I'm a normal, straight, somewhat quiet guy. I have a very good life. It seems unfair to stay in something with someone, whether it's a dating relationship or just a sexual thing, if you're not 100% into it. That realization can suck a little for obvious reasons but just based on observing the crap many people are dealing with it seems the best way to wreck an otherwise good life is to be with the wrong person or someone you're not totally into. That being said, I have learned to be patient and enjoy life even though most of the time I'm doing it alone. I'm a former architect/builder, did really well with it, but I'm not really working anymore and just doing my own things. I stay fit and am very active. Not really into the club scene anymore but I like local hangouts, hiking, biking, kite surfing and I enjoy seeing new places living on my boat whether it's for a weekend or up to a couple of months at a time. The only thing I ask is, please be self-aware enough to not be full of shit. I can deal with and even like a little crazy but 100% delusional, not so much.

My Ideal Person A great smile, witty conversation, and just being sincere and nice is way sexier than anything.

If you're beating the odds at life, you have my respect and that's a big turn on.

Entitled, big egos and presumptuous doesn't do it for me no matter what you look like.

If you want an FWB type of thing I'm down.