I had been on (in the past) when in a relationship, and now sort of feeling things out on my own. In no hurry to get naked.

My Ideal Person Would be fun, energetic, 25-45, intellectually stimulating as well as sexually, height to weight proportionate or a little curvy for females. Big can be beautiful but it doesn't usually work to get me going. I would prefer non- smokers/drinkers..or at least willing to not drink and smoke around me. For men..not really interested in single guys at this point and even the guy in the couple is almost secondary. but I do prefer the dynamic of a loving and secure couple that can have fun as opposed to the higher percentage of drama found in dealing with singles. .