I am married and play alone. She's not involved in any way. I am seeking likeminded people who want to have safe fun, are a little kinky, and are respectful of others boundaries. I believe fun can be had with both sexes. I do consider myself to be straight, with some bi-curious behavior. I am disease free and would like to keep it that way. Discretion is a must and will also be respected. I am open to meeting other single and married people who are my age and older. I am not into meeting people that are younger than 30, unless they are married or in committed relationships as well. I don't want drama and typically, mature people in my age group don't either. When I am not a gold status member, it is difficult to respond to IM and messages. If you have points to spare so we can chat, that would be appreciated. Otherwise, we'd have to get creative and find a different way to chat.

My Ideal Person Clean, responsible, no hard drugs, easy going. No mind games or time wasters.
I would like to connect with the following types of people:

A woman who isn't afraid of a casual no no-strings, fwb situation. Mid-30s and up, isn't hung up on the fact I am married. Care-free chats and meetings, great sex, and can keep things casual and drama-free.

A married couple, looking for a bi-sexual threesome. Both want to play, and both want to keep things casual and carefree. No expectation of my wife wanting to play or find out. She isn't in the same space mentally as I am. (maybe one day that changes for us).

Discretion is a must and safety is a top priority. No pain, nothing illegal, just consenting adults not afraid of taking the occasional risk. I don't mind the long game, planning and making sure things are a good fit, but there is something to be said for spontaneous hook ups that are quick, fun and uninhibited.

If you view and have read my profile, don't be shy and just send me a message or IM. If I'm online, I'm more than likely to be interested in chatting and moving forward.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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