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mc_justmc 60M
1949 posts
6/1/2020 4:22 pm
What The Fuck??????


So today, I'm walking out of the room where I'd just spent the last 12 minutes getting my tan and I could hear her. A woman sharing a tale, something about her sister. She was fairly loud, since I had to walk down a hall and make 2 lefts to get to the front door where she was and I could hear her as clear as if she was talking to me. But then, walls in most salons don't go to the ceiling, just high enough to discourage pervs from sneaking a peek, so sound does carry quite well.

As I make that 2nd left I see her, and she sees me. She stops in mid sentence, one arm in the air, over her head, and holds that position for a few seconds. And a few seconds is all I got to look at her before I'm feeling so uncomfortable that I move my sight to the ground in front of me. She continues her story but I can tell by the sound of her voice she's still looking at me. NOW I'm feeling very uncomfortable.

She's in front of the counter with her back to the door, but as I pass behind her, by the sound of her voice, I can tell that she's turned to watch me walk out. By now I'm so self conscious that it's taking every bit of skill that I have to walk normally without tripping or shitting myself, or something else that would embarrass me to the point of never returning.

Once outside I walk briskly to my car, fumble with the keys, drop the keys in the parking lot, I eventually let myself in the car. I can finally relax and absorb what happened. What happened hasn't happened in many years and I am not prepared to handle the situation with an aggressive woman. I don't even know if she was attractive. In that short glimpse I got I know she was short, dirty blond with hair down to her ass, glasses, and her left arm had a full sleeve of tattoos. Other than that, I don't know if she was attractive or Alice the Goon.

It's probably been a good 30 years since anything like that has happened and it really gives me some insight to how women must feel when men come after them like that or worse. Then again, it's been a while since I've been laid, maybe I shouldn't have passed that opportunity up.

So my question to YOU is, how do you handle the "stare down". Do you run, like like I did? Or do you stare right back?


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 4:27 pm

you wanna stare? well, stare at THIS... happym;


brow6902 55M
83 posts
6/1/2020 4:54 pm

always stare back ! 🥴


superbjversion2 65F
20126 posts
6/1/2020 5:04 pm

I don't know that I've ever been a 'stare down' victim. Plus gal to guy I'm sure is different than gal to gal. I probably would've stayed and listened to the end of the story.

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Paulxx001 63M
17051 posts
6/1/2020 5:18 pm

I usually just stared back.
And in grade two - it was easy to do.

... is there another way to look at it.
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mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 5:27 pm

    Quoting brow6902:
    always stare back ! 🥴
I'm afraid if she wasn't attractive she would have thought I was interested and that would have been a whole new problem.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 5:28 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I don't know that I've ever been a 'stare down' victim. Plus gal to guy I'm sure is different than gal to gal. I probably would've stayed and listened to the end of the story.
Hahahahaha, I hadn't thought about that!


positively4you 70F  
3902 posts
6/1/2020 5:59 pm

I just figure he is looking at me in disgust instead of lust. Hard to tell. 🤦‍♀️


positively4you 70F  
3902 posts
6/1/2020 6:00 pm

I am thinking she was lusting.


CharlesD6996 50M  
212 posts
6/1/2020 6:14 pm

You could have done the really confident and cheeky thing. Walked right up to her and said "Excuse me, I think you dropped this." and gently touch her chin.

Probably wouldn't get away with it these days, though...

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TicklePlease 52F  
12760 posts
6/1/2020 6:37 pm

It's rare that a guy will maintain eye contact once I meet it so a "stare down" hasn't happened in years. I called it an eyefuck but yeah... same kind of thing.

I almost miss it.


idblueswoman 61F  
712 posts
6/1/2020 6:41 pm

I am still trying to process that you went to a tanning salon at your age, never mind the woman.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 6:42 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I usually just stared back.
    And in grade two - it was easy to do.
I might have considered it if there wasn't an audience of tanning consultants.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 6:43 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I just figure he is looking at me in disgust instead of lust. Hard to tell. 🤦‍♀️
I was getting a lust vibe and the women like this that I've met in the past don't take rejection well.


JustLookn439 54M

6/1/2020 7:01 pm

I rather enjoy them. THen again, I have no problem asking them, "Were you looking for me?" Then the ball is in their court....if they say yes, (and assuming you are glad, you can carry on the conversation. If they say "no" then I'd say that I noticed they were looking at me as though they recognized me. Which is a nice way to tell them you noticed they were staring.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 7:07 pm

yes, aggressive lusting.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 7:09 pm

    Quoting CharlesD6996:
    You could have done the really confident and cheeky thing. Walked right up to her and said "Excuse me, I think you dropped this." and gently touch her chin.

    Probably wouldn't get away with it these days, though...
I wasn't ready to get within arms reach of her. If she wasn't attractive she, I fear she wouldn't take rejection well, considering women that have acted that way in my past.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 7:10 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    It's rare that a guy will maintain eye contact once I meet it so a "stare down" hasn't happened in years. I called it an eyefuck but yeah... same kind of thing.

    I almost miss it.
Yes, the eyefuck, and she wasn't doing it aggressively.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 7:12 pm

    Quoting idblueswoman:
    I am still trying to process that you went to a tanning salon at your age, never mind the woman.
Ok, I'll ask, what does my age have to do with getting a tan? Besides, I've seen many people there older than myself.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 7:14 pm

    Quoting JustLookn439:
    I rather enjoy them. THen again, I have no problem asking them, "Were you looking for me?" Then the ball is in their court....if they say yes, (and assuming you are glad, you can carry on the conversation. If they say "no" then I'd say that I noticed they were looking at me as though they recognized me. Which is a nice way to tell them you noticed they were staring.
Interesting. T"he last time I toyed with a woman like this she verbally bit my head off in a bar. I was looking over my shoulder for the rest of the night.


redrockrascal 61M
21515 posts
6/1/2020 7:47 pm

I don't recall that I've ever been 'stared down' by an unknown woman. As far as loud aggressive women go I've heard several and I do not give them what they want, which is usually attention. They don't deserve it IMO.

Careful when you bend over to pick up car keys - that is a prime position for "shitting yourself".

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mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/1/2020 8:06 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I don't recall that I've ever been 'stared down' by an unknown woman. As far as loud aggressive women go I've heard several and I do not give them what they want, which is usually attention. They don't deserve it IMO.

    Careful when you bend over to pick up car keys - that is a prime position for "shitting yourself".
Yes, I agree. When I meet a woman I try to imagine what kind of angry person she is, and the loud aggressive kind are the kind I avoid.


idblueswoman 61F  
712 posts
6/1/2020 9:07 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Ok, I'll ask, what does my age have to do with getting a tan? Besides, I've seen many people there older than myself.
Most importantly, it's so unhealthy for your skin. Tanned guys in my 20's were hot, but now it's not really a turn on for me. personally. What ever makes you feel better I suppose.


mamacita38dd 41F
50267 posts
6/2/2020 12:15 am

    Quoting idblueswoman:
    I am still trying to process that you went to a tanning salon at your age, never mind the woman.
I'm still trying to process after all the years I have seen you on the blogs with the same profile pic, it's never changed... just saying!

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mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 2:56 am

    Quoting idblueswoman:
    Most importantly, it's so unhealthy for your skin. Tanned guys in my 20's were hot, but now it's not really a turn on for me. personally. What ever makes you feel better I suppose.
Thanks for your concern. Here are some benefits of tanning beds:
It Reduces the Risk of Skin Cancer
Indoor Tanning Makes Your Body Produce Vitamin D
Hormonal Balance and Oil Production
Reduces Scar/Stretch Marks Visibility, even though I'm fond of my scars
Reduces the Visibility of Jaundice Skin
Helps You Lose Weight
and it does make me feel better so there's a psychological benefit there, as well.


secret_lade 46F
3688 posts
6/2/2020 3:40 am

This happens to me often... I always feel insecure and look away. It happened with my work BFF yesterday.... I chose to breeze past him, then he called out my name so I had to stop. He then said "you have flowers on your shoes"


lindoboy100 57M
21302 posts
6/2/2020 4:05 am

Dae ye wear them wee goggle thingies? I don't think they've made a sun bed that would be big enough.......for ma beer belly. Also, think I might need to pay extra for the greater surface area!!

I'd have made an excuse and stayed around for the story, sorry, but ma big sticky beak would ha'e got the better of me!!

Aye, it's happened to me a couple of times in the past. Once the lady was a bit plug, so I didnae bother pursuing. The other time it was a guy which isnae really my thing.......to each their own and all that mind!

Pull ma finger.........


smartasswoman 62F  
33030 posts
6/2/2020 10:13 am

    Quoting idblueswoman:
    I am still trying to process that you went to a tanning salon at your age, never mind the woman.
I was trying to process the fact that tanning salons are OPEN where he lives! Not where I am...


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 10:43 am

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    I'm still trying to process after all the years I have seen you on the blogs with the same profile pic, it's never changed... just saying!
Hahahahahaha I was just wondering if I should update my feet pic, maybe trim my toenails, get some flip flops.....


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 2:57 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    This happens to me often... I always feel insecure and look away. It happened with my work BFF yesterday.... I chose to breeze past him, then he called out my name so I had to stop. He then said "you have flowers on your shoes"
If hadn't been wearing my mask I might have guessed something was hanging out of my nose.


mamacita38dd 41F
50267 posts
6/2/2020 3:01 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Hahahahahaha I was just wondering if I should update my feet pic, maybe trim my toenails, get some flip flops.....
Nah... your profile is fine my friend, I was just throwing a little shade back at a shady person

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mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 3:07 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Dae ye wear them wee goggle thingies? I don't think they've made a sun bed that would be big enough.......for ma beer belly. Also, think I might need to pay extra for the greater surface area!!

    I'd have made an excuse and stayed around for the story, sorry, but ma big sticky beak would ha'e got the better of me!!

    Aye, it's happened to me a couple of times in the past. Once the lady was a bit plug, so I didnae bother pursuing. The other time it was a guy which isnae really my thing.......to each their own and all that mind!
I never use those goggles, I tried them once but they leave white rings around your eyes. I didn't think the story sounded good enough to hang around and listen too, and my fear was showing any interest in someone who I wasn't attracted too. I didn't get a good look at her, but I rarely get this kind of attention and it's even more rare that it's a woman I'm attracted to.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 3:09 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I was trying to process the fact that tanning salons are OPEN where he lives! Not where I am...
For about 3 weeks now!


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/2/2020 3:10 pm

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    Nah... your profile is fine my friend, I was just throwing a little shade back at a shady person
Hahahaha, I'm gonna trim those nails just the same.


author51 57F  
94408 posts
6/3/2020 7:01 am

    Quoting brow6902:
    always stare back ! 🥴
Yep...to both the men and the women..then I walk away..

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mature_951 58F  
3348 posts
6/5/2020 1:13 pm

stare back, wink and maybe a wave

"You can stroke people with words."


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/5/2020 3:48 pm

    Quoting mature_951:
    stare back, wink and maybe a wave
it's almost weekend, if I see her I may say "hi".


tickles4us 58M
7196 posts
6/10/2020 7:25 am

I usually just ignore them... drives some of them up the friggin wall.

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mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/10/2020 4:43 pm

    Quoting tickles4us:
    I usually just ignore them... drives some of them up the friggin wall.
I just walked out the door and kept on walking. Kind of fast.


mc_justmc 60M
6156 posts
6/15/2020 4:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Things like that have more meaning to me as the years go by.


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