Hi there! We are a "we". He is bisexual, and I am straight. We have been together for over three years, and are very committed to each other. We would like to find a decent per who would like to join us on occasion for dinner, drinks, and maybe a little bedroom fun. We are NOT looking for a boyfriend, but a friend with benefits would be ideal. Basically, someone we're comfortable with in and out of the bedroom. A little about us: we have two s, and so most of our time is spent with them, operating as a family unit. Because of our s and crazy work schedules, it's difficult to be spontaneous with our time. We have to plan our nights out in advance, and after we get to know someone, we could invite you over after the s are in bed for the evening. We're pretty "average" in our interests. We like movies, board games, BBQing, etc. He loves to talk about cars and video gaming. I am a bohemian, crafty type chick. We don't smoke, although I am using an e-cig after quitting the real thing. We're pretty much homebodies, but have no problem with getting dressed up for a night on the town. We are NOT looking for a couple to play with. We are NOT swingers. Whenever we play, we play together. We receive a lot of messages that say "I'll suck him while you watch.". No. Not okay. Or, the opposite: "He can watch while I do you." No. Not okay. We both want to be equally involved, and if that is something that you are not into, it's best to get that bit of info out of the way. If you are not into being with both a man AND a woman, then let's not waste each other's time. Sorry to sound so harsh about it, but you'd be surprised how often we receive those types of messages. Eventually, we may be trying to find a man to join us that isn't necessarily bisexual, to help fulfill some of my fantasies, but that is not our priority now. It's my husband's turn to have some fun. If you aren't bi, but would like to play, talk to us. When we get to the point of looking for that, we would already know you and be ready to play. Just don't start pestering us about it now. That's not our focus for the time being. If we sound like people you could enjoy hanging out with, please send us a message. We aren't shy. :) Edited to add: Apparently, it needs to be mentioned, but any play that we have with other people will involve condoms. Every time. We are not into bareback and breeding fetishes. We would rather play safe than risk anyone's health. If you can't/won't wear a condom, then you won't be playing with us.

My Ideal Person We would like to find a man who isn't just all about the sex. While, yes, that could become a part of our friendship, we want someone who isn't creepy or weird. We would like someone who actually likes to have conversations before the getting nekkid part.

If you are a gamer, or mechanically inclined, you will probably have a lot to talk about with my hubby. If you are an animal lover, you will score points in my book. (sidenote: we have two kitties and a dog, so if you're allergic....sorry)

If you're married and/or in an open relationship, that's totally fine. But, if you're married or in any other sort of committed relationship, and they don't know/approve, then we are not the couple for you. We believe in full disclosure, across the board.

My hubby has had a few bisexual experiences prior to being with me, but we haven't explored this side of him together. Not gonna lie...I am nervous about it. But open.

I, myself, have had a few mfm threesomes back in my younger days, and they were fun. I would love the opportunity to eventually share that with my husband, when we are ready for that particular adventure.

You, ideally, are a laid-back liberal type. We aren't too concerned with looks, as long as you shower regularly and avoid Axe body spray (gag!). A genuine smile goes a long way, fellas.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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