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Change
Posted:Jul 11, 2021 1:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 10:44 am
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It has been a very unusual 16 months. Working from home did not help. The fear of getting close to someone who might just make you sick. Still I was excited that I did meet someone from another website. He appeared to be perfect for me. In February he changed jobs cutting my sex life to once that month. It became one excuse or other and then the big snow storm.A woman called my house and left a message that he wanted me to call him. Strange but I brought it to his attention. He appeared to be surprised but said he had to listen to the message. He stayed in contact until April then nothing.I did not hear or see him. I had to get a new phone recently and sent messages to the numbers I did not recognize. He must have been one of them. Now he wants to get together but has not said a word about his disappearance. I was wondering if I should say something about it or just go with the flow. The sex was ok and the foreplay was for lack of a better word the bomb. He called almost everyday. I still need to worry about my safety. It is better to be safe than sorry after all. My sex life took a severe hit from May until today. This change back to the familiar would be safe but then I would be waiting for the other shoe to drop again.
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Fakes and Phonies
Posted:May 6, 2019 2:54 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2021 12:17 pm
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Once again my time was wasted not one but two men. I was taken in my conversation this time. First, there was someone who could not wait to meet me but was working long hours at a utility company I will not name. Finally after a month of texting the day arrived and nothing! He texted the next day saying there was some kind of problem. Taking the initiative, I said ok I am at work we can meet after I finish today. He agreed and once again nothing.
Next, there was the man who sounded too perfect. The phone calls and texting were continuous until I said enough time to meet. I had to pick up a package not far from where he said he lived so there was no involved. I expected just a simple hello and let's make plans. I arrived an hour earlier shopped and picked up my package. I waited minutes past time and once again nothing.

Oh yeah, there was a three but he developed a bad cold or something. At least I did hear from him.

In the meantime, my vibrator had a malfunction and exploded yesterday.
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Ain't this a.........,
Posted:Mar 17, 2019 1:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2019 7:39 am
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I had a quickie with a member last Sunday. I must say he had a very large dick. It has been years since I experienced that. I was fine with the time we spent together before and during. He texted me the next day and said that he enjoyed good things. I was not sure what he meant and asked in a text but got no response. The next day he texted me and asked what I was doing. I was getting a manicure. He texted me "What about me?" he wanted to know when I was going to take care of him. My response was "What about you should I have contacted you to pay for this?"
Guess I am moving on!
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End of year thoughts
Posted:Dec 27, 2018 7:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2018 9:52 am
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I not on here to become a wife or girlfriend. I aware that I get a lot of message from men who just want to look at pictures to get off and men who would have pay for sex if they were not on this site. There are young men looking for a sugar momma and some felons trying to be slick. Then there are men who think having a big dick makes them know how to fuck and others who should give up trying to fuck and learn to suck. I have met men who should see a doctor and get some viagra - it does not make any sense for a 30 something not to be able to get hard and telling me its the condom does not work. I don't need to buy or cook dinner to keep a man just to fuck. I should charge by the hour to listen to married men complain about their spouses yet they look at the clock and race home to the woman.
It has been hard to find a repeat sex partner; with no baggage. My one desire would possibly be to find a Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday good fuck even if it takes three. Life is too short for the crap on here to affect me so I wade through it
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Honesty
Posted:Dec 23, 2018 5:59 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 10:44 am
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Why is it so hard for people to be honest on this site? I have met several men and have had great sex with a few in the last few weeks. One man lied about his name, one was at least 20 years older than his profile stated, one I had to check his ID to see if he was legal and one said he was not married but his wife called me and said she had read our text and knew were meeting. I met a guy who admitted he was a felon (after I asked some key questions) and was looking for someone to help him out.

Why can't men say I want a one night stand?
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Meeting Men
Posted:Dec 13, 2018 3:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2018 10:36 am
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On Sunday, I met a man who said he was 54 but when we met he mentioned his who was 44. We met in a casual restaurant and he did pay for my meal but his eyes kept wandering to women over 65 for some reason. The conversation was boring and never was there a discussion about sex.
The previous day I had met a man who said he was a truck driver but he only had a futon and a room piled sky high with stuff (I thought it was the bathroom). His oral skills were good but the next day when we spoke on the phone he said he was hungry and what time was I going to bring him a plate. I thought he was joking and he hung up.
While my weekend was not a total bust, it did turn weird
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Do Over
Posted:Nov 24, 2018 10:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2018 4:30 pm
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If I could go back 11 years ago, I think I would have an open marriage. There is a guy I met on here that has one and it seems to work for them Before I got married, I was seeing a man who had an open marriage who was very nice to me. I just could not see it for me somehow. I like to have sex but after we were married my husband started to slow down. In an open marriage, I could have gotten what I needed elsewhere. As it turns out he would not have had to sneak around. His last words to me were, "I am going to fuck as many women as I can." I should have discussed having an open marriage with him. Before I file for divorce next year, I just might do that! Maybe it is not too late.
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What The Hell.....
Posted:Mar 10, 2018 3:47 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 12:32 pm
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Have not met this man but we have corresponded through texting and that video site MarcoPolo. So I was outdone when he texted me and said "I have more bills than usual. Can you help me out and pay some of them?" All I could say was "What the hell....."

Where in my profile did it say I was crazy or a bank? Why me?

Ok , this just happened. This man has been sending me messages and yesterday he asked me to meet him at a motel in the city. I was hot and said hey something is better than nothing. Then he sends me a picture of him and his woman and said "they would be waiting. I made it clear I like men and I don't go to 10 hours for 44 bucks. Hell a groupon would have gotten a better place! Not knocking anyone's style but me personally I like Black men only. but plan on broadening that to Men period.
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What is the purpose of accepting friend request?
Posted:Feb 25, 2018 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 10:44 am
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Ok, this site is designed for two or more people to hook up and have sex, right? The men in my friend network are the ones I am primarily interested in doing just that with BUT not the case! I think I would do better in a bar or at the grocery store at this point. I am very disappointed in this site and glad I have never paid to be here. The offers for sex are a little weird too. For example, I am sleep when I get a text "I am horny. How fast can you get here will text my address" Sadly, I have gotten several of those in the middle of the week. I am not a pizza! I don't deliver all hours of the night or at will. as I do work. I am going to give up soon and by the way, age is just a number!
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Snowbound.......days like this
Posted:Feb 10, 2018 2:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 10:44 am
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Thursday night when they announced that I did not have to work on Friday. I wished I had an FWB. All day Friday was the same. I even texted a few men I have been chatting with on this site and still nothing. It is now Saturday and I don't need to look at dick pictures. Who gives a fuck if I am not getting it! Why text me a picture of your penis in a snowstorm that does nothing for me. I need an FWB that is going to say let's get snowed in together and on my way with a 12 or 24 pack of condoms.
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