My Ideal Person Funny, smart, HONEST (if you choose to lie to me, then know that I will choose to never trust you or trust that you are telling the truth. Even if the truth is going to hurt me... The lie you tell instead will always hurt me more), young (or at least young at heart DAMMIT!), cute, silly, a man's man but isn't afraid to be sensitive when it's appropriate. Act however you want on your own time but let me know I'M THE PERSON who is important to you when you're with me. Someone who lets me know he's PROUD to stand next to me. Lucky, even. Someone who WANTS to introduce me to his friends and family. I don't want to feel like you're embarrassed or ashamed of me. (Which may not be the case at all, but if you fail to say "I want you to meet someone... This is "Lesels McLooneyTunes" when your friends come over or when we run into your Aunt Ethel at Walmart... You may as well be saying "Sorry Aunt Ethel, but this girl doesn't mean squat to me and I'm ashamed to be seen in public with her!"). A man who defends me. Especially when I'm not present to defend myself. If someone is talking shit about me, I would hope you feel the need to take up for me and set the dickhead who's talking the shit straight on my behalf. And not because I may find out what you said or didn't say, but because you are a gentleman and that's how a man is supposed to react to someone who is insulting his woman. I am always loyal and I expect and deserve loyalty in return. Someone who doesn't take himself too seriously and isn't afarid to laugh at himself. I'm not a high maintenance kind of bitch. Quite the opposite actually! I don't need shoes, clothes, purses or jewelry, etc.... But I DO want and NEED to feel important and special, especially to YOU! You don't have to spend all kinds of money on me, get my hair did, my pedicure, groom my teeny tiny Shitz-A-Doodley Fuckin' Do doggy or shower me with gifts! (Hold on now.... a gift or surprise every ONCE IN A WHILE is awesome though... And I'm easily pleased. Something as simple as my favorite candy bar will make me smile just as much as some gigantic gesture of a gift. Actually the candy bar is probably the better gift to give ME. It's not WHAT you've bought for me... It's that you were THINKING OF ME WHEN I WASNT AROUND. That's what makes this girl feel special!). In other words... Just give me the attention I need and deserve and I'll be happy. And if I'm happy, then you'll always be happy.

And ANY man who puts his hands on a woman as if she were a man, is NOT a man in my eyes. I know a lot of bitches be crazy and straight up act a fool and some need a good slap in the face. But unless I'm coming at you like a man, you better not THINK about coming at me like one.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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