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LaceyKittey 32 / T
"Bisexual Trans Girl"
Oakland, California, United States
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LaceyKittey 32/T
Oakland, California
looking for some fun!
I love being with couples! I have lots of experience and am always down for more! I'm a total switch and can bottom/top with anyone it clicks with! ;-) In practice though, I am a bit more of a sub/bottom with men, Also with women, along with hookups, I would also very much be down for romance with a queer woman or a close friendship (potentially) with benefits with a more straight woman!! Yes I am trans. It's my life every single day. I am a very sexual person and I do understand that my body is atypical for most people, but at a certain point, I'm just looking for people who see me as a woman...just one with different anatomy. I understand that you probably watch trans porn sometimes and may fetishize trans women, but when talking to me, if you treat me like a fetish and not a human being just trying to live (and get laid) then I won't be interested. I've noticed that the further out things are scheduled (with new people), the less and less likely they are to actually happen, so I definitely get the most excited with people with flexible schedules who can meet SOON. If you do want/need to schedule things further out, I understand, but please don't blow up my phone with messages if I won't even get a chance to meet you for some time. In general, I don't really know if I'm interested in someone until I meet them in person, so I prefer to share any more detailed information about myself (beyond what you need to be interested in a meeting) in person, not over text beforehand.

My Ideal Person WOMEN:
I am honestly open to almost anything with you! I am polyamorous and I am open to friendships, romance, friends with benefits, or a casual encounter. I am a switch and while I’ve rarely topped since coming out (7 years ago) I do really enjoy it and would love to do more. I also would very happily show up to your place just to eat you out!

I've hooked up with many couples and honestly, every single time has been vastly different and I'd be open to 90% of them. I guess the absolute ideal outcome is finding a couple that I have both social and sexual chemistry with and who I could develop a real friendship with and have regular fun.

My favorite times have always started with having some chill get-to-know-eachother time, usually with drinks, food, weed, etc. That often but not always includes some slowly increasing sensual touching.

From there things can go a few ways.

With couples who are both really experienced with threesomes and/or trans women, I absolutely love being the unicorn center of attention (at least to start) with the couple slowly touching me more and more and seducing me, often with lots of kissing with both of them.

With couples where the guy is super experienced but not the woman, usually the guy and I (whether explicitly verbally or through body language) will bond early and realize we are on the same page...and from there, I like to focus a bit on bonding emotionally a little with the woman...and let that slowly lead to making out with her for awhile...usually with the guy watching (I LOVE being watched!). Eventually the guy will join in, and often he’ll act as a dom on some level and the woman and I follow his direction, usually beginning with both of us going down on him.

From there (in either scenario), I love going down on people and I LOVE being touched and groped by multiple people at the same time. I don’t use my clit to top often (in part because getting and staying hard can be tricky with hormones), but I do really enjoy it, but because of the difficulties staying hard, I generally can’t top with anal, but can still top a vagina. I also like having my ass fucked. I’ve only actually done it a couple of times, but I LOVED having a guys dick in my ass while my clit is in his partner’s pussy!

Things can be more or less kinky or casual or slow and I’m open to a lot of things, but that’s the general idea! My fantasy situation is finding a couple who wants to continue to get to know me and play with me and who I can build a real friendship with, but I don’t go into anything expecting more than a day/night of fun.

SINGLE MEN: I am particularly open to and looking for a few things! Let me know if any of these stand out to you!!! 1. A video game buddy who has me over, we play video games, and I suck his dick 2. An older man who wants to treat me like a princess both inside and outside of the bedroom...who will do things like take me shopping (not necessarily anywhere expensive), give me massages, etc. 3. A Daddy/Grand-Daddy type roleplay (family roleplay or not) to treat me like your princess/daughter/slut (similar to number 2) 4. Consensual Non-Consent: I want you to take me out or have me over and (unless I say a safeword), keep trying to touch me and pressure me more and more and only take "no" as "not right now, but keep trying"...I'm ONLY interested in doing this with safewords and generally not with men who would naturally act like this without safewords...but I want the (roleplay) experience of a pushy older man who wants me so bad he'll do anything to have me

If you are the type of person who will immediately ask the gender(s) of my roommate(s) so you can then try to have a threesome with us, just move on...I won't feel comfortable with you. If I wanted a threesome with my roommate(s), I would advertise as a couple/group, not as an individual...and if I am not enough for you and your thought is to pressure someone else in my life to join to make it more exciting, that's just fucked up and you should move along.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 32 / TS/TV/TG (Transgender)
  • Oakland, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: December 19, 1989
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Software Engineer
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Bra Size: 40 / 90 C
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Other Hair Color
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: