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Things about traditional porn I do NOT like:
Posted:Feb 7, 2022 8:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2022 6:39 pm

Women, take off the stiletto heels in bed! Seriously. Not only does it do nothing for me, but it takes away from the scene. I am, of course, jealous that we men need to take off our socks.
The build-up is hot, especially in a seduction scene. If the clip starts with two or three nearly nude people in the bedroom, it ain’t a seduction.
Shaved everything. Ugggg. The appeal of nudity is seeing something you normally don’t see. And when the underwear and panties come off the hair is a part of it. Now I get trimming if the bush is very big and it comes out form biking bottoms, but bareass genitals as the usual is just too weird. Of course, my first porn was the seventies where bushes were everywhere so there is that. But future generations need to know that when stuff comes off, there may be hair. And that’s a good thing.
Today's update.
Posted:Jan 31, 2022 10:28 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

OK, first things first. I want to get laid. Now, did anyone not think that? I’m a 61 year old guy on BBWMatchMate. It seems pretty clear. So with my jumping up and down here, hands in the air waving, yelling “PICK ME, PICK ME!”, why should anyone actually pick me? Before I get into my points, I want to explain what I’ve seen in my few months here and what my expectations are. Please bear with me.

I think I’m pretty good at weeding out crap profiles and those that are only there to get information. I have little faith that the woman half my age from thousands of miles away has any interest in my wit, or my focusing on pleasing my lovers. That covers about 90% of the contacts I get.

I get some glances (or reports that they “looked at my profile”) from actual prospective members who pass a cursory test (age and distance). Generally, many of those are profiles who don’t fit what I’m looking for and I believe they peeked, didn’t like what they saw, and moved on. “C’est la Vie” as the French say.

A few I converse with. Some I find are not what I’m looking for and others decide the same about me. I have occasionally screwed up and possibly angered some people. To them, I apologize. I screwed up, I wasn’t fast enough, or some other flaw in my communication fell through. I ain’t perfect, but I try real fucking hard.

As to what I offer, I prefer to make love as opposed to fucking. What I do with someone is designed to pleasure them. Even if they want some kink and a little negative treatment. If you’re looking for porn to show my favorite style, it’s either massage videos or muscle worship where caressing and caring for parts of the body is the focus. I love rubbing, kissing, caressing bodies. I also enjoy being caressed, etc. as well. Compared to the parts of the body sex focuses on, the body is a big place with lots of play area. Every square inch of skin has nerve endings feeling sensations. My goal is to get you hard or wet before your privates are uncovered.

As to what I’m looking for, I like conversation. I love throwing complete sentences and paragraphs at people who ask for more than cursory messaging. It’s not like I can completely cover a dollar bill with eight hard ebony inches. I also won’t automatically think you’re going to want to fuck me if you return a simple “Hi” message. Or if you laugh at one of my jokes. I know there are guys like that and it can’t be easy being inundated with mass quantities of messages, most of which are garbage. That’s why I try to be polite and somewhat intelligent.

I hope I’ve given some folks a better impression of me. Take care.
Sex and looks, my ramblings
Posted:Jun 25, 2021 10:04 pm
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

Can we talk about sex and looks? I ask because I’m going to talk about it anyway, but you are welcome to comment and join the conversation. Sex and looks. Fairly often we hear someone with some variation of the comment “I find that person very attractive and I would desire coitus with them.” Usually, it is expressed somewhat more colorfully, if less eloquently.

Now, it’s been my experience that a sex partner’s looks have little to do with how good they will be in bed (or wherever). We go for the hot girl when what drives the quality of the experience is how into it and you they are. But this isn’t a simple rule. The quality of sex is how into it YOU are as well. So for some, knowing the mouth a part of your body is inside belongs to centerfold quality woman, may be greater than her actual skills. Or you could adhere to the “no such thing as a bad blowjob” school of thought. It’s a mix of desire, comfort, and experience.

Now even if you’re a staunch supporter of the “no such thing as a bad blowjob” (NSTAAB, there are varying levels of good. That doesn’t depend on your partner’s looks. It depends on what you like and how into it, she is.
What are you looking for?
Posted:Jan 14, 2021 4:46 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

Now, I am NOT telling anyone who they should prefer or who they should like. Not even if that turns you on. What I am doing is asking a question to primarily couples. If you need to put “No Single Males” in your profile description, why would you say you’re looking for men and check off men? At the risk of being “that guy”, there are categories of men (single men), women (single women), and couples (male and female). I can only speak for myself, but I am not contacting anyone who has not specified men on their profile.
I do not want to bother anyone with unwanted messaging (as brilliant and well-written as mine are) as that helps nobody and wastes both our time. Mostly mine. I only search members based on their liking men. If I have sent you a message unwanted, I apologize as I really only want to contact with a chance at success.
Thanks for reading this.
Stuff about sex partners
Posted:Dec 5, 2020 9:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

It’s why an overwhelming majority of us are here, isn’t it? I’m going to ramble on about sex in general because that is kinda what is done in a blog like this. Now sex feels great. The feelings before and especially during orgasm are positive leading species to reproduce and perpetrate.
Now my thoughts go to not the feelings of orgasm but to the feeling of having another person give you an orgasm or even want to give you an orgasm. Even though everyone here enjoys sex, not everyone wants to enjoy sex with you (or me). I’m sure there’s something going on in the head pumping something into your system when you learn that a person wants sex with you.
Now each of you has a group of people you would have sex with. Generally the “hot” people are on more of those lists. Me, personally, tend not to go into looks for wanting to fuck them. Sure, looking at them and seeing them nude would be affected, but when it comes to actually touching, talking, and kissing, there’s so much more for me. What, you may ask. I hope you ask any, because I’m about to tell you.
My better lovers have been those who have wanted to fuck. They were receptive to my actions and were open in what they wanted. They were willing to listen to and care about my needs and desires. Now that doesn’t invalidate the statement “there is no such thing as a bad blow job”, but it separates good blow jobs from excellent blowjobs.
There are few people I’d turn down for sex because of looks or body type. Gender and age, sure, I do have guidelines on those. I won’t go into them here, but if you want to know, let me know and I’ll be glad to share them with you. But that is the first cut. After that, the first occurrence needs to go well. No one wants to repeat a bad experience. A good attitude and effort almost cinches a repeat performance for me.
I am not a notch on the bedpost guy. If sex goes well, I want it again. And if it went well with you, I want it with you again. Makes sense to me. Thanks for reading my ramblings on sex.
Sex Dreams
Posted:May 25, 2020 7:28 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

I’m not talking about fantasies where we have conscious control over what they are, but what goes through your head while you’re asleep, warm and cozy, under your blankets. Dreams are said contain only people we have memories of even if they are passing glances. So when you dream and those dreams contain actual sexual contact do those dreams match what you imagine your fantasies be?

There are thoughts we have while our fingers and hands are working our genitals for the purpose of a kick-ass self-induced orgasm. Often, we’ll use other means help us along like a written story or a movie or even an old-fashioned magazine picture. But those are conscious choices. I know what mine are and what tools I use. But when I sleep and in my dream, my partners and circumstances are not the same as my fantasies.

Usually, the dreams are “OK, I could certainly get into that” type situations. Not necessarily my first choice of masturbatory aids, but certainly something I’d volunteer for. But there are also other dreams where I’m involved in something that I wouldn’t think I’d be willing to go along with. These scenes are me being forced, but performing acts with these people willingly. And in my waking life, I wouldn’t. So my question is are these deep desires I have or should I lay off the spicy food after a certain time of night? And does anyone else have sex dreams that differ from what they think their fantasies are?

And if you've gotten this far, thank you for reading.
Interesting Times
Posted:Mar 22, 2020 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2020 4:38 pm

What are people doing these days when social distancing is the norm and personal contact is frowned upon? An obvious answer would be porn, of course. Perhaps we go outside our comfort zone and instead of the usual type we enjoy, we try something new. That would be a lot like trying a new kind of restaurant or food. Or even the first episode of a series on Netflix. I've certainly tried different fetishes on the usual video sites and some of them have actually been to my liking and my list of go to items is now bigger. And when it comes to a go to list of porn, size does matter.

And then there is chatting. There is an Instant Messaging option here which I've tried but not had the success I've hoped for. Hence, this post to show folks that I am capable of putting words together in a somewhat intelligent fashion. I've tried both cyber sex chats and "get to know you" chats in the past elsewhere and had some luck, although I've had more success with the cyber stuff. Why is that? It's possible I am very good at cybering or it could be just that in cybering needs and desires are front and center and the chat has a singular purpose. Getting to know you chats are less defined and what each participant is looking for is often not that clear.

The "get to know you" (GTKY) chat is basically a job interview. Instead of talking about accomplishments and work history, we talk about almost anything and everything may or may not count. It's a challenge like finding the right puzzle piece when there are still a shitload of pieces on the table and going through each one is a long and tiring process. My strategy is to blog and hope people read these and get an idea of what I'm like.

There's a list of stuff I like and am into elsewhere on my profile. Some of you may have peeked at it and if you haven't, please take a look. I should probably add another blog about detailed interests and what about them interests or excites me. If you've read this, thank you. I do like compliments so if you have liked this, please let me know. I will assume a "I liked your blog" comment is not the same as "I want to fuck you". Hopefully, your day is going well and please check out my other blogs.
Enjoying a kind of porn for different reasons
Posted:Oct 31, 2019 10:35 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2022 1:37 pm

I recently got into watching a form of porn entitled "muscle worship". Simply, this is one (or more) people caressing and kissing parts of a fit person's body. This, to me, is a great form of love-making. The goal here is to make the person the focus is on feel good and also important. Also, you get to touch some really hot person, which is its own reward.

Now, the term "worship" implies a sense of domination/submission. And in some cases there is, but the bulk of this is the focusing of attention. That doesn't need a power trip. This form of sexual contact doesn't even need a hard bulky bicep or defined six-pack abs. Nor does it require tree trunk thighs. It's something we all can do and be the focus of as well.

There is massage that also makes a partner feel very good, but a good massage requires some talent. Massaging can be a powerful method to being pleasure to a lover and if you can find the way to apply the right pressure to their body, do it. If not, some body worship can be a sexy, erotic part of your love-making.

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