I am involved and she does not know. Not looking to change that or my situation. I would like to have a true friends with benefits situation. Not saying it is a deal breaker if we are not friends. It would be cool to just hang and if something happens ok and if not ok. I have many fantasies or things that turn me on. I don't judge anyone for anything they do. We all have things that turn us on and some are not for everyone. Also it is possible that something turns you on but you don't do it.... I am an open book so hope to hear from you.