My Ideal Person We are looking to have fun with an individual or couple w NSA. My husband will always be present, is straight and will play as well. I won’t ask him to sit on side and just watch or film ... we are experiencing this together just as most couples do. If you are a couple and are not willing to play with us both then we are not the ones for you. If you are a female and only want to play with me that won’t work for us either ... if you are a male and want to play you will have to share me with my husband ... I won’t ever play alone so please don’t ask. We are very easy going but there are things we won’t bend on.