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sexyldy1000 65F  
10295 posts
10/30/2015 9:00 pm
Not Just A Pair of Breasts


Recently I changed my main profile pic with a comment to see if people would notice.

I did it purposely for a couple of reasons.

1) I was tired of almost every guy in the IM, using the opening line: 'wish that was me you were blowing' or 'that should be me' or something equivalent

2) To see if it would change the types of comments / messages that I received.

It's been an interesting experiment.

In the IM, often the opening comment is 'Yes I noticed' and it starts a conversation.

In emails, almost no one starts the message with a comment about it unless it's someone I have previously chatted with / met.

Everyone posts or chooses not to post pictures for different reasons.

I am curious how people decide which picture to have as their main pic. And if they post none, why not?



rickyspanish76 46M
7843 posts
10/30/2015 9:07 pm

I agree!! But its a great pair of Breasts....Can you proud.

kisses


redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
10/30/2015 9:13 pm

I just rotated mine because a woman here suggested it.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sphxdiver 72M
21063 posts
10/30/2015 9:19 pm

I've only got 3 photos two are fairly recent, last year, and no nude or dick shots.

It's what i post, and that's all there is, period.


easy_going2014 55M
14366 posts
10/30/2015 9:40 pm

Hi Sexyldy...

was about to msg you... but, since you posted this... here goes...

I don't put much stock in what strangers might say about my profile pic... I think that it clearly shows my 69 shades of grey... this pic doesn't present my thin side... I've asked the site to see if they can get me a pic from the other side, which shows a sexier look... maybe even photoshop a dimple or two, some women like that...

I think pics can be overrated, as we don't really know if that is real or not... and, does it matter if you are a kazillion miles away? I think not... I think what matters is the stimulation of the tender areas of your mind... the imprint moments that you might be thinking of as you read this or my blogs... you can have tons of pics with this or that, and after that what do you have... well, you might have gotten off looking at them or attending to details yourself... or, maybe you say... this is about as much fun as skimming thru a magazine with a bunch of pics from strangers...

when, what you really want (I'll tell you what I want, what I really, really want) is somebody to make you look around while your reading them... maybe, you touch yourself or get in a comfortable position, because your mind is engaged... is it real or is it Memorex... I don't know... but, that's what I think...

what do you think?

most that I've met in cyber space, could care less about my pics... they want to dissect my mind... why did you write this, or how could you do this, or did you wear protection, or how did you arrive at this conclusion... now, those types of questions are the kind that means someone is thinking about 'who you are'... not what you look like... ok... so, yes, we do need an attraction... but, in cyber space... hmmmm...

I'll leave you with this... some have sent me incredible songs in response to some that I've posted to them... do you really want to be found?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlA6CL1Gt5c

Lior – 'Lost In You'

Mm, I get lost,
I get lost in you like a,
Prisoner walkin' towards the ocean,
It's hard to imagine how something could swallow
You whole

I get lost, I get lost in you,
Pearls in your eyes,
Keep me alive,
Wrap me up in a glow,
Soft as a shadow,

Oooh oooh oooh x3

There was a time,
I would suffer in silence,
Feel like my pain didn't matter didn't matter,
I thought,
Keep on walking,
Just show your devotion,
They don't know you at all

Yeah, I am lost,
I am lost in you,
I am no longer searching,
I'm no longer yearning, just learning,
The freedom of floating on.

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sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
10/30/2015 9:57 pm

    Quoting rickyspanish76:
    I agree!! But its a great pair of Breasts....Can you proud.

    kisses
Thank you. I am rather fond of them too.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
10/30/2015 9:58 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I just rotated mine because a woman here suggested it.
That's a novel reason!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
10/30/2015 9:59 pm

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    I've only got 3 photos two are fairly recent, last year, and no nude or dick shots.

    It's what i post, and that's all there is, period.
Thank you for visiting and commenting.


ladyluvneuropean 47M
9 posts
11/1/2015 10:32 am

I take a lot of pictures but there are almost none of me. I dislike my photo taken in general as I am quite a private person but also because I don't believe I am photogenic. Some people are and some are not. My pic is a compromise of what I am comfortable with.


dorox52 69M  
65 posts
11/1/2015 2:45 pm

I don't have a face pic on my profile because I teach and don't really want my students to see me on a sex site My pic is of my hands because I thought that was something different. I've had interesting comments on it from some women, who've read things into it I would never have expected.

About "not just a pair of breasts": a sexy pic is great, but it's best when it's joined by writing in the profile that's also different, enticing, and, yes, sexy. It's the combination of the two that turns my crank the most.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
11/1/2015 8:37 pm

    Quoting blue_vein_rising:
    I chose my pic because I thought that it may be somewhat tame, but erotic and cause one to try to interpret a meaning to it. Thought provoking, cause one to imagine what may be the rest of the picture, etc.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
Have to agree that you had contacted me previously, your picture would pique my curiosity to find out more about you.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
11/1/2015 8:39 pm

    Quoting ladyluvneuropean:
    I take a lot of pictures but there are almost none of me. I dislike my photo taken in general as I am quite a private person but also because I don't believe I am photogenic. Some people are and some are not. My pic is a compromise of what I am comfortable with.
I certainly can relate to those sentiments as I too am not usually the subject of the pics. And I have come to really hate 'selfies' although the one I have featured here now was taken by me.
Thanks for commenting.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
11/1/2015 9:30 pm

    Quoting dorox52:
    I don't have a face pic on my profile because I teach and don't really want my students to see me on a sex site My pic is of my hands because I thought that was something different. I've had interesting comments on it from some women, who've read things into it I would never have expected.

    About "not just a pair of breasts": a sexy pic is great, but it's best when it's joined by writing in the profile that's also different, enticing, and, yes, sexy. It's the combination of the two that turns my crank the most.
Yes it would be rather awkward if your students recognized you on here!
My mind is imagining the comments you would have received, perhaps about your 'magic fingers'?
Thank you for commenting. I always appreciate you stopping by.


missthee 56F  
4511 posts
11/9/2015 8:05 am

I had a more revealing profile pic that I removed from public view, because of what you write. If I'm about to lose my complimentary gold status, I reinstate it for few hours, the views go up and the crown returns. Then I delete it again.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
11/9/2015 9:08 am

    Quoting missthee:
    I had a more revealing profile pic that I removed from public view, because of what you write. If I'm about to lose my complimentary gold status, I reinstate it for few hours, the views go up and the crown returns. Then I delete it again.
Nice to know my writing had an impact.
The site has been giving me a free gold membership for the past few years but it is not tied to the number of views I get.
Thank you for commenting.


Shyguyinaz 57M
1624 posts
11/16/2015 10:26 am

I change move around just for the fun of it and also to gauge which ones get the most attention. I know many women are sick and tired of cock pics but it's funny I get way more traffic with my cock pics....go figure.


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
11/22/2015 9:05 pm

    Quoting Shyguyinaz:
    I change move around just for the fun of it and also to gauge which ones get the most attention. I know many women are sick and tired of cock pics but it's funny I get way more traffic with my cock pics....go figure.
Yes I hear that too and have to agree that it's more erotic to tease with pics and not 'show everything'
Thanks for stopping by Shyguyinaz


easy_going2014 55M
14366 posts
12/4/2015 7:18 pm

Happy Birthday!!!

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sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
12/5/2015 9:27 pm

Thank you so much!
Save me a hug.


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