Been spending most of the last years concentrating on raising my two , who are now in college and near the fly the nest stage. Really just trying this not to be on the rat race of bedding many but to have some long overdue fun and just see where it all leads. Haven't allowed much "me" time lately, and thought I would and see if it's worth venturing from my man cave.

My Ideal Person Positive people are really more my match...and despite my flares at being outgoing at times, I also have the reserved side that holds me back that makes me wonder what it would be like to be the pursued rather than the pursuer of a compatible sexy lady.

I really, although I do enjoy live music and the party atmosphere, am pretty much over the bar scene. Not going to become Norm at Cheers. Although I've been there and done that when I thought that would land me the hot woman of my dreams, lol. So, nowadays, I drink rarely, but do drink. Just not if I'm going to be driving anywhere. I do still smoke but one day might kick that habit with a little focused work. And guess I'm more to meeting somewhere casual to get to know a person...where roaming hands are okay if the mutual attraction is there, but I am flexible.

And, honestly, I've been so not out there meeting people for long enough I would probably have to reacquaint myself to where a great meeting location around the cities would be.

I probably sound like a lot of work with all that, but really I'm a lot more flexible than all that sounds. So don't be frightened, lol.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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