If you don't know how to have a normal non Sexual conversation then please keep looking. I'm a lady first and a kinky slut second. I am looking for a connection with someone. I need affection and tenderness. I do meet up but only for the right guy or girl. I've been in this lifestyle for some time. I am a large woman and working on changing that but in the mean time If that isn't what u like then no problem. I want someone who is into all of me. My vanilla likes are anything fun that makes me laugh. I just want to get out of my house and live life. As for a sex life I have been open to experiencing what I can. I have had some wonderful experiences and would like more. Please don't ask me what I'm into because I won't respond. The point of getting to know each other is talking and getting to know each other. No fun in figuring it out in the first 2 minutes. I like someone with wit, sense of humor and sarcasm. You can find out all you need to know if you have the ability to make me smile and blush a little and I don't mean sex. But I'm not going to give you a list of my likes and hard nos either. There is no fun in that. I don't believe I've ever had a relationship where the guy was affectionate. Not sure why that is. I yurn to feel what it is like. So that would be a big plus. On the flip side. I can be a down right slut where I cannot get enough. I love kinky and taboo. I love role playing and playing out what we can. I'm wondering if there is really a man like this anywhere. I wonder.

My Ideal Person NO SUBS OR SWITCHERS. PLEASE
I want to find a passionate and affectionate man who has a dominate personality. In the bedroom I want him to be passionate and soft but can also flip a switch so to speak and take control and ravage me. I want to be wanted so much he can't keep his hands off me.
In my day to day life I am very dominate; even when I don't want to be it is expected, so I yearn to find a person I can give over complete control. I enjoy immediate pain but not long lasting pain. In my regular life I follow all the rules. But I find in play I get very turned on by fetishes and the more taboo the better. I don't have specifics so to speak but want to explore whatever I can. I am open to trying almost anything. There are very few things I won't try but only a few I promise. I need a connection with a man that lives near me, who wants a close relationship, who is fun and who actually wants to see me. NO smokers as I have asthma. Also the only man I can give over all my control to has to have a dominate personality. No switcher. Once u r my sub I will never let you dominate me. I am attracted to tall men so no men under 5'9. And I am more attracted to Caucasian men no disrespect to anyone else.
I'm starting to think I may not find him.