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AN INTERVIEW WITH STACI  

spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
29879 posts
12/27/2021 9:17 am
AN INTERVIEW WITH STACI



It is my pleasure to have recently interviewed staci_19702. Staci is a relative newcomer to blogland, but his blog, in my humble opinion, is one of the best blogs here; it is highly entertaining both in terms of text and images. Below are the answers to the twenty questions I asked Staci.
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What five words would you use to describe your personality?
Fun, open minded (is that 2?), adventurous, outgoing, sincere. Is hard to describe yourself. Am I imagining that I am these things? Maybe, but the party does not start until I get there and I am honest about things.

What things do you like doing in your spare time?
Spare time? What is that? I play guitar, so sitting around strumming is fun. An avid hunter during the season and I enjoy outdoor cooking.

What is your favourite book, song and film, sorry I meant movie?
Book would be Dandelion Wine by Ray Bradbury. Not sure why, but it is like a go-to book. Oh! Films! Highlander! Yes! It had it all. (I will not admit to wifey that I watch Steel Magnolias any time it is showing). Night Moves or Jack and Diane on songs. When I heard them, it was the right time. I could understand. I could relate. They were written about me.

When a , what did you want to be when you grew up?
A cowboy. I wound up in construction. But I cowboyed on the side. Short time on the amateur rodeo circuit and some ranch work. It just did not pay well.

What is your best place you have visited?
I think Ontario. It was such a nice place. Friendly people. Everybody speaking French made it feel like this was as close to Paris as I would ever get. You felt welcome there.

What country do you most want to visit?
Australia. It still has an adventurous, romantic feel to it. An unknown. Alaska and Australia are on the bucket list trips for wifey and me.

Why did you join this site? And in particular why did you decide to blog?
Joined the site after attending a swingers party. They have their own network, but some were on BBWMatchMate. So it was intended to stay in the loop so to speak. And it was free. Met a few new folks, used to have lunches and happy hours together. There was no looking for a hook up. Then it became just a place to show off. Entertain others and myself? I stopped logging in for a year or so. Nothing was new and exciting, ya know? But I came back and here I am. I started a group and did some random topics. Then I started posting pics. There are tons never put out. So, why take them and not do anything with them. My friends Crazyfairy and shoot_blanks, were supportive in this. So, I thought, well, 2 people have seen it all. Maybe I could get 2 more! So, I started the blog. Started over with pics, but tried to find something to talk about. That is hard. So, I am a ham and I like to talk sometimes.

From the photos of yourself that you post on your blog, you clearly are fit. How do you keep your body in good shape?
Well thanks! Being in my line of work keeps you moving. I am not a person that can sit at a desk. I do not work out. I love beer. Age is catching me. I eat! But everything in moderation, right? And I suck my tummy in when the camera is rolling.

Also from the photos you post, it looks as if you enjoy exhibiting yourself. Would you describe yourself as an exhibitionist?
I am. I really am. Not sure how it started. But I like showing a little skin and maybe someone catches a glimpse and enjoys it. Look at me!! Or do not.

You mentioned in your blog that you play the guitar. You clearly are a good guitar-player as you performed at a gig recently. How would you describe your guitar-playing? Do you have any musical influences?
Not sure where I rate skill wise. Mediocre? Lots of rhythm and some lead. Was in a little band in the 90s. Gonna be big rock stars. Still waiting. I like songs that tell stories and I cover several of those. So, more red dirt country now than the Stones. Steve Earl and John Cougar Mellencamp. Big influences. I like all kinds of music. But if you need to raise your spirits or take a walk down memory lane or just a little background to keep your rhythm, that is where I go.

You have written about some parties you have hosted. They all sound like fun, wild parties. What was the wildest party you have hosted? And, what happened?
The wildest was when the girls all decided to compare boob sizes. Off came the bras! Now these are not swinger parties. Just the neighborhood friends. But after a long week(s) of work and regular life, we just unwound. So, anyway, that led to skinny dipping. Some hot gals in our hood. Then I spy a couple of girls kissing each other. Sexy. Oh shit that is my wife!! Cool. The guys are more reserved. We just keep the tighty whiteys on and stare at the girls. Now, I do not know what happens when others leave the party, but wifey and I would have some great sex! There are still a few bras hanging from the tiki bar to this day. Bless you Nikki. Your boobs are awesome!

In my blog post about being bicurious, on being asked to describe your sexuality you commented that, and I quote, I am straight (Really??) yes, I am. Could you elaborate on this answer? In particular, it is the Really?? comment that seems worthy of further elaboration.
I am straight. Some assume that because I am a little feminine on the site, that I am gay. Sorry bro. I just like the feel of lace. I will say I am curious as to what another guy feels like or maybe taste? But it is just a curiosity, no intent on action. With all the new pronouns for sexuality, I get confused as to what everybody is. So, I will stay with straight, cross dresser that enjoys the company of my wife.

What is the kinkiest thing you have done?
Well, okay. There have been several firsts, so it is hard to say. We were at a fetish themed swinger party. And it was fun. We found ourselves in a room watching several women take turns pleasuring a woman in a sex swing with strap ons. So, all the sudden my wife just drops to her knees and goes down on me. (This might be an interesting blog story). There were lots of people in the room and suddenly we were center stage. This goes for a while, then she gets up, grabs the straps on the swing, bends over and says do me. So I did!!! When I was about to climax, she turned back around and took me in her mouth. 10 or 12 folks watching. Even the strap on girls were paused to watch. It was exciting. Our first for doing it in front of people and to be in fetish clothes. It was just great!

Are there any sexual acts that you have not done that you would like to do?
Would still like to be full on tied up and dominated by wifey. Call me dirty names and make me like it! I have a hotel picked out. We just need time.

There are occasional glimpses of your wife, usually naked and sometimes sucking you off, on your blog. Does she read your blog? And if so, what does she think of it?
She does not read it. It is not her thing. She likes to participate in the pics and stuff, but when the mood is over, it is just over. So she reviews some of the pics and gives a yea or nay, but that is about it.

I think you mentioned in your blog that you live in Texas. If so, is it true that everything is big in Texas?
Hell yeah. Be loud, Br proud, this is Texas! I am not hung like a by any means, but I have lots of spirit!!

If you could invite three people to join you at a dinner party, who would you invite? They can dead or alive and famous or infamous!
Steve Earl, Jane Russell, Jenny McCarthy.

What traits most turn you off people?
Negativity is a big one. Some people seem to thrive on drama and pointing out others faults. And people who have put themselves into bad situations, but blame it on everyone else. Be accountable folks. Is that too much to ask?

If you had one wish, what would it be?
Wow. In reality, I just wish the best for my as they continue on in their lives. Be better and do better than I did. For fun, let us go the if I had a million dollars. What fun I would have for a few days!!

What do you want for Christmas?
A nice family holiday with everyone safe and happy.
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Do you have any questions for Staci?
Would like to read more interviews of bloggers?
If so, who should I interview? Would you like to be interviewed?


Staci is happy to stay behind and answer any questions you may have for him. So please post your questions as a comment within.



spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/27/2021 9:18 am

This is my second interview with a blogger I have done.
The first interview, back in September 2016, was with kinkyfem73, a terrific blogger from Canada - see PIMPING KINKY. She has unfortunately left the site. I do miss her!


EnigmaInitiative 54F  
6054 posts
12/27/2021 9:56 am

It's so great that you did this Spunky, what a wonderful idea!

I've interacted with Staci on their blog and mine, and they seem like a wonderful person.

This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.


Leegs2012 49M  
96125 posts
12/27/2021 10:44 am

Grrat job, great interview! Very Nice!! Staci is sexy and very cool!!


Tmptrzz 59F  
107033 posts
12/27/2021 11:17 am

What a great interview you had with Staci, I learned a lot about him. He is one of my favorite bloggers here in blog land too as he tells it straight up the way it is, and I truly am too, as that's the way we should all be.

Thanks so much for sharing this with all of us I thoroughly enjoyed it. I hope your Monday is treating you well..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
12/27/2021 12:03 pm

Staci has commented on my blog a number of times, I'm going to have to check his out. Nice of you to publicize another blogger!


sexyldy1000 65F  
9606 posts
12/27/2021 12:23 pm

Well done šŸ‘. Ever think about making this a regular feature?


author51 59F  
130010 posts
12/27/2021 12:29 pm

I adore Staci and have only within the last 6 months connected through blogs through a mutual female blogger. I never fail to read , comment, nor envy his wardrobe choices and how amazingly creative they are..Staci has indelibly become one of my favourites and learning new things about what makes any blogger tick, that we followers may not know about if not for interviews like this Hun.... Brilliant Spunky... Cheers to Staci and you.. It is blogs like this that keeps another veteran blogger like myself, continue to blog....xoxo


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
12/27/2021 5:16 pm

And THAT'S why I'll never be a good interview.

I mean, I wasn't ready for HALF those fricken questions, then I had to read them over... and for fuck's sake ā€” I still didn't know the answer to other half.

Everyone has a story, but they're not all as interesting. šŸ‘šŸ˜Š


lok4fun500 M  
51897 posts
12/27/2021 5:20 pm

You did a great interview!


CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
12/27/2021 6:31 pm

Do you questions for Staci? - You hit the big ones for me.

Would like read more interviews of bloggers? - Sure!

If so, should I interview? Would you like be interviewed? - I've met several of the most intriguing ones...how about the one that keeps evading me - Smarty

Signs of the Times
A Very Floriday Christmas
Are You Feeling It Yet
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staci_19702 51T  
3767 posts
12/27/2021 6:33 pm

Thanks for doing this Spunky. It was fun! šŸ˜ƒ
And thank you to the readers. šŸ˜Š yall are such a positive and supportive group.
Would love to see you do this with the other bloggers!

Have a great day! šŸ’‹
Staci


shoot_blanks 79M  
768 posts
12/27/2021 8:06 pm

Hey Staci, Great interview. Enjoyed reading it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


PonyGirl1965 56F  
22090 posts
12/27/2021 8:13 pm

Fabulous interview! I loved it and I learned so much! bravo! Do more!


pal334 67M  
45821 posts
12/28/2021 6:35 am

That was interesting.
More interviews would be interesting. But none of me


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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:46 am

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    It's so great that you did this Spunky, what a wonderful idea!

    I've interacted with Staci on their blog and mine, and they seem like a wonderful person.
Staci is indeed a wondeful man.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:46 am

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    Grrat job, great interview! Very Nice!! Staci is sexy and very cool!!
I'm pleased you enjoyed the interview with Staci.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:47 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    What a great interview you had with Staci, I learned a lot about him. He is one of my favorite bloggers here in blog land too as he tells it straight up the way it is, and I truly am too, as that's the way we should all be.

    Thanks so much for sharing this with all of us I thoroughly enjoyed it. I hope your Monday is treating you well..
It's always refreshing to deal with people who tell it straight. It males life less complicated.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:48 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Staci has commented on my blog a number of times, I'm going to have to check his out. Nice of you to publicize another blogger!
Mr Cleavage wants me to interview you next!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:49 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Well done šŸ‘. Ever think about making this a regular feature?
I will try and make interviews with bloggers a regular feature; the biggest issue is getting people to agree to be interviewed!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:50 am

    Quoting author51:
    I adore Staci and have only within the last 6 months connected through blogs through a mutual female blogger. I never fail to read , comment, nor envy his wardrobe choices and how amazingly creative they are..Staci has indelibly become one of my favourites and learning new things about what makes any blogger tick, that we followers may not know about if not for interviews like this Hun.... Brilliant Spunky... Cheers to Staci and you.. It is blogs like this that keeps another veteran blogger like myself, continue to blog....xoxo
Staci has an amazig wardrobe.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:51 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    And THAT'S why I'll never be a good interview.

    I mean, I wasn't ready for HALF those fricken questions, then I had to read them over... and for fuck's sake ā€” I still didn't know the answer to other half.

    Everyone has a story, but they're not all as interesting. šŸ‘šŸ˜Š
Staci does have a very interesting story to tell. I'm sure we all do deep down!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:52 am

I'm pleased you liked the interview with Staci.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:53 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    Do you questions for Staci? - You hit the big ones for me.

    Would like read more interviews of bloggers? - Sure!

    If so, should I interview? Would you like be interviewed? - I've met several of the most intriguing ones...how about the one that keeps evading me - Smarty

    Signs of the Times
    A Very Floriday Christmas
    Are You Feeling It Yet
    [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets ā€“ Anything you write here is just between us
Thanks for your suggestion; smartasswoman is now on my interview radar.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:54 am

    Quoting staci_19702:
    Thanks for doing this Spunky. It was fun! šŸ˜ƒ
    And thank you to the readers. šŸ˜Š yall are such a positive and supportive group.
    Would love to see you do this with the other bloggers!
And thanks for being interviewed; not many would be game enough to answer the questions.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:55 am

    Quoting shoot_blanks:
    Hey Staci, Great interview. Enjoyed reading it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm pleased you enjoyed the interview with Staci.
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:56 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Fabulous interview! I loved it and I learned so much! bravo! Do more!
I'm pleased you liked the interview with Staci. I just need more volunteers to be interviewed now!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 3:58 am

    Quoting pal334:
    That was interesting.
    More interviews would be interesting. But none of me

I'm pleased you enkoyed the interview with Staci. I just need to find volunteers for more interviews!


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
12/30/2021 8:37 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    Do you questions for Staci? - You hit the big ones for me.

    Would like read more interviews of bloggers? - Sure!

    If so, should I interview? Would you like be interviewed? - I've met several of the most intriguing ones...how about the one that keeps evading me - Smarty

    Signs of the Times
    A Very Floriday Christmas
    Are You Feeling It Yet
    [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets ā€“ Anything you write here is just between us
You make it sound like Iā€™m actively trying to dodge you! But Iā€™m flattered and would be willing to give it a try, though my sex life is non-existent these days.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/30/2021 9:58 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    You make it sound like Iā€™m actively trying to dodge you! But Iā€™m flattered and would be willing to give it a try, though my sex life is non-existent these days.
Is that a yes to be interviewed? I hope so.


smartasswoman 64F  
35813 posts
12/30/2021 2:14 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    Is that a yes to be interviewed? I hope so.
Sure, why not??


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
12/31/2021 3:39 am

That's great. I'll send you a mail.


MrnMrsfuntimes 56M/49F
25 posts
12/31/2021 9:18 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    This is my second interview with a blogger I have done.
    The first interview, back in September 2016, was with kinkyfem73, a terrific blogger from Canada - see PIMPING KINKY. She has unfortunately left the site. I do miss her!
Aww Spunky~ I miss you too! Glad to see you blogging again! I do float around the blogs from time to time with our couples profile. But what I can do is very limited
xo
KF


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
1/1/2022 2:50 am

    Quoting MrnMrsfuntimes:
    Aww Spunky~ I miss you too! Glad to see you blogging again! I do float around the blogs from time to time with our couples profile. But what I can do is very limited
    xo
    KF
It's great to hear from you. And I hope you keep floating around!
Wishing you a very Happy New Year.


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