 this year, something struck us, like a self awareness lightening. We felt we have something to learn from other couples, share our experiences, expand the narrow horizon that we have built around us. Yeah, we travel a lot, mostly on work but also on leisure and when we see some of our Hotel Mates hitting on either of us or both, we feel sudden rush of adrenaline.
Anyway, we got discussing like buddies that we are, myself and the wife and we thought we must share a few things with other couples:
For one, we can come out of our complacency and expand our horizons by knowing more people from different walks of life.
Second, we could look at channelising our sexual energies, which may have been sagging for obvious reasons.
Third, we are both a little padded up, thanks to the consulting business we are in, which means long working hours, lot of airports, hotels, bad food and Single Malts and Beer (Wine for Sara)
Now, the motivation to court and covet thy neighbour's wife/Husband is likely to work wonders for us, is what we think and we are here. We are only interested in meeting with the couples, preferably married ones, that’s emphasized clearly on our profile. Singles, please refrain, no point wasting anyone’s time here. Let’s respectfully move on…happy hunting to everyone
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