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First Encounter: Public Place or straight to the hotel?  

wincardium 59F  
70 posts
6/18/2021 1:21 pm
First Encounter: Public Place or straight to the hotel?

Would love hear what the ladies thoughts are regarding first encounters.

Do you meet in a public place for a first-time, face--face meeting?

Or do you get right it and meet in a hotel or someone's place?

No judgement. Just curious.

I'd love what the men think as well.

I have met men I did not know in a hotel room the first time, but only a few times, just in case you're wondering.
Public place for the first face-to-face
Straight to the hotel for the first encounter
Straight to his/her place for the first encounter

profcoquin27bis 57M
4323 posts
6/19/2021 5:24 am

voted public place but i had 2 time straigt to the hotel and 1 time straight to her place

Desir4Fire 47M
2389 posts
6/19/2021 7:04 am

I want the lady to feel safe and know that there is no expectation, so public places is the first option

seems6666 51F
4838 posts
6/19/2021 7:54 am

Public place now.. I have met in a hotel once... the bastard did a runner without paying his share of the bill

CleavageFan4U 65M  
69374 posts
6/19/2021 11:33 am

I've met several ladies for the first time in the motel room. On at least three occasions I was nekkid when they knocked on the door.

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seoulswing2 39M/28F
169 posts
6/20/2021 5:56 pm

We usually meet new people in coffeeshop or bar of hotel. After everyone is comfortable we can go to a hotel room.

LongLickerGuy 61M
1 post
6/21/2021 3:37 pm

I guess I'm a little old fashioned. In my life, I've hooked up the same day or night after meeting someone in various places (ie bar, club, school, etc..) That's not uncommon. Most of us have probably done THAT. Why should online be any different? For starters, you're looking at a picture, not a face as you would in real life. And as we all know, profile pics cannot always be trusted. Showing up, no matter where, only to find something totally different than you were expecting, could end up being a massive waste of time, energy and/or resources, depending on the particular circumstance. Until you see the other person with your own two eyes, only then can you get that "first impression". Are you attracted or not? Will you stay to even chat or not? Will you abort immediately? Will you decide it's worth some more time and effort to learn more about the person? For me, as long as I haven't been seriously misled, I have enough respect for people to stay the course, be a decent human being and go forward. I would never be so mean as to say anything offensive. But once the meeting is nearing its final stages, it's time to say whether another get together is warranted or desired. Again, I have enough respect for people, specifically women in my case, to let them know that I am interested or not. Obviously, if I am interested, I'm hoping they will be too. If they aren't, I hope they let me know with the same class and level of respect which I brought to the table. That is the "best case" scenario. Unfortunately, the outcome cannot be predicted. It's a crapshoot either way. So in conclusion, I vote for safe public first meetings. Then, even if it's not a match, both parties should be able to walk away unscathed, with dignity and, hopefully, no damage done.

justme51 70M

6/22/2021 3:13 am

Always in a public place for several reasons. Maybe a kiss hug cop a feel discreetly. I have communicated with a couple of ladies that were only interested in sucking cock. Parking lot or a park did fine.

FoxtrotCalling 54M
58 posts
6/25/2021 11:44 pm

I’ve done all three. I prefer meeting at the hotel. We can start with drinks at the bar before moving upstairs.

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69face69face 42M
19 posts
9/24/2021 7:59 pm

Mmm why not all 3....

Ntcchang1 49M  
2 posts
12/14/2021 9:46 pm

Believe it or not. I met someone through bumble and interacted quite a bit. Chemistry was totally there. I actually met at her place and immediately got down and dirty. It was extremely exciting and satisfying for the both of us.

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