MY PHOTOS: I seriously took them home alone by myself. No one took them of me including my lips, and I have said that but I guess some folks think I'm lying. I am sorry - I really have no reason to lie. (Sept 2023): Please note lately - I have been traveling back and forth from Harker Heights to Houston and so if I send you a flirt in the Killeen and/or Harker Heights area - I am not a paying member now and you can message me first. Thank you for understanding. Also, because a female is on this site does not mean what she writes in her profile does not matter. Some of the very same people you see on here are on other "vanilla" sites, and they are not honest on those sites. I would like to know the truth & explain my own. Thank you for understanding that. 8/15/22: Hate to make this longer (and now I sound B**chy too - which I'm not - but I will not respect anyone that is a LIAR) - so if you are married and YOU lie to me - I WILL tell your wife. Hopefully, that scares you enough to stop bullshizzing me!!!! I'm sick of IT. I came on here - as I have said - for honestly - to go out with someone that is not DEAD (yet) - LOL. ~~~~~~~ On the want - I can no longer have them myself (as a result of a female surgery). However, I would adore a friend's and/or help with them if they are in a friend's or partner's life (to clear up that answer). 1. I have had both Moderna Vaccine Shots. 2. I do not have my picture on here because I work in the public, and often times with Houston VIPS; Sports Figures; Celebrities; and/or other Well Known Personalities. I have been either behind the scenes or underneath or backstage at almost every major venue in this City. I also have another role in owning my own small company in one of these industries, and I am the sole owner, and I can't risk judgements (as you can surely understand). And while I sound like I am some kind of wealthy - I am not. My industry has been decimated by Covid. I can't tell you the number of paid commitments that have been cancelled since all of this started. I am STD/Disease/Drugs/Smoke-Free. :) And I like to call myself a "Prissy Tomboy" - I will golf in the rain but I don't want mud on my bag. LOL. (I used to be a competitive golfer, and a President of a large chapter of a national female amateur golf organization - have had a handicap card; know the rules, etc.) I love being active - but am also a very cozy snuggler. ~*~*~*~ My original profile re just me and my romantic nature: I took a longer-than-I-should-have break from dating and activities to help some family across country, but I am ready to invest in myself and my fun now. I love to do a lot of things in life, and I am adventurous but yes I still have that other drive too, and I would rather know that I have a partner that is safe, honest, and wants the same things. Ideally, and maybe this is a stretch I would love to meet someone that would want to go to some events with me. I get some interesting invitations and social opportunities.

My Ideal Person MY IDEAL PERSON:
I want someone that is NOT married - that is local to Houston (or the surrounding areas) that I can do a variety of activities with - like play dates - events, concerts, and other things that we both want to do together. I am open to meeting a variety of people - to find someone that is crazy about me and vice versa - but I don't want to meet for dinner your one night a month that you are in Houston. That means I couldn't take you to things I get invited to, and that would leave me still alone.

I would love to meet someone who loves music - loves to hear live music - or loves to golf or other outdoor activities and then combine those with the love for other things and/or have a date where there is some mutual attraction, affection, respect (absolutely), and a clear and open conversation of if our "wants" are mutual. There are no wrong answers, but I think we each have a lane we feel most comfortable in.

And honestly, I could use some extra TLC as far as just the kindness because Covid has kept me apart from many that I work with - family is long distance - and friends are either paired up or scared to go out (my gender can be "babies" ) ... and so I could use an extra hug too.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Massage, Intercourse is a Favorite.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Cleanliness / Non-Smoker

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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