We’re seeking couples to form an ongoing friends-with-benefits group. These new friends will share our desire to pursue a relationship inside and outside the bedroom. We’re not Ken and Barbie but…blah, blah, blah. Sound familiar? Like every other profile you’ve read? Let's get down to basics – we’re all here to have sex, right?!?!. Otherwise, why be on a SWINGER site?!?! Funny how people dance around the subject of sex on a sex site. This is a site for swingers - not Match.com or eHarmony. For swingers, sex is the frosting on the friendship cake. If you’re lookin’ for just cake, you’re on the wrong site! Still reading? Great! Let’s explore this swinger thing further. Can we be friends? Of course…Friends with Benefits. Does every encounter have to end in sex? Well...no. But most encounters damn well should. Yeah, yeah – we know the drill. There has to be physical attraction, chemistry between the friends to enjoy the benefits. No one wants to ‘take one for the team’. Seems to us that chemistry starts with profile photos, progresses to a meet and then, if everyone agrees, to hot, steamy sex. But ain’t no chemistry happening if your profile pix are ancient or hidden. So those of you who’ve been swinging since Clinton was in office, update your damn photos! We’ll be having sex with the present day you – not the past you. For this reason we keep g-rated pix on our profile. Don’t know why this isn’t done by everyone. Oh wait…do know why - some couples are afraid of being ‘seen on a swinger site. For you worried types, consider this. For someone to see you on a swinger site…don’t they have to be searching around a swinger site? What the hell were they doing on a swinger site in the first place? Worry less, play more.

My Ideal Person Ok, so suppose we all like what we see on the profile - time to plan a meet. Not looking for a pen pal or to trade photos with some catfishing perv living in his mom’s basement. Let’s just meet for god’s sake - see if that initial photo attraction carries into physical attraction.

And planning a meet shouldn’t require an act of congress. If you’re soooo busy with life, kids, career, yoga, etc., then you maybe you don’t have the time to swing. News flash Mr. and Mrs. Suburban Bliss – we ALL have busy lives outside the lifestyle. If you’re not willing to commit time to swing, why are you on the site?? Just asking.

So let’s say we meet and sparks are flyin’. How might this play-out? Well, sexually we hope! Of course, sex isn’t everything. We also enjoy doing many things 'outside the bedroom' just like you. For example…

Do you enjoy drinks and conversation? Us too, followed by sex
Do you enjoy playing billards? Us too, followed by sex
Do you enjoy seeing movies? Us too, followed by sex
Do you enjoy going to concerts? Us too, followed by sex
Do you enjoy being outdoors? Us too, followed by sex
Di you enjoy time in the pool? Us too, followed by sex

Get the point?

Of course, sex could PRECEDE any of the activities above as well

So, let’s not make this thing any harder than it need be. If you like what you see in our profile, send a message and let’s get the playtime started!