A regular-guy to the world that knows me...closeted/straight to all that know me and I'd just as soon keep it that way. Romantically only attracted to females but sexually...I have been discovering new pleasures, turn ons and attractions since I was about 30. Do I consider myself bisexual or pansexual, or something else? Sure. I've been lucky to enough to have been with a couple of couples over the years that he and she (in both instances) liked mfm play and I've had a couple of guys over the years that enjoyed various levels of m2m play. I'm out of a long-term romantic relationship, and have been for a few months now, and I'm ready to experience some mfm or m2m pleasure again. I'm a patient individual and respectful. Nothing in life that's been worth a damn has happened quickly...at least for me. I'm not keen on one-night stands nor trying to get physical after a few moments of meeting one another. So if that's your flavor, I probably am not who you're looking to meet. I'm a non-pushy, mannerly, and courteous guy. I practice the 'do unto others' mantra. We're here for fun and to experience some pleasure(s), no? I'm not trying to push anybody's boundaries nor create any hard feelings by and for anyone.

My Ideal Person At this point, mf couples are at the top of the list. If you're a married, committed, or fwb-type couple (as long as nobody is cheating or doesn't have the blessing of your significant other[s]), you have my attention. That doesn't mean he has to have some fashion of bi-curiosity or tendencies. And to be clear, I'm not trying to come between a couple nor woo her. I believe in karma...for the same reason I won't get involved with someone(s) cheating, my intention is not to get romantically (or otherwise) involved with her.

If a couple expresses interest in me while he has no intention of guy to guy contact, that's completely fine. I've been there. If he and/or she do want some m2m contact, that's even better.

That said, I'm also open to select (single, divorced, etc) males who are interested in a fwb-type friendship. You: be discrete, masculine (enough...don't take this wrong but I've met a guy or two from this site over the many years that described himself as masculine but when we met his voice(s) and body language were anything but masculine....you don't have to be an ass kicking lumberjack but effeminate guys don't do much for me), non-pushy, and someone I wouldn't mind hanging out with socially on any given evening.

Any and all individuals should be healthy, hwp, social drinkers (at most), respectful, and not looking for a one-and-done, quicky. I'm looking for a somewhat regular meeting up and looking for quality over quantity. Should I meet a couple or a fwb buddy, I'm not looking for additional partners. I'm not looking for romance but, just the same, I'm not one to have multiple partners at the same time.