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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
29279 posts
5/17/2015 10:39 am
SEX CLUBBING

Liberty Elite, Leicestershire:


La Chambre, Sheffield:


The Lodge, Gloucester:


There are sex clubs, sometimes called swinger clubs or lifestyle clubs, in most cities in America and Europe. There are no sex clubs in my city, Nottingham, because the local authority has a no-sex club policy in the city. The nearest club is about 20 miles away.

Over the years I’ve been to several sex clubs. To be precise, I’ve been to six different sex clubs - Liberty Elite near Lutterworth in Leicestershire, Chameleons in Darlaston in the West Midlands, The Lodge in Gloucester, Jeux de Main in Cap d’Agde in France, Fata-Morgana in Muiden near Amsterdam, and a club I can’t remember the name of in Wakefield in Yorkshire.

In my limited experience, the biggest misconception about sex clubs is that you’ll have sex in that club. It all depends on who you go with, who you meet and, most important, what you want.

Sex clubs are great; they’re clubs where you may have sex in and they’re safe in that no one forces you to have sex or even forces you to take all your clothes off.

Most clubs have different rooms - a bar area and several play areas, some more public and some more private. Most clubs provide changing rooms and lockers where you can safely keep your stuff in. Some clubs have a dress code; some clubs require membership; and some clubs provide free buffet food. A few clubs even have bedrooms to stay overnight.

Many clubs have themed nights - couples only, greedy girl/gangbang, fancy dress, bisexual, bdsm, etc.

There are always more men than women, and most people who go to clubs are middle-aged.

The best club I’ve been to is Fata-Morgana near Amsterdam. The facilities are fantastic; you can even have a sit-down meal, dance to disco music and relax in a swimming pool. Everyone was very friendly.

The worst club I’ve been to was one in Wakefield, not because of its facilities but because there was hardly anyone there. In fact, there was just me and my partner, plus a small group of men being disciplined by a woman. As a consolation, the club gave us free drinks.

My worst experience at a club was at Liberty Elite, where I’ve been many times. While walking with my then partner into the communal jacuzzi play area, there were loads of single men staring at my partner. Many single men at clubs - many of whom are probably attached - often see a man with a woman partner as the enemy! Most are polite but a few are rude.

My best experience was also at Liberty Elite when meeting another couple who organised blowjob orgy in the jacuzzi. Also, this club experience led me to join this site!

The funniest experience was at Chameleons, which is next door to a police station! At the club, I talked to a man with a very big cock, who said he just stays in one play room for women to come to him to sample his cock!

Sex clubs are just like so-called normal clubs, except you can take your clothes off and have sex if you want to. In fact, I’ve only sex on three occasions with people other than my partner on all my visits to a sex club.


Have you been to a sex club?
If so, what was your experience/s like?
If not, would you like to go to sex club?


New York’s Plato’s Retreat, now closed, and Sheffield’s La Chambre, still open, have been the focus of television documentaries. The Mon Chalet club near Denver in Colorado looks fantastic; it’s on my to-do list! Anyone want a Dumb and Dumber trip to Colorado?!

I enjoy going to sex clubs, but I enjoy private sex parties more because it’s easier to meet and talk to people.


Fata-Morgana, near Amsterdam:


Plato’s Retreat, New York:


Mon Chalet, Colorado:


petitandnaughty 111F
9755 posts
5/17/2015 11:40 am

Great post and interesting questions!

Have you been to a sex club?
Yes, I have. Once.

If so, what was your experience/s like?
Once was enough to realize that sex clubs aren't for me. I prefer more intimate atmosphere of a small private party where I know most of the players. As a single woman, I have to be more careful about sex partners.

If not, would you like to go to sex club? Not applicable.

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pal334 67M  
45821 posts
5/17/2015 11:59 am

Have you been to a sex club? Several. The best that I have been to was in Philadelphia . Rather good class. Single men were kept to a minimum and had to be escorted in by a couple and also leave when they did.

If so, what was your experience/s like? It was a lot of fun. was a 3 story building. Various activities on all levels. You were free to participate or not . Unfortunately it has closed down

If not, would you like to go to sex club? all in for another if it is well managed


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sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
5/17/2015 1:41 pm

I've never been to one....I very much doubt that there even is one in Dublin!!!!

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


sweet_VM 63F  
81699 posts
5/17/2015 3:14 pm

Have you been to a sex club? nope just an BBWMatchMate party from the site.
If so, what was your experience/s like?
If not, would you like to go to sex club?If your going for sure.. Take me with you! hugsssssss V

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kzoopair 71M/69F
25831 posts
5/17/2015 4:11 pm

Have you been to a sex club?
Just high school.

If so, what was your experience/s like?
I dated a LOT of different girls in high school, but I've never been to a sex club.

If not, would you like to go to sex club?
Yes. As long as I don't have to study calculus again.

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lok4fun500 M  
51906 posts
5/17/2015 7:02 pm

"NO" I haven't been to one, spunky!
I'm not sure if I want to visit one...I know the wife never would !


canyaz 54F
17128 posts
5/18/2015 5:16 am

Have you been to a sex club? Yes, Many time.

If so, what was your experience/s like? Like you, I have had good and bad experiences. The best was walking in the door I was greeted by a lovely woman who kissed me and removed my bra. She held on to until I was ready to leave. She wrote her number on the inside of the cup.

I still want the fantasy of having a huge group orgy, lights out, just fuck and fuck and fuck without any issues.

One of my favorite bloggers lives in the Denver area and frequents the Mon. She just posted about a weekend experience, check her out, 39lawless

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


Gntillhom 66M
5906 posts
5/18/2015 9:01 am

My worst sex experience happened in a club. It made me laugh despite of the pain. I will laugh on it my life long.
I didn't laugh much the following month, though ...
We were alone in the place, just opening. Nice, with rooms in the basement for different games, even a physician cabinet with a couch, classy. We went to a cosy place where my GF said "I'll remove my thong but nothing else." I said "OK, I'll do the same" playfully but when I excitedly zipped up my pants ... eeerrr ... yes. I zipped my cock on around half an inch.
After trying to unzip it (ouch ! stop !!!) in the physician cabinet, no sucess, I finished at the hospital, where it was done by four hands including a beautiful red-headed doctor, oh, my ! a sex bomb !!! while I was sucking ... on oxygen, sigh.
We didn't have the lightest thing in the club where about 30 people started to have fun when we left, arg !!!
We plan to get back there soon to repair this disaster.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:05 pm

    Quoting Vttongue:
    Montreal is the closest and the best. The dark rooms are the best, hands, tongues and whatever you want
I've never sampled a dark room ... yet!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:07 pm

    Quoting  :

That political club night sounds brilliant, surely worthy of a blog post!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:08 pm

    Quoting aprilsong:
    Wow....
    um, really interesting post S.

    Thank goodness for hot tubs, sex clubs and blow job orgies, 'cause I never would have met Hugh and you are one of my best friends.

    Have you been to a sex club? NO
    If so, what was your experience/s like? Not applicable
    If not, would you like to go to sex club? um, no, I don't think so. But a certain 28 year-old said I'd really like it, he's been to them, there are quite a few locally.
There's lots of cocks in sex clubs!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:09 pm

    Quoting AmeliaCox:
    I have never yet been to a sex club but with the right partner would be open to the experience.
Clubs are great but parties are better!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:11 pm

    Quoting petitandnaughty:
    Great post and interesting questions!

    Have you been to a sex club?
    Yes, I have. Once.

    If so, what was your experience/s like?
    Once was enough to realize that sex clubs aren't for me. I prefer more intimate atmosphere of a small private party where I know most of the players. As a single woman, I have to be more careful about sex partners.

    If not, would you like to go to sex club? Not applicable.
I prefer meets and parties than sex clubs, and in the so-called vanilla world I prefer meets and parties! I'm not really a club person.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:12 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    Have you been to a sex club? Several. The best that I have been to was in Philadelphia . Rather good class. Single men were kept to a minimum and had to be escorted in by a couple and also leave when they did.

    If so, what was your experience/s like? It was a lot of fun. was a 3 story building. Various activities on all levels. You were free to participate or not . Unfortunately it has closed down

    If not, would you like to go to sex club? all in for another if it is well managed
The way a club manages single men says a lot about the club.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:14 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I've never been to one....I very much doubt that there even is one in Dublin!!!!
I've just Googled and there's an Irish Swingers Club who hold regular parties in Dublin. If it's on Google, it must be true!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:15 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Have you been to a sex club? nope just an BBWMatchMate party from the site.
    If so, what was your experience/s like?
    If not, would you like to go to sex club?If your going for sure.. Take me with you! hugsssssss V
I will gladly take you to a club and I would look after you.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:20 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Have you been to a sex club?
    Just high school.

    If so, what was your experience/s like?
    I dated a LOT of different girls in high school, but I've never been to a sex club.

    If not, would you like to go to sex club?
    Yes. As long as I don't have to study calculus again.

You are funny, and I still want to walk with you in those woods!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:21 pm

    Quoting apollorising2021:
    I have to locate the sex clubs in my neck of the woods!
There must be loads of sex clubs in California.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:23 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    "NO" I haven't been to one, spunky!
    I'm not sure if I want to visit one...I know the wife never would !
Another 'No', but I know I got a 'Yes' on a later post. My posts now are all about you saying 'Yes' to at least one of one of my questions.
Thanks for being a great friend on blogland.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:25 pm

    Quoting canyaz:
    Have you been to a sex club? Yes, Many time.

    If so, what was your experience/s like? Like you, I have had good and bad experiences. The best was walking in the door I was greeted by a lovely woman who kissed me and removed my bra. She held on to until I was ready to leave. She wrote her number on the inside of the cup.

    I still want the fantasy of having a huge group orgy, lights out, just fuck and fuck and fuck without any issues.

    One of my favorite bloggers lives in the Denver area and frequents the Mon. She just posted about a weekend experience, check her out, 39lawless
Your fantasy group orgy is my fantasy. Shall we organisee one?


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/19/2015 12:26 pm

    Quoting Gntillhom:
    My worst sex experience happened in a club. It made me laugh despite of the pain. I will laugh on it my life long.
    I didn't laugh much the following month, though ...
    We were alone in the place, just opening. Nice, with rooms in the basement for different games, even a physician cabinet with a couch, classy. We went to a cosy place where my GF said "I'll remove my thong but nothing else." I said "OK, I'll do the same" playfully but when I excitedly zipped up my pants ... eeerrr ... yes. I zipped my cock on around half an inch.
    After trying to unzip it (ouch ! stop !!!) in the physician cabinet, no sucess, I finished at the hospital, where it was done by four hands including a beautiful red-headed doctor, oh, my ! a sex bomb !!! while I was sucking ... on oxygen, sigh.
    We didn't have the lightest thing in the club where about 30 people started to have fun when we left, arg !!!
    We plan to get back there soon to repair this disaster.
A zipped cock, that's painful!
I feel this is worthy of a whole blog post detailing your pain!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
5/20/2015 9:20 am

    Quoting  :

The nearest club to me, Liberty Elite, charges about £25 per couple for membership and then £25 for each visit. I think single men pay more.


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