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KimbarkSon 71 / M
"“It is never too late to be wise.” - Daniel Defoe"
Poughkeepsie, New York, United States
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KimbarkSon 71/M
Poughkeepsie, New York
One man can be a crucial ingredient on a team, but one man cannot make a team. Kareem Abdul-Jabbar
We rush through life without taking the time to truly appreciate all that is here. I am a lover who takes the time to appreciate the woman who I am with. Sex should not be a microwaved meal. It should be a long simmering meal where the aromas, tastes, and textures can be fully developed. Love making should not be a time to rush. It should be a time of joy and discovery of the scents, taste, and texture of my lover's body and if we are lucky we can find each others' hearts.

My Ideal Person I want a lover. A woman who understands the joy of sex and has fun in and out of bed. She likes to make love to music and wants to be consumed by the act of lovemaking. She understands that good sex takes time, effort, and communication. She needs to let her partner know what feels good and what makes him feel good too. By putting this commitment into love making and we can have a wonderful and fulfilling sensual experience. Let's live in the moment. I am not into violence or simulated violence. No bondage, no slave-master games. Those are just abhorrent to me. Just be a human being with all that entails, not an angel or a devil, but a person with their own strengths, vices, and joys.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
John Coltrane, The Rascals, Ella Fitzgerald, Count Basie, The
Rolling Stones, Anita Baker,

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Being a good human being

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Does Mrs. Dash count?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 71 / male
  • Poughkeepsie, New York, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: October 20, 1951
Travels to: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Hometown: Metro-East, Illinois, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Professional
Race: Black
Religion: Protestant
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, Latin, littleFrench
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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