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MightBeThe1ForU 51 F
0  questions
Is the "" or "forceful entry" fantasy appropriate to ask of a gentleman on a one nite stand? - 7/15/2021

Do you think it is too forward to bring up the "" fantasy and role play to a man or woman on a one night stand? I would never want to make someone feel uncomfortable or strange but it would turn me on to actually find a man that could play it out...all the way out...lol and not feel weird or scared.

9 response(s), 11 votes
Are prostitutes dead roots????????? - 7/15/2021

After reading the article written by 3694u2, I would like to pose the question to viewers if their experiances of prostitutes where the same. I have had many great times with but have also been on the end of the "clock watchers" time lines. Does intimacy make for a better sexual experiance? Or do woman prefer the "blow and go" method of casual sex????????

8 response(s), 22 votes
How to move on? - 7/15/2021

I have been with the same man now for almost 4 years in Sept. We have one year old together. We broke up last feb. and he slept with someone else and i found out about it. We were still having sex but we were broke up. I can not even begin to tell you how hurt i was but yet i forgave and i stayed. Here lately i have stood my grounds and put my foot down and speak when i dont like something ...

7 response(s), 5 votes
free2lovetwo 57 C
0  questions
Should we or shouldn't we? - 7/15/2021

We are a married couple who are in BBWMatchMate known as "free2lovetwo". We are not sure if that is where we are supposed to be. I mean is this for real? We have not met anyone yet in person, but responded to few emails. Are we get over our heads involved in BBWMatchMate or should we be looking some where else to fullfill our fantasy. We are affraid of this kind of activity because we are professionals ...

5 response(s), 13 votes
Role playing - 7/15/2021

What is your favorite form of sexual role play? <br> <br> 1. Fantasy <br> 2. <br> 3. Police officer <br> 4. Doctor <br> 5. Teacher <br> 6. Other

4 response(s), 14 votes
Straight guy can't resist transexuals... - 7/15/2021

I am a married white male who can't resist the temptation of a beautiful tran-sexual. Is something wrong with me? I have three you and a beautiful wife, but I am NOT happy. I want to be in a relationship with an extremely feminine tran-sexual person. I wouldn’t want to hurt my wife, but if the opportunity ever presents itself, I will take it.

13 response(s), 27 votes
rm_justron9000 52 M
0  questions
Too much of a good thing? - 7/15/2021

I think it was Groucho Marx who said “I wouldn’t want to be in any club that would have me as a member.” Yet, when I look at purity scores, on women’s profiles, I find that I have more in common with people who are below 30 on this scale. It has taken me about 20 years to get a 20 on this test. I tend to date women who are younger than me, so I sometime have ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
Coming on too strong??? - 7/15/2021

Why is it that some guys decide to write you, even going as far as leaving their , and then end up not following through? I know that some men on this site complain all the time about getting stood up or ending up with just friends. But I've contacted some people, and they don't contact me back - a real live person! What gives???? <br> On another note, I guess I also wonder ...

42 response(s), 112 votes
multiO4ugood 48 M
2  questions
CONDUM HELP? - 7/15/2021

In search of a durable condum? I have problems with breaking. Just when she is making the sounds that make it huge, You look down to see shreds. I can change it like a tire in nascar. I don't want a trojan , once in the gate it splits and lets all the soldiers out. I'm not king kong but suficient. Can anyone help?

3 response(s), 0 votes
Philosophical question: - 7/15/2021

If a man 'hires' a to give him a blowjob, is he cheating on his significant other ? Is it just buying a service, like getting your car washed and vacuumed ? And if you think it is cheating, is it any different from just masturbating, and thinking about the hottie @ work ?

15 response(s), 9 votes
rm_Ace10583 57 M
0  questions
Do married women want other discreet/safe sex? - 7/15/2021

I'm married, w/, no divorce or separation in my plans, and want more, but don't know how much more. Possibly just sex, but more likely sex combined with a special friendship and respect, but with an understanding. Discreet, safe, and a PLUS for both of us. <br> Are there any women out there interested? Really? <br>

1 response(s), 0 votes
rm_darrenalive 57 M
0  questions
Is it wrong to want to have fun before i have a serious relationship - 7/15/2021

I was married for 13 yrs now ive been single for the last 3 1/2 but im still not ready to settle down yet because i enjoy my freedom to do as i want...I enjoy the things i do however i do get lonely but i still want to have fun for awhile...is that bad?Am i being selfish to myself and , i dont play women as i want to have a serious relationship i am very upfront with them ...What do you ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
rm_juscurious44 63,1963 C
1  question
Single parent; 2 jobs and 2 . - 7/15/2021

Is there hope for a 44 year old swm to find a soulmate given these circumstances? I Need two jobs to survive and give my some sort of a life. what little time is left has to be divided between thwm, and possibly someone to have fun with (if i get lucky enough to find her.)Though i dearly love my who love me very much i still long for an intimatacy i can only share with an adult female Any ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Sexless Marriage - 7/15/2021

I'm sure that my problem is not an orignal one, but I would like to know the general opinion about it. I am married to my high school sweetheart. She is a good person and does not have a dishonest bone in her body. I love her and I know that she loves me. We have one and another on the way. My problem is that the only time we had sex was when she was ovulating. From the time we found ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
PlayWithMe56 56 F
0  questions
why all of a sudden did he drop off the face of the earth? - 7/15/2021

I met someone here on BBWMatchMate in March '04. For the most part we were in contact with each other at least 4 times a week. Since I'm married, he'd call me at work or I'd call him during the day and and we'd schedule a time when we can meet up and everything was cool. He has and know for a fact he is coach to his 's football team, plus he works nights, so I know his time is not all his own, ...

11 response(s), 6 votes
Sexually repressed UK women - 7/15/2021

Why is it that 84% of UK women freely admit to being sexually repressed/naive, could it be because they have been politically corrupted into believing that: "What men & women do, in giving & receiving sexual pleasure (the opposite of which is sexual displeasure/!)is obscene, depraved, corrupt, perverse & WHORISHLY PORNographic (the Historically correct 6C GK definition of the word PORN = ...

6 response(s), 1 vote
My husband and friend cheatted me - 7/15/2021

I was very happy when my husband has transferred to this place, because I met my school days best friend after a long time. She is married to this place with a businessman, quite older to her. After reaching here, we are meeting very often, as my husband use to drop me to her house while going to his factory. Some time she use to come to me and we use to chat for hours together. Few months ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
gangang/2nd time round? - 7/15/2021

some time ago i wrote a story to you regarding my 21 yr old girlfriend taking 5 older guys at our cottage on the coast it was a complete cum fest and now she says she wants to do it again. is she turning into a cock hungry ? she is 21, slim, shaven, long hair and very sexy im 45 and service her needs daily and she says shes madly in love with me. can i believe her?

15 response(s), 63 votes
Role Playing - 7/15/2021

Here is my question! I love roll playing; you know doctor/nurse, cop/, Teacher/student etc. I have actually spent days planning these little scenarios! So is this a fetish or should I seek psychiatric help! LOL

11 response(s), 11 votes
fundiscreetfun 58 M
10  questions
Married and sexually starved - 7/15/2021

What do you do if you married and not getting enough sex. Masterbate, visit a , find a fuck buddy or just suffer. Don't tell me to speak to my partner I've tried that

46 response(s), 92 votes
CuriousCoupl2601 52,1958 C
1  question
Unusual Fantasy.........Does anyone else have this one? - 7/15/2021

I'm the female counterpart of us, and have had an unusual fantasy for a very long time. My husband is aware of it, but neither of us know how to go about even attempting to fulfill this one. <br> I have a fantasy of being . Like I said, unusual. It's all about the powerlessness, I guess. Anyway, are there any of you out there that have had the same fantasy and have actually ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
juiceylover_619 49 C
8  questions
goodie girl or nasty ? - 7/15/2021

Being a nasty little slut makes my pussy soaking wet. love to be put in my place. please fuck me and do whatever u desire. is being naughty, nasty, and, sluty, a good thing? or should i keep my wild- side hidden?

39 response(s), 117 votes
how do I - 7/15/2021

how do i save my marriage? <br> right now im deployed in iraq and am taking a long hard look at my marriage. we have been together for 5years now and have three . she is a stay at home mom. and does not like sex she has no drive and it hurts. i know im a rather tall man6'9" and above average cock size but cmon. the woman has no intrest in sex. in the five years whe have been ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
married sexy mommy!!!! - 7/15/2021

What is wrong with having ? I have and I love them and I would do anything in the world for them but people I am human I have needs and I am sexy not to be shallow or anything!!! Men around here see I have and they find out they are mine they are back off and say to bad well they are losing out>

6 response(s), 4 votes
babybear150101 53 C
4  questions
oral sex from guys - 7/15/2021

Ladies how many of us has heard from a guy that they are really good at oral but out of all honesty they SUCK at it? I hate more than anything when a guy leaves you all sloppy and wet (and not from me getting off) or he is down there making all kinds of slirping noises it reminds me of a licking his balls.

22 response(s), 25 votes
Vasectomy? - 7/15/2021

My wife is about to have our third , and while I love my very much I think that three are plenty. I'm considering a vasectomy and wondered if there are any others out there who have experience with this procedure and what you all think about it?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Why stifle a question's? - 7/15/2021

I for one am tired of old men trying to stifle a question about race, especially from the young people.. Why is it ok for a 40+ black woman to ask, "Does white men like to sleep with black women?", and yet it is wrong for a 20 yr old to ask, "Does a guys race effect his size?"..She's called a racist, others are called morons and then saying they will be glad when all the voting is gone? ...

14 response(s), 31 votes
Is this love? - 7/15/2021

I've been online dating for a few months now and as far as I'm concerned I'm totally and completely in love with this guy, no doubt about his feelings as well, although he's much more reserved in expressing his emotions. But what I really want to understand is why he never ever says anything that would lead us to more sexual discussion, some hot chat... As soon as I try to tease him a ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
wetnwild69fine 50 F
5  questions
Breast Feeding a grown man? - 7/15/2021

My boyfriend loves to suck my tits (what man doesn't enjoy this activity)What has me concerned and leads me to post this question is that he likes to pretend that he is breast feeding wich totaly wierded me out at first, but I must admit Iv'e come to enjoy , and what has me worried is the fact that I have begun to lactate.I breast fed all of my for at least one year each but that was 9 ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
are the stories true? - 7/15/2021

Often as a , I was told of a time when men and women got to know each other before jumping in the sack. Now I'm not talking about a couple of dates, and hazzah! I am talking about a nice chunk of time. I am just curious because for the last couple of years, I have been looking for this breed of female. I am just curious really. Do they have some gathering place? I don't mean women who ...

11 response(s), 36 votes