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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
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6/11/2017 11:59 am
YOU'VE MADE YOUR BED, NOW LIE IN IT





A recent survey in the UK found that nine out of ten men in a heterosexual relationship leave making the bed to their partner.

I plead guilty as I very rarely make the bed; my girlfriend does. My defence is that I have no problem with an unmade bed. Beds made only get unmade in less than half a day! What’s the point in making a bed?!

My girlfriend also wants our bedding changed regularly, but I love the smell of sex on bedding so I’m quite happy for the bedding not to be changed for at least a fortnight or even a month.

Also when my girlfriend changes the bedding, she doesn’t do hospital corners and she puts useless cushions on the newly made bed. This is just plainly wrong!


Who makes your bed?
How often do you change your bedding?
Do you have cushions on your bed?


'You've made your bed, now lie in it' is a popular saying. My parents often said this phrase to me when I made bad choices and felt I shouldn’t complain about what’s happened afterwards; somehow it was meant as a lesson in life.

However, this phrase doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. As with most adages, idioms and proverbs, another one can be dragged out to counter it. In this case Reinhold Niebuhr saying comes to mind: "grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

If someone can change something bad, then that choice should be reversed; if not, then, that bad has to be accepted even if not welcomed.

It’s a bit like Theresa May’s predicament now. The UK Prime Minister called a snap general election because she wanted "strong and stable leadership" and not a "coalition of chaos" in the run-up to the Brexit negotiations that are soon to start. Her "coalition of chaos" dalek-like phrase was a dig at a possible coalition government involving the Labour Party and Scottish National Party.

Now after the election we get a "coalition of chaos" with the Conservatives jumping into bed with Northern Ireland’s Democratic Unionist Party; the DUP isn’t known for its liberal views! This will be a far more unstable coalition than that between the Labour and SNP.

Now my parents, both very staunch Tory voters, would have said that Theresa May has made her bed in calling the election and now she has to lie in it. I would say that this outcome was caused by unpopular austerity and Brexit policies. The way forward is for the Tories to reverse their decisions to cut welfare that hurt almost everyone and to proceed with Brexit that’ll hurt everyone.

But the Tories don’t have the guts to reverse their choices because they just want to cling onto power; this is why the UK's Conservative Party are arguably the most successful political party in the democratic world.






spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/11/2017 12:04 pm

Professional pollsters keep getting it wrong - the 2015 general electioon, the Brexit referendum, the Trump election and now last week's election. I know its a difficult job but people make decisions based on their predictions.
I heard so many people saying, 'What's the point in voting Labour when they won't win?' and then look what happens!


effer2910 58M
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6/11/2017 12:09 pm

"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." Nice
In French, we have almost the same saying: "As one makes his bed, one goes to bed!"
I never make my bed and sleep very well. I change the bedding every week, I like the smell of my fabric softener.

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Red_Elf 49F  
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6/11/2017 12:22 pm

Oh, geez, you don't care if you leave a mess, so she can just clean up after you. Aren't you just sweet?

I guess if she gets blood all over the toilet seat, that won't be a problem for you if she expects you to clean it up, either? After all, she'll probably just get blood on the toilet seat again.

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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
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6/11/2017 12:26 pm

    Quoting Red_Elf:
    Oh, geez, you don't care if you leave a mess, so she can just clean up after you. Aren't you just sweet?

    I guess if she gets blood all over the toilet seat, that won't be a problem for you if she expects you to clean it up, either? After all, she'll probably just get blood on the toilet seat again.
I think you are misinterpreting what I'm saying. Just for the record the household chores are shared between me and my girlfriend; she just wants to make the bed more than me!


citizen4722 64M  
74582 posts
6/11/2017 12:35 pm

Who makes your bed? I do (well, I say 'make'. It's just a duvet to straighten out really.
How often do you change your bedding? Once a week...depends who's coming to stain?...stay!
Do you have cushions on your bed? "THOSE AREN'T PILLOWS!!"


adanac13 53M
39 posts
6/11/2017 12:43 pm

nothing like fresh clean sheets to mess up post 3993793


adanac13 53M
39 posts
6/11/2017 12:44 pm

love the smell of o fresh bed 3993793


redrockrascal 63M  
23580 posts
6/11/2017 1:03 pm

Who makes your bed? I don't - I'll be back in it in about 16 hours why bother?

How often do you change your bedding? Irregularly

Do you have cushions on your bed? If you mean pillows yes.

Here in the US we seem to have shit our beds by electing T-Rump. We may end up wallowing in it for 4 years.

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The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


greekphilosopher 59M
4077 posts
6/11/2017 1:51 pm

No hospital corners for me, as those sheets with the elastic on the corner do the job, and I make my own bed. Only involves straightening the quilt on top and that's it. Learned hospital corners in the army though. We had to get them so tight that a coin would bounce if flipped on the top! I change the sheets about every 10 days. Plenty of cushions, oh yeah.
Lie in her bed with the DUP? Wondering who is going to run away first. Maybe another election in about 6-8 months, after a vote of no confidence?


lok4fun500 M  
51906 posts
6/11/2017 2:13 pm

We both make her bed after laundry......she makes it daily. I sleep on top of my bed so it never gets messed up.......When we sleep in trailer, we both sleep together and both make the bed!

Her bedding is changed weekly. The only cushion is "ME"!


LetsPlay8690 38M
6 posts
6/11/2017 4:59 pm

I like clean sheets, but dirty ones are way more fun!


veryfunnycple64 58M/59F  
21770 posts
6/11/2017 5:00 pm

Who makes your bed?
My GF and I do....we take turns or do it together!

How often do you change your bedding?
1x a week.....or more if we do something naughty in bed!

Do you have cushions on your bed
yes...we have lots of pillows for decoration...my GF picked them out!

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pal334 67M  
45821 posts
6/12/2017 5:39 am

Who makes your bed? I am the one. A habit that I got in the military and tough to stop

How often do you change your bedding? Every week, to two weeks

Do you have cushions on your bed? Other than me , no


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pocogato12 70F
37236 posts
6/12/2017 7:03 am

I make the bed no matter where I stay ( except an hotel but I do not leave the covers on the floor). I like coming in to a tidy bed

I change the sheets about every 8 days. I can make hospital corners and I have fitted bottom sheets as well { I also trained housekeepers in a 4 start hotel on how to clean a room and make beds from the bottom up to save wear and tear on the body }. LOVE the smell of fresh air dried sheets

I have feather bed pillows- lots of them but no fancy cushions

And there aren't enough feather pillows in the world to save the USA or the UK from all this political fall out

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sweet_VM 63F  
81699 posts
6/12/2017 7:45 am

Who makes your bed? I do and sometimes he will help me
How often do you change your bedding? twice a week
Do you have cushions on your bed? sure do spunky.. hugssssss V

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sexysixties2 104F
39750 posts
6/12/2017 8:57 am

I live alone and don't have a maid so I make my own bed. I change the bedding once a week and yes I have cushions on my bed.

I use fitted sheets and a duvet so no need for hospital corners but I do know how to do them.


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lindoboy100 59M  
23969 posts
6/12/2017 10:44 am

1. Mary Poppins.

2. Once a decade, yes, crusty.......

3. Nope.


wickedeasy 72F
32404 posts
6/12/2017 11:22 am

my mama taught us early but I was not the best at it yet when i'd return fro school, it always looked better than when I left in the morning. once I sussed that out, I barely pulled the covers up.

I make the bed when i'm having company. I change the sheets when the funk is getting to me. and decorative pillows annoy me.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 72F
32404 posts
6/12/2017 11:51 am

    Quoting Red_Elf:
    Oh, geez, you don't care if you leave a mess, so she can just clean up after you. Aren't you just sweet?

    I guess if she gets blood all over the toilet seat, that won't be a problem for you if she expects you to clean it up, either? After all, she'll probably just get blood on the toilet seat again.
seriously?

back up a minute and remember the manners your mama taught you

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/12/2017 12:26 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    seriously?

    back up a minute and remember the manners your mama taught you
Thank you for this.
I was starting to think the Trumpites and Trunmpettes are running this show!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:15 pm

    Quoting effer2910:
    "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." Nice
    In French, we have almost the same saying: "As one makes his bed, one goes to bed!"
    I never make my bed and sleep very well. I change the bedding every week, I like the smell of my fabric softener.
That's quite something that there's a French and an English phrase describing the same thing; that tells me we need to stay together!
PS The French football fans were brilliant when France and England played a football game. It was much appreciated. Vive la France!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:20 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Who makes your bed? I do (well, I say 'make'. It's just a duvet to straighten out really.
    How often do you change your bedding? Once a week...depends who's coming to stain?...stay!
    Do you have cushions on your bed? "THOSE AREN'T PILLOWS!!"
Duvets revolutionarised bed making. I bet a man invented duvets!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:22 pm

    Quoting adanac13:
    nothing like fresh clean sheets to mess up post 3993793
But then again dirty sheets mess up clean sheets!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:24 pm

    Quoting adanac13:
    love the smell of o fresh bed 3993793
But a fresh bed has to be defreshened some time.
Thanks for stoppiing by.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:26 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Who makes your bed? I don't - I'll be back in it in about 16 hours why bother?

    How often do you change your bedding? Irregularly

    Do you have cushions on your bed? If you mean pillows yes.

    Here in the US we seem to have shit our beds by electing T-Rump. We may end up wallowing in it for 4 years.
Cushions are evil on a bed; they say a lot about the bed-maker!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:28 pm

    Quoting greekphilosopher:
    No hospital corners for me, as those sheets with the elastic on the corner do the job, and I make my own bed. Only involves straightening the quilt on top and that's it. Learned hospital corners in the army though. We had to get them so tight that a coin would bounce if flipped on the top! I change the sheets about every 10 days. Plenty of cushions, oh yeah.
    Lie in her bed with the DUP? Wondering who is going to run away first. Maybe another election in about 6-8 months, after a vote of no confidence?
Fitted sheets have destroyed the tradition of hosptal corners!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:31 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    We both make her bed after laundry......she makes it daily. I sleep on top of my bed so it never gets messed up.......When we sleep in trailer, we both sleep together and both make the bed!

    Her bedding is changed weekly. The only cushion is "ME"!
Sleeping on top must slightly ruffle the bed slept on! I'm quite happy to be your professional bed-maker!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

I think pulling the covers up counts as changing your bed!
I alsio think that cushions on a bed aways spell trouble!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:40 pm

    Quoting LetsPlay8690:
    I like clean sheets, but dirty ones are way more fun!
Dirty always beats clean!
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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:42 pm

    Quoting veryfunnycple64:
    Who makes your bed?
    My GF and I do....we take turns or do it together!

    How often do you change your bedding?
    1x a week.....or more if we do something naughty in bed!

    Do you have cushions on your bed
    yes...we have lots of pillows for decoration...my GF picked them out!
I hope the pillows are put to a functonal and just not a decorative use!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/17/2017 3:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Seasonal cushions, now that's wothy of a blog post!


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6/18/2017 2:17 am

Bonjour Spunky
" Comme on fait son lit on se couche "
Personnellement je ne fais plus mon lit et je dors aussi bien
♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥


Hello Spunky
"As you make your bed you to sleep "
Personally I do not make my bed anymore and I sleep as well
♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥



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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 8:21 am

    Quoting  :

Cushions should be banned from the bedroom!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 8:30 am

    Quoting pal334:
    Who makes your bed? I am the one. A habit that I got in the military and tough to stop

    How often do you change your bedding? Every week, to two weeks

    Do you have cushions on your bed? Other than me , no
The human body is the best and the only cushion needed in a bed!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:07 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I make the bed no matter where I stay ( except an hotel but I do not leave the covers on the floor). I like coming in to a tidy bed

    I change the sheets about every 8 days. I can make hospital corners and I have fitted bottom sheets as well { I also trained housekeepers in a 4 start hotel on how to clean a room and make beds from the bottom up to save wear and tear on the body }. LOVE the smell of fresh air dried sheets

    I have feather bed pillows- lots of them but no fancy cushions

    And there aren't enough feather pillows in the world to save the USA or the UK from all this political fall out
The best pillows are feather pillows; hopefully there are enough ducks to save the world from a feather pillow shortage!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:12 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Who makes your bed? I do and sometimes he will help me
    How often do you change your bedding? twice a week
    Do you have cushions on your bed? sure do spunky.. hugssssss V
Your bed must get 'used' a lot to change the bedding twice a week!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:14 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I live alone and don't have a maid so I make my own bed. I change the bedding once a week and yes I have cushions on my bed.

    I use fitted sheets and a duvet so no need for hospital corners but I do know how to do them.

Making hospital corners is an increasingly threatened craft!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:15 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. Mary Poppins.

    2. Once a decade, yes, crusty.......

    3. Nope.
Mary Poppins often comes in handy!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:17 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    my mama taught us early but I was not the best at it yet when i'd return fro school, it always looked better than when I left in the morning. once I sussed that out, I barely pulled the covers up.

    I make the bed when i'm having company. I change the sheets when the funk is getting to me. and decorative pillows annoy me.
Decorative cushions on a bed are very annoying! They serve very little purpose and get in the way on the purpose of a bed!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I'd love my bed to wear suspenders!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/18/2017 1:21 pm

    Quoting Annie_34:
    Bonjour Spunky
    " Comme on fait son lit on se couche "
    Personnellement je ne fais plus mon lit et je dors aussi bien
    ♥ Poton ♥ Bisou ♥ Annie ♥


    Hello Spunky
    "As you make your bed you to sleep "
    Personally I do not make my bed anymore and I sleep as well
    ♥ Kiss ♥ Annie ♥


It's pointless making a bed as its purpose is to be unmade!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/26/2017 8:12 am

    Quoting matutum63:
    redrockrascal- dems lost the election due to a bad president and someone worse to replace him- the public expressed their choice-
I'm not from America but from the UK. Here, the slight majority voted for Brexit but evidence suggests that if the choices was made againa year later a different choice would be made.
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spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/27/2017 11:18 pm

    Quoting  :

An unnecessary chore is a great term!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/28/2017 11:08 am

    Quoting  :

But wet sheets will dry out if left for a while!


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
6/29/2017 10:01 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for stopping by.


Tmptrzz 59F  
107038 posts
7/6/2017 10:46 am

I can't stand an unmade bed, and I make it and yes I have lots of pillows on it..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41171 posts
7/6/2017 12:26 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I can't stand an unmade bed, and I make it and yes I have lots of pillows on it..
It's funny how unmade beds divide us!


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