Eclectic: 1. Deriving ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources: his musical tastes are eclectic If I had to find the perfect adjective to explain myself it would be eclectic. We have something in common. We have both managed to find the worst online dating site EVER ! lmao lol lol and iM not even kidding. Its like Lowered Expectations ( Living Color) in here . Today: wake up, get coffee and chat my barista up for a minute. 11:00 am go to Seattle Art Museum to see the Basquiat exhibit. 1:00 pm buy some shoes. That’s right I love shoes. 4:00 pm go to friends house to mess around on his new DJ system (doing an 80’s night in January at Capitol Hill club) 7:00 pm working Indie Rock show. Tomorrow: Take hiking by the lake. Acupuncture appointment. Go hang with sick friend in the VA (we have a standing chess game going on) Saturday: Dinner with a friend and Seattle Symphony. Sunday: Some Hip-Hop art show thingy on in Sodo . Well you get the idea. I’m all over the damn place. I can’t imagine being or just liking one thing when there are SO many things in the world. My interests vary from one thing to the next. I’d say music is on the top of that list. When I say music I mean ALL kinds of music. I’m in preproduction for a music podcast as we speak. It’s a show about all music and the industry of music. I’m not saying I have to meet someone who is super versed in music, but rather someone who is willing to at least explore that world as well as art and theater and cinema and all things artistic. I go to a lot of shows and would hope to meet someone who would dig on that. A perfect morning would consist of us sitting at a favorite café. Sipping coffee and discussing some awesome show we had seen or are going to see. Maybe some wild ass paradise island we are going to travel to, love the tropics. I love someone with opinions. Someone willing to share those opinions and entertain others opinions. Banter is always welcome. Someone who is passionate and shows their passion. PDA’s are welcome. I just want to meet someone that I can bounce off. She can bonce off me, sure in bed too lol. Show me something of life and I will show you some things as well. Let’s travel, laugh, love, and rage against the night. Don’t be scared cause I will take you by the hand and you will know I’m there. I will hold you and you will hold on to me. There will no longer be that empty space. So look! I didn’t wanna bring up the whole divorce thing and in the past when online dating I never understood why people identified as “divorced” I mean its like saying “Hi I’m a high school drop out HI” what is the relevancy? But I get it now. It say’s “hey I did this. I was brave enough and am capable enough and committed enough to have been married” BUT! I learned from it as well and believe me I put in the work. I’m not gonna lie and say it was a sh*tshow. It wasn’t. For the most part it was great and I loved being married. But alas I married the wrong person, just took a little bit of time to figure that out. Now I know how important connection is. Having it, building it, finding it and keeping it. Okay now this is starting to read like my journal lol. I’m sure you understand. Connection mmmmh hmmm gotta love it! We could sit here for weeks typing and emailing back and forth and back and forth. But I feel that a huge part of the experience is actually getting to know someone in person. Face to face , cheek to cheek. That’s’ the REAL foreplay. The meeting. The café. The test. The art of the date. Its just a date. Two adults walking side by side, talking, learning about one another and if the mood strikes us we can hold hands and skip and if not we hug and say goodnight. Also I hope you understand that sometimes it really is all about location location location lol. Sorry but I just cant see trying to date someone who lives 20-40 miles away. Prefer someone within the city limits. I mean that’s where all the best skipping goes on anyway, everyone knows that. SO lets meet up and see what happens. Magic, maybe chemistry maybe we just have a nice coffee date and hopefully walk away two smarter people for the effort. Or maybe we fall madly in love and skip off into the twilight. Go big or go home right? I feel like I’m missing something. Hmmm! Oh YEAH it’s the part were I have lived a well-lived life. Met and have been blessed by wonderful friends and family. Have loved and been loved. Have been blessed to work in the industry of music and theater and surrounded by talented vivacious amazing souls. The part where I have gotten a chance to travel all over this great blue world, swim in cobalt blue oceans, ski mountains that kiss the heavens. Ride free on an iron as well as an Arabian across great plains. And the part where I long to find many more such adventures hopefully with ….. well maybe you. SMILE ! PS I don’t drink or drug. If you do I’m okay with it. But I’m only okay with it if you are okay with it. Meaning only you yourself know to what level you drink or smoke. I’m not here to judge. In turn I’m not here to BE judged either. Just want to meeto someone spiritually and emotionally fit that’s all.

My Ideal Person I have realized over the years that I need a certain percentage of girl/women.

40% urban, shit kicking, music loving, at LEAST one tattoo if not all over, likes all things city.
25% country, likes all things country.
25% freaky, maybe more.
and 10% open minded.
It's a good ratio.

Age isn't super important, its more about the mind and soul. If you are a bit older, but you are resigned to acting your age all the time, well we probably aren't a good match. I have some years left and I might wanna get stupid with those years. Act silly, go to un age appropriate events. I'm not talking about being immature all the time. Im just saying pull the stick out.
Then again if you are younger, my last girlfriend was 35, don't be too much of a spaz lol lol
I guess it's just about balance.

One last thing. Im not trying to have a long distance relationship. Make no mistake I don't use the word "relationship" lightly. It's what I want.
So once you are done searching through all the bullshit out there. Lets chat

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