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PolyLama 47 / M
"Not the typical guy on here..."
Riverside, California, United States
 
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PolyLama 47/M
Riverside, California
Back to my Riverside home in January, often traveling to Chicago, Charlotte and elsewhere
Introduction
Big fan of complete honesty and positively impacting situations. I'm a good time no matter where I am! Non-monogamous relationship anarchist who occasionally has a female partner for expanded experiences. Have my own place, own businesses, mostly control my free time. I've been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years. Partnered, single, bull, boy-toy, D/s roles - I've happily been a number of things for different people. Single guys are a dime a dozen, and I know it, so if I get invited somewhere, know I will stick to plans, respect the situation and be as decent or as naughty as desired by you. Fun and amazing experiences are what I'm after. Into ongoing friendships or relationships, but not uncomfortable with one-time fantasy-fulfillment. I'm pretty open-minded. Willing to voice verify, meet in public, meet-ups or clubs, become friends or whatever works best. I'm also a blast with clothes on, by the way! I make for great arm candy, can hold a conversation and often find good adventures to participate in. Black and white ethnicity, so I don't know how that works for those of you seeking BBC, but if BhalfBC works...hi!

My Ideal Person GGG. Women or couples are my preference. Open to invites from groups and clubs on here as well. I'd prefer something that might be ongoing, but if you're into the one-and-done thing, I'm not above a single night of fun. Prefer my MFM situations where the focus is on her. Couples where men are driving the action - please make sure she's interested in doing this at all.

Open to your fetishes and desires! Compersion is so big for me, that I'm completely turned on by helping you accomplish what you're looking for. Depending on the situation, I'm open to filming, pictures, etc, if you can be honest about the endgame.

Please be HWP, have at least a picture in your profile or a willingness to share them shortly after contact begins and interested in a good time! Hopefully you're here because you like this lifestyle and want good experiences. Let's do that. I'm not looking to play around online, or just add friends to my network or anything like that. I AM REAL.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
The idea of a woman inviting me to her office for sex has always
been alluring to me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Interests doesn't mean "have to have"

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Thanks to all the celebrity blogs, the list is getting longer
and longer...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 47 / male
  • Riverside, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 31, 1976
Travels to: Riverside, California, United States
Hometown: Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: entertainment
Race: Black
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, BedroomFrench
Hair Color: Hair? What Hair?
Hair Length: Shaved
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Contacts
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