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secret_lade 46F
10652 posts
3/20/2021 9:42 am
Saturday Morning Post

It's a beautiful Saturday morning....

Later on the Spawn and I will be trekking out on an adventure, but for the moment, I'm lost in my thoughts.

Thoughts on life, thoughts on identity.

This post marks a milestone 600th post for me. That's a lot of stories and thoughts in the grand scheme of things....

Out of all the people I come into contact with each day, it's probably my regular readers who have the best idea of who I actually am.

Perhaps not in appearance....

But in identity. For it is you readers who read my inner most thoughts and feelings, it is you that I've shared my funny stories and frustrated rants with.

I tend to not hold back here....

I don't really need to. For the most part, nobody here knows me in real life. I'm anonymous, an online persona, someone who writes a brief story that puts a smile on your face or begs you to wonder, what the hell was she thinking?

The funny thing is, it's my online persona that I identify with most.

It has every facet of me.

When I'm at home, I'm the heavy. I'm 'mean mom' who makes her take out the trash and clean their room. I complain about wasting food and spending money and use things like cell phones and internet access as tools of manipulation in order to get them to be contributing members of the household.

"You want to keep that cell phone??? I'd better see your ass out there bringing up some groceries."

"You'll get the new internet password when I can see your bedroom floor again."

"Who left the fucking milk out all day??? Really??"

When I'm at work I'm Sunshine. Literally.... I have a coworker who calls me Sunshine. Even on days when I just want to die I present that smiley, bubbly, happy face for all the world to see and tuck those emotions deep down inside hoping for the moment they will just disappear.

They never do....

But I do such a good job pretending. I'm the office girl with the funny stories and the listening ear. I help them when they are struggling and teach them when they need instruction. I am often stressed out but always make time.

And now I'm without my Work BFF so even that small avenue of realism is gone as well.

I've decided, for my 600th post, I've chosen to reveal a piece of my identity.

Do I always look like this?

No, I am a normal woman with good hair days and bad hair days and I don't live in a world that contains a gray scale filter.

But, this is me.

On a good day.....



In a few days time, this post will be buried by others I will write and publish, forgotten in the sea of the past. For my regular readers though, you will have an opportunity to put a face to the words.

You will see another side...

Another facet of me.

Twotimes121 60M
22 posts
4/3/2021 11:08 pm

Thnx for sharing


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
4/3/2021 6:03 am

    Quoting scottj55555:
    Appreciate you sharing your beautiful face with us. Always glad to be able to get to see a face to put to the name, sense of humor and uh, feet photos.
If you want to be noticed, you have to have something noticeable. In a sea of dick pics and tit shot profiles.... Feet get noticed. In all my years on here, I've always had feet profile photos.


scottj55555 52M
1981 posts
4/3/2021 12:32 am

Appreciate you sharing your beautiful face with us. Always glad to be able to get to see a face to put to the name, sense of humor and uh, feet photos.


Papichulo_563 41M
15 posts
4/1/2021 9:45 am

Mmmh nice 😘


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/28/2021 2:40 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/22/2021 4:49 pm

    Quoting fwblook4unow:
    Gorgeous pic Secret_lade😘 Wish I didnt live so far away...would love to take you out on a date😉
Well, thank you!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/22/2021 4:49 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I always enjoy your posts, even the difficult one to read, because it's immediately clear that you write from the heart. And you write so well.

    And there's that lovely face and those gorgeous eyes!
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoy my writing. You're right, I do write from the heart... All my thoughts and feelings. You're always so kind to me.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/22/2021 4:46 pm

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ...always an enlightening experience viewing your blog Michigan......

    ...carpe diem....
Hopefully that's a good thing...


merlot5555 65M  
1290 posts
3/22/2021 8:09 am

...always an enlightening experience viewing your blog Michigan......

...carpe diem....


lindoboy100 58M
23183 posts
3/22/2021 6:34 am

I always enjoy your posts, even the difficult one to read, because it's immediately clear that you write from the heart. And you write so well.

And there's that lovely face and those gorgeous eyes!

Pull ma finger.........


fwblook4unow 41M
118 posts
3/22/2021 3:59 am

Gorgeous pic Secret_lade😘 Wish I didnt live so far away...would love to take you out on a date😉


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/21/2021 7:32 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Woot! A fellow tortoiseshell glasses wearer! *cheers!!!
Yes ma'am!! Every pair I own!


TicklePlease 53F  
13285 posts
3/21/2021 5:17 am

Woot! A fellow tortoiseshell glasses wearer! *cheers!!!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:47 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    A face pic? Get ready for a mailbox full of "tributes".
Nope, believe it or not, not a single tribute. Now *that* is a pleasant surprise!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:45 pm

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Happy 600. You don’t look a day over 150. Actually you’re lovely. And you’re right. Blogging gives one a chance to unpack themself without fear of being recognized. Friends, family and co-workers all get to see one part of you but us lucky readers get all of you. Well not All. Gotta keep some mystery, right? I’ve shared my face on my profile before I decided to close ranks and become faceless again. So I know the reticence of sharing. It’s not just people who may recognize you but the wicked ones who either steal that image or choose to use it for nefarious reasons. Here’s hoping that’s not the case.
    In any event, I can’t wait to see what you share for the 1,000th.
1,000th post? Recipes... Definitely recipes. LOL


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:39 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    Beautiful now the feet tells the story.
    enjoy your post now to see you makes it even better.
    hope your milk is ok xoxoxoxo
I totally had to throw the milk out. It sat on the counter all day while I was at work and the kids were at school. One of them had cereal and didn't put it away. TICKED ME OFF!!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:37 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    thank you, it is nice to put a face with the personae, you are a lovely woman, inside and out.
Thank you, that was a very kind compliment!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:36 pm

    Quoting tallinshorts0911:
    I appreciate you blog.
    Wish I had the gift of words at times to express what I wish to express. I can empathize with the details of your work... say I have experienced the same. Yet still laugh my ass off reading your blogs.

    Thank you for sharing with the world.
I'm glad you enjoy my blog! Thank you for reading!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:32 pm

thank you


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:31 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I can see why you were given the sunshine nick-name. You really do look so bubbly, attractive and friendly
thank you


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:30 pm

    Quoting 57FredFred:
    Wow! What a surprise, I wasn't expecting to ever see a pic. You are beautiful, inside and out. I look forward to your posts and your escapades at home and at work. Congrats on 600 posts.
600.... That's a lot of posts. I thought it deserved something big. It won't take long for the post to be buried in the past and people will have forgotten it was ever shared.... But for the moment, it's out there.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:26 pm

    Quoting big54al:
    Very Nice pic, thanks for sharing
You're welcome!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:25 pm

    Quoting Massass1963:
    Well isn't THIS a pleasant surprise?! I have to second some of the other comments above or below, as the case may be! You are simply attractive! I'll say no more!
Well, thank you. That was very kind.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:23 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Great picture! I remember the one that showed your eyes even better...and in color. You've got beautiful eyes! Love the stories you share with us. Yeah, even the "mean mom" ones. How else will your kids learn if you don't have rules, boundaries and consequences? But they know you love them, too.
Thank you! That picture that showed my eyes was from nearly a year ago, believe it or not. You're right, kids do need boundaries and consequences. I tell mine all the time, it's not my job to be their friend it is my job to mold them into the best version of themselves.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:17 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    First Class as I always pictured. So glad to put the smile with the words you write..
    And holding things to get results at home with the kids is the norm. even me I have to do some of this with the grandkids. I do see an end to my household as of the las year,, I see school back in full force, I see the young ones living back in some semblance of the world of past!
    Each of us allow some of ourselves out each time we write into this space/place. It just takes looking and listening to learn someone else..
    Have a good day, be careful going in and out of your place, da guy may be out there with his pick-up trying to "hit" on you.....
Oh! Get this!! Wife is 'on again' with Apartment Complex Stud. LOL It's a regular Payton Place around here....

I'm glad to hear your life is starting to get some semblance of normalcy, again. I'm still anxiously awaiting some normalcy in mine. Damn COVID!


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:12 pm

ok


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:11 pm

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    Well hello there! It's nice to put a face to the name.
    I identify with my online persona too.
    Before I started blogging I was in a local group that was active.
    I had an online and in=person persona in that group that was a facade.
It's kind of funny how we can be a lil more honest in our thoughts and opinions when we are online. I've come to terms with a lot of stuff just by writing about it on here.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:07 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    Thank you for sharing a face photo. I think that anyone would be able to be thankful to look at your face any day and see the person behind it and be glad to know you.
Thank you, that was very, very kind.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:06 pm

    Quoting thinkingofyou12:
    Thank you for sharing. I always look forward to your blog, but I never read it while drinking any liquid, I'm afraid I would snort fluid out my nose.
We definitely don't want you to be snorting any fluids out of your nose.... I'm glad you enjoy my blog.


mc_justmc 60M  
6551 posts
3/20/2021 7:06 pm

A face pic? Get ready for a mailbox full of "tributes".


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 7:05 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    You are a very pretty woman!

    I use this forum to write, and like you, it sometimes reveals more than I share with anyone close to me. Some people just don't want to know that much, lol.

    About once a year I share a full-face pic of myself as well on this site. I think mine is due in April-ish. Another year older ... hmmm .... not sure revealing another year of age is wise!
Sometimes I have an easier time releasing my emotions through writing.... Especially if it's something difficult that makes me emotional. I've never actually shared a full face photo of myself, talk about scary. Yikes! Deep down, I'll always be that ugly duckling..... afraid that everyone is snickering behind her back.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 6:52 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    You are beautiful. Your post today brought some tears t my eyes. I miss all of the ups and downs with my daughter but but I have those now with my grandson since I am taking care of him on Wednesday for school.
Those ups and downs only happen for such a short time.... You have to appreciate it while you can.


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 6:46 pm

Thank you


MrWrong4RghtNow 54M  
1363 posts
3/20/2021 6:22 pm

Happy 600. You don’t look a day over 150. Actually you’re lovely. And you’re right. Blogging gives one a chance to unpack themself without fear of being recognized. Friends, family and co-workers all get to see one part of you but us lucky readers get all of you. Well not All. Gotta keep some mystery, right? I’ve shared my face on my profile before I decided to close ranks and become faceless again. So I know the reticence of sharing. It’s not just people who may recognize you but the wicked ones who either steal that image or choose to use it for nefarious reasons. Here’s hoping that’s not the case.
In any event, I can’t wait to see what you share for the 1,000th.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


topherific 58M
4893 posts
3/20/2021 6:10 pm

pretty


69ereatwetpussy 58M
4892 posts
3/20/2021 4:50 pm

Beautiful now the feet tells the story.
enjoy your post now to see you makes it even better.
hope your milk is ok xoxoxoxo


lust4life59 62F  
1491 posts
3/20/2021 3:53 pm

thank you, it is nice to put a face with the personae, you are a lovely woman, inside and out.


tallinshorts0911 52M  
21 posts
3/20/2021 3:46 pm

I appreciate you blog.
Wish I had the gift of words at times to express what I wish to express. I can empathize with the details of your work... say I have experienced the same. Yet still laugh my ass off reading your blogs.

Thank you for sharing with the world.


CUMHANDLEME 58F  
692 posts
3/20/2021 3:06 pm

And what a pretty facet to share

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


citizen4722 63M  
70850 posts
3/20/2021 2:53 pm

I can see why you were given the sunshine nick-name. You really do look so bubbly, attractive and friendly


57FredFred 64M  
667 posts
3/20/2021 2:39 pm

Wow! What a surprise, I wasn't expecting to ever see a pic. You are beautiful, inside and out. I look forward to your posts and your escapades at home and at work. Congrats on 600 posts.


big54al 66M
2159 posts
3/20/2021 2:35 pm

Very Nice pic, thanks for sharing


Massass1963 57M  
1359 posts
3/20/2021 1:26 pm

Well isn't THIS a pleasant surprise?! I have to second some of the other comments above or below, as the case may be! You are simply attractive! I'll say no more!


pagancountrygirl 63F
5623 posts
3/20/2021 1:24 pm

Great picture! I remember the one that showed your eyes even better...and in color. You've got beautiful eyes! Love the stories you share with us. Yeah, even the "mean mom" ones. How else will your kids learn if you don't have rules, boundaries and consequences? But they know you love them, too.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


lonlyforlove2 78M
18775 posts
3/20/2021 1:18 pm

First Class as I always pictured. So glad to put the smile with the words you write..
And holding things to get results at home with the kids is the norm. even me I have to do some of this with the grandkids. I do see an end to my household as of the las year,, I see school back in full force, I see the young ones living back in some semblance of the world of past!
Each of us allow some of ourselves out each time we write into this space/place. It just takes looking and listening to learn someone else..
Have a good day, be careful going in and out of your place, da guy may be out there with his pick-up trying to "hit" on you.....

stop in at lonlyforlove2 you might get a smile!!
What makes my Lady, my Lady IMHO


Paulxx001 64M
18800 posts
3/20/2021 12:42 pm

go... 4 IT..


hippiechick1967 56F
12763 posts
3/20/2021 12:01 pm

Well hello there! It's nice to put a face to the name.
I identify with my online persona too.
Before I started blogging I was in a local group that was active.
I had an online and in=person persona in that group that was a facade.

Elevate me...


bbuckwwheat 62M
5786 posts
3/20/2021 11:58 am

Thank you for sharing a face photo. I think that anyone would be able to be thankful to look at your face any day and see the person behind it and be glad to know you.

Private mailbox at my blog bbuckwwheat
Fayette, Iowa


thinkingofyou12 64M
2473 posts
3/20/2021 11:46 am

Thank you for sharing. I always look forward to your blog, but I never read it while drinking any liquid, I'm afraid I would snort fluid out my nose.


Granny872 68F  
3538 posts
3/20/2021 11:31 am

You are a very pretty woman!

I use this forum to write, and like you, it sometimes reveals more than I share with anyone close to me. Some people just don't want to know that much, lol.

About once a year I share a full-face pic of myself as well on this site. I think mine is due in April-ish. Another year older ... hmmm .... not sure revealing another year of age is wise!

Yep, it's my blog, and the content is not up for a vote or for manipulation. I write for myself, it's the cheapest form of therapy. If you don't like the content, just stop reading. Easy peasey.


flannel_light 58F  
2723 posts
3/20/2021 11:24 am

You are beautiful. Your post today brought some tears t my eyes. I miss all of the ups and downs with my daughter but but I have those now with my grandson since I am taking care of him on Wednesday for school.


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


mufdiver69er2 60M  
1560 posts
3/20/2021 10:51 am

mmmrowwww...cutie...!!

woop woop


secret_lade 46F
6724 posts
3/20/2021 9:44 am

It's a beautiful Saturday morning....

Later on the Spawn and I will be trekking out on an adventure, but for the moment, I'm lost in my thoughts.

Thoughts on life, thoughts on identity.

This post marks a milestone 600th post for me. That's a lot of stories and thoughts in the grand scheme of things....

Out of all the people I come into contact with each day, it's probably my regular readers who have the best idea of who I actually am.

Perhaps not in appearance....

But in identity. For it is you readers who read my inner most thoughts and feelings, it is you that I've shared my funny stories and frustrated rants with.

I tend to not hold back here....

I don't really need to. For the most part, nobody here knows me in real life. I'm anonymous, an online persona, someone who writes a brief story that puts a smile on your face or begs you to wonder, what the hell was she thinking?

The funny thing is, it's my online persona that I identify with most.

It has every facet of me.

When I'm at home, I'm the heavy. I'm 'mean mom' who makes her children take out the trash and clean their room. I complain about wasting food and spending money and use things like cell phones and internet access as tools of manipulation in order to get them to be contributing members of the household.

"You want to keep that cell phone??? I'd better see your ass out there bringing up some groceries."

"You'll get the new internet password when I can see your bedroom floor again."

"Who left the fucking milk out all day??? Really??"

When I'm at work I'm Sunshine. Literally.... I have a coworker who calls me Sunshine. Even on days when I just want to die I present that smiley, bubbly, happy face for all the world to see and tuck those emotions deep down inside hoping for the moment they will just disappear.

They never do....

But I do such a good job pretending. I'm the office girl with the funny stories and the listening ear. I help them when they are struggling and teach them when they need instruction. I am often stressed out but always make time.

And now I'm without my Work BFF so even that small avenue of realism is gone as well.

I've decided, for my 600th post, I've chosen to reveal a piece of my identity.

Do I always look like this?

No, I am a normal woman with good hair days and bad hair days and I don't live in a world that contains a gray scale filter.

But, this is me.

On a good day.....

[image]

In a few days time, this post will be buried by others I will write and publish, forgotten in the sea of the past. For my regular readers though, you will have an opportunity to put a face to the words.

You will see another side...

Another facet of me.


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