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Murph3102 55 / M
"Looking for a regular friend with benefits."
Clive, Iowa, United States
 
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Murph3102 55/M
Clive, Iowa
Introduction
Bi-male here looking to see what is out there. As for myself I’m in a relationship that is satisfying for one part of me. There is another part of me that is seeking a different type of engagement and or satisfaction. I’ve been involved with a few others who are in the same situation that I’m in. I’m not looking to hurt anyone or change anyone’s situation. I’m looking to find another to make a new friend, a friend with benefits no strings attached, and or a private relationship between adults (this would be the preferred). From behind the keyboard I can be a bit more open and free in conversation. Having a conversation though takes two people to be interacting. One person carrying a conversation is something different. When it comes to meeting for the first time, if we’ve had an engaging conversations, I can be like old friends meeting again after so long. Otherwise I could appear more reserve. It takes time to build a connection. As for me yes I’m big and tall middle aged dad bod. My interests are broad ranging and I’m open minded. I enjoy art, humour, movies, reading, food, board and card games, swimming, bicycling, horseback riding, golf (although I haven’t been out in a while in both of the last two examples) to name a few. Just really the gentleman next door. As for intimacy the perfect scenario would be to enjoy each other’s companionship on all levels. If interested it would be agreeable if you cared to start conversation.

My Ideal Person Looking for similar demeanor as my own (respectful, caring, pleasant, mindful) with a small panache of agreed upon excitement for both.
Additionally My preference in an adult friend is a non-smoking, formally educated, free from diseases and drugs. This individual can be married and understands what it means to be discreet. After all an adult friendship of this kind avails itself to those experiences/feelings that could be missing elsewhere.
Looking to connect with that right person to meet up with and have some great times. Would prefer to find someone close in age and a normal body type. You don't have to be the most athletic or thinest. In fact finding someone who is normal (has extra padding) is realistic to me. Personality/mindset is a great measure of an individual to me than what is on the outside. Don't misunderstand I still take care to prepare and dress for the occasion (some understand it as performing your daily ablutions).

Information
  • 55 / male
  • Clive, Iowa, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: August 1, 1968
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 4 in / 193-195 cm
Body Type: BBM
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Catholic
Have Children: Prefer not to say
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None