Changing how I'm using this site for a while. I'm looking for chat buddies. I like to talk about different fetishes, find out what makes other people tick. Don't take this to mean I want to talk dirt. I don't and honestly, I'm terrible at it. I'm after regular 'ole conversation about fetish and kinky things. So, I'm not looking for anything. If I find something I like and want, great, but I'm just here for the entertainment until then. Me? Well, I'm married, first. Yes, he knows. We have an open marriage with NO secrets. I love to try and/or learn new things, sexually or otherwise. I love good music- metal and rock mostly I love good coffee I love good rum! Release the Kraken! I'm a bit of a dork, love to learn, play games- especially strategy, watch a good horror movie. The general consensus is that I'm NOT your typical female. If I politely tell you I'm not interested, respectfully take that and move on. It isn't a challenge to convince me. I'm not trying to sound like an asshole, but it happens enough to be worth mentioning here.

My Ideal Person Local. I cannot stress this enough. I appreciate that you want to or would travel, but I'd like to be able to be spontaneous and not have to make all kinds of arrangements to play.
Fun, drama free, either single or playing WITH PERMISSION. I have a zero tolerance policy for cheaters.
Well hung for the guys. Sorry, it is what it is. LOL
Adventurous sexually. If your idea of kinky is adding a chick or doing it with the lights on, we probably aren't a good match.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Sounding (urethra play), Pegging

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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