40s. Nice looking. Easy to be around. Not hard to look at. Confident. Flexible. Clean cut. Well mannered. Appreciative and offerative of discretion. I try to stay in shape, and appreciate women who do the same. Don't confuse that with an expectation of perfection. Nothing's more attractive to me than a chesty lady with a little padding. Not into BBW. All about style, class, grace, and manners. Prefer hot sensuality over kink. Prefer an out of the bedroom such that the bedroom connection is enhanced. I generally take the majority of my pleasure from giving pleasure. Really enjoy the mfm dynamic, as it's essentially "all about her" in my mind, which is consistent with the giving attitude that I have sexually. All THAT said, yes, I realize many women love to be "taken". So I can handle being the taker as well. I'll do what I say. I don't chicken out. I love to play. Nothing to me is hotter than consenting adults deciding to share a pleasurable evening simply because they are attracted to each other, and want to experience one another. I don't take myself or this site too seriously. If you're a gold member on this site, this SHOULD be as easy as: 1. Establishing mutual attraction 2. Establishing the existence of sexual chemistry 3. Establishing a time, date, and place to enjoy each other's company. I'm also patient with ladies that turn me on, fully aware that just because this is a swingers site, some romance may be in order. I actually prefer that, and believe it makes the sex better. Should enough connection and chemistry exist such that you believe exclusivity is in order, i would consider that for the right lady.

My Ideal Person While there are no deal breakers here, my ideal woman is educated (via it formally or otherwise), a little worldly, confident, and neither dominant or submissive by nature. Rather, she takes her "Q's" in that regard situationally. She'll likely have pretty nails and cute shoes. Love a feminine woman. Love ladies that are publicly reserved, but have a lil potty mouth in the bedroom. LOVE BEING COUGAR'd!! Always have, ever since the 38 year old neighbor every 17 year old guy dreamed about took the time to teach me how to please a woman. Love attentive lovers, and ladies that are vocal about what they want and expect. Nothing's hotter than watching a lady "let herself go" sexually (enjoying two guys, or otherwise living out some fantasy). More of a sensualist than a kinkster, but am not too old to learn new tricks. My ideal lady is that milf that turns heads, knows it, and is turned on by overhearing a group of college guys talking about what they'd like to do to her. Prefer a little weight over super skinny. I don't smoke, but find sexy woman who do smoke (politely) sexier for it - tells me they are risk takers. Love ladies who've had a lil work done. It tells me they want to look great for their lover. I notice things some guys don't. Good make up. Nails. Trendy hair. Love bubbly personalities.

Interested again in style, class and grace. While I've only had one experience outside of my race, and that was 30 years ago, by all means, if you're an AA lady who fits the above bill, I'd absolutely like to talk to you.