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sexyldy1000 65F  
10292 posts
2/16/2021 11:47 am
If You Fall in Love



Fall in love with someone who deserves your heart. Not someone who plays with it.

Fall in love with someone who loves your smile and would do anything t.o see it.

Fall in love with someone who isn’t shy t.o kiss you in public.

Fall in love with someone who is proud to introduce you t.o their friends and family.

Fall in love with someone who will never take you for granted.

Fall in love with someone who doesn’t just say the right things. They do the right things.

Fall in love with someone who would never do anything t.o hurt you.

Fall in love with someone who loves and accepts you for your flaws and scars and thinks you are perfect just the way you are..

Fall in love with someone who wants t.o wake up beside you every day.

Fall in love with someone who tells you every day that they love you.





sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/16/2021 11:56 am

Today I am feeling sentimental. Perhaps it follows what is supposed to be the 'most romantic day of the year'. Or maybe it's being hunkered down on this cold and snowy day. I decided to revisit and update a previous post.

What kind of person do you think you should fall in love with? Have you found them?


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
2/16/2021 12:23 pm

Great Love Advice for today as everyone should read this one, as it is so true on what to look for when falling in love with that special someone.

I hope your Tuesday is a terrific one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


resant78 43M  
3326 posts
2/16/2021 12:25 pm

So beautiful!

"Fall in love with someone who loves and accepts you for your flaws and scars and thinks you are perfect just the way you are.."
this line here is so important to me.

Thank you for posting!


Hornyolderman37 67M
7 posts
2/16/2021 12:27 pm

I agree with everything you said!


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
2/16/2021 12:27 pm

She's someone who HAS to make me laugh. Can't always be my punch line.

If she's not easygoing with a thick skin and an intuitive POV, things will fizzle.


hippiechick1967 58F  
13154 posts
2/16/2021 3:48 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a wonderful marriage.

Elevate me...


boobwhisperer69 59M  
8323 posts
2/16/2021 3:51 pm

I found her, but she is already taken!!!!


hippiechick1967 58F  
13154 posts
2/16/2021 3:53 pm

I want to fall for someone who's kind,
someone who thinks I'm pretty,
someone who thinks I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread,
someone who loves me BECAUSE of my quirks rather than despite them.

Elevate me...


flannel_light 59F
4586 posts
2/16/2021 7:40 pm

I had all of these with my love until he past away a few years ago due to cancer.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


lickeyzsplit 59M  
1516 posts
2/17/2021 5:35 am

I was married to for 29 years and in an instant all is gone and only memories are left Now to carry on and find that spark or that something ? A new spark or something ! IDK sometimes it seems pointless my heart is wounded and to have it hurt again isnt what i want so hard!!! proceed with caution !!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:15 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Great Love Advice for today as everyone should read this one, as it is so true on what to look for when falling in love with that special someone.

    I hope your Tuesday is a terrific one..
Sometimes we just need a reminder to not 'settle'. Keep smiling


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:17 am

    Quoting resant78:
    So beautiful!

    "Fall in love with someone who loves and accepts you for your flaws and scars and thinks you are perfect just the way you are.."
    this line here is so important to me.

    Thank you for posting!
People are not perfect and they need to accept themselves for all their flaws and imperfections. When they do, others will see them that way also. Thank you for your positive comment.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:18 am

    Quoting  :

I am sorry for your loss. Sounds like you had a remarkable man in your life. Sometimes we don't see the true value until it's gone.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:19 am

Nothing you would add?


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:20 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    She's someone who HAS to make me laugh. Can't always be my punch line.

    If she's not easygoing with a thick skin and an intuitive POV, things will fizzle.
It's important to know what things you aren't willing to compromise on.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:22 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful love story. I am sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace and solace.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:31 am

It's difficult and hard to navigate.
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sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:32 am

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    I want to fall for someone who's kind,
    someone who thinks I'm pretty,
    someone who thinks I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread,
    someone who loves me BECAUSE of my quirks rather than despite them.
Thank you for sharing your 'wants'. I hope you find that special person.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:33 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I had all of these with my love until he past away a few years ago due to cancer.
I am sorry for your loss. Best wishes in finding someone special again.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 11:35 am

    Quoting lickeyzsplit:
    I was married to for 29 years and in an instant all is gone and only memories are left Now to carry on and find that spark or that something ? A new spark or something ! IDK sometimes it seems pointless my heart is wounded and to have it hurt again isnt what i want so hard!!! proceed with caution !!
Memories are what keep those we lost in our hearts. Sometimes we look too hard for that renewed spark. I wish you the best in finding it again.


MrRareity 62M  
4589 posts
2/17/2021 1:05 pm

I love this post I agree with every words and the and the saying by Warhol. Thank you for posting it.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
2/17/2021 2:20 pm

What you listed were the EXPECTED minimums for love - they are a GIVEN. The are WITHOUT reproach. That's LOVE defined.

The attributes EVERYONE, searches for, are the BASICS - before that loving wave clicks in.

Some people get a handle on it.
Some people paste the words. Do you have it or are you the judge?

Or are you one of those to LIST twenty fucking of his faults and then wonder where the fuck he was ?

I'd be fricken turned off by that bullshit. TOTALLY!

Do you have any foibles? 🤔
Or are you PERFECT?


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 3:21 pm

    Quoting MrRareity:
    I love this post I agree with every words and the and the saying by Warhol. Thank you for posting it.
It is always rewarding when someone can relate to something I post. It can be a challenge to find pictures to support the words. Sometimes, the pictures inspire the words. I don’t expect others to always agree and an interesting dialogue that is sparked is refreshing.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/17/2021 3:35 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    What you listed were the EXPECTED minimums for love - they are a GIVEN. The are WITHOUT reproach. That's LOVE defined.

    The attributes EVERYONE, searches for, are the BASICS - before that loving wave clicks in.

    Some people get a handle on it.
    Some people paste the words. Do you have it or are you the judge?

    Or are you one of those to LIST twenty fucking of his faults and then wonder where the fuck he was ?

    I'd be fricken turned off by that bullshit. TOTALLY!

    Do you have any foibles? 🤔
    Or are you PERFECT?
Gee, don’t know what sparked your angry retort.
Certainly never professed to be a judge nor to be perfect. However, I am entitled to an opinion and to express it here on my space and out in the ‘real world’’. A healthy relationship includes open and honest dialogue, not just saying what you think the other person wants to hear. It’s also knowing when and where that should occur. Cheers 🥂 to those who have the ‘right’ person in their lives.


SingleInGR 54M
361 posts
2/18/2021 9:10 am

Great words of wisdom, that is so true!

Now only if I knew where to find such a person whom would feel the same.

Thanks for sharing.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/18/2021 12:31 pm

    Quoting SingleInGR:
    Great words of wisdom, that is so true!

    Now only if I knew where to find such a person whom would feel the same.

    Thanks for sharing.


Thank you for your words of support . Often, I think people look too hard and in all the wrong places. Finding the 'right person for you can happen when you least expect it. Relax and she will find you.


trixietrixster 54F  
3125 posts
2/25/2021 12:43 pm

Fall is luv while keeping your own sense of self, being your unique self. Fall in luv with those who allow you to be you ...

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
2/25/2021 1:01 pm

    Quoting trixietrixster:
    Fall is luv while keeping your own sense of self, being your unique self. Fall in luv with those who allow you to be you ...
Yes! Don't change to suit another person's ideals. Be the best you and surround yourself with those who want you to be.


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