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AFriendToJoinUs 55 / 53 / C
"Happily Married and Seeking a Friend to join us"
Castaic, California, United States
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Member Since: December 30, 2021

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AFriendToJoinUs 55/C
Castaic, California
We are an average white couple in their 50s (her 52 / him 54) and are looking for a woman to befriend and perhaps join us for fun times at home as well as vacations.

My Ideal Person We are looking for a woman that is just as comfortable around our pool having a BBQ as she would be on the Vegas strip. We do like to get away very often on small weekend getaways (Vegas, Palm Springs, Catalina, San Diego, San Fransisco, etc) and wanting to bring her along to enjoy our times and locations as well. We also really like cruises and wanting to include them as well. Of course baby steps at first to build trust and a Friendship. Wife is a size 14 and is wanting to find someone around / close to that size since that is what she is attracted to. Just wanting to find a normal (whatever that is) woman that is interested in having the best of both worlds.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 55/53 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Castaic, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Birthdate: April 3, 1967 April 7, 1969
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm 5 ft 7 in
Body Type: A little extra padding A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college High school graduate
Occupation: Business Owner Business Owner
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 38 / 85 C
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair? Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Shaved Medium
Eye Color: Blue Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses Glasses